I know a guy in California, he and his gf find people to have fun with. He says I should try it. Since my much younger live in bf decided he wanted someone his age, I figured now was as good a time as any. I am somewhat of a submissive, shy, and easy-going, I need closeness and touching. Maybe I could have sex with someone else in the room...I have fantasized about it. I like to be told what to do, light bondage- after trust is built, I work out, but I am not in great shape, still trying to find out who I am as a single. I dont mind going to bars, or a quiet restaraunt. Not really into sports. I need to borrow a camera....sorry.