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My Ideal Person What you maybe doing wrong is relying on NoStrings people in your area to just "jump" at the chance to meet.
First understand, these swinger sites are a magnet for males to open profiles with or without a REAL female being involved! The cam viewing program makes this a very popular site.
Swinger sites are a major hit and miss.
More misses then hits, I should add.
Our area of Georgia is like a dead zone for swingers outside the clubs. Clubs give you the advantage of actually talking face to face allowing everyone a little time to get to know one another. BUT, they are expensive and require pre-planning. Time, Place, Reason,MONEY play an important part in our planning.
HERE ARE SOME HELPFUL TIPS THAT WE'VE LEARNED OVER OUR YEARS ON THESE SWINGER SITES.
1st. Read (study) the profile information and e-mails, even to the point of checking the "Groups they belong to and past postings.
Look for prior written verification's (not "friends).
Men have away of writing more provocative then the females. (watch for words like "me, us, I, etc.) OR, Example; she wants to fuck your brains out." =RED FLAG!
Always reply any way.
Husbands on the average, start by setting meetings up. Then later (maybe) the wife responses. (as in our case)
When it does come down to being contacted, by either a couple or a female. In most cases, it's a "spur of the moment", or "she (or husband) are just curious about it" situation.
In a number of those cases, fear, worry, apprehension, or a number of other emotions play into it.
Alway reply with more then a "one liner!"
State a little information about yourself other then just dick size.
Your first reply may or may not give you a second chance. Remember, at this point, no one knows who you are.
Be polite, respectful, choose you wording responsibly when replying to an e-mail.
(NoStrings even posts a no background check, what makes you think anyone else will. Joking!)
The most important 1st step,,
SHOW UP!
Any no-shows, cancellations, being late, will probably be your last opportunity.
Word does get around on these sites.
If and when you do meet face to face, be at your absolute best. (clean looking, polite, gentlemen, etc.) and make sure (in the case of a couple) you include the husband in all your conversation.
A husbands decision plays just as much an important part, as does the wife.
If the sexual interest is mutual and the decision is made, offer to either pay for dinner, drinks, pay or share the cost of the motel room if one is required.
(better chance for a return visit)
(if you thought this was a free ride, obviously, you haven't been out on a date in awhile,,LOL )
AND, always bring your own condoms and lube (if needed) Do not pull these items out at the dinner table or until the decision has been made. LOL
Lets say, your in the room, take the time to continue a little conversation prior to getting un-dressed. You still need to offer a comfort zone.
NOW! My most important requirement! Please take care of the females needs first. Don't be in a hurry and PLEASE, make it last! LOL
Always stay in touch (conversation) with the husband, but focus on the wife. Compliments are great.
When it is over, continue the conversation, and again, don't be in a hurry. There may or may not be a round 2.
There will be numerous suggestion and ideas, interests, but that's what the conversation is all about.
I hope this helps.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Him, ,Boston, ,,
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A FEW, ,But we're not here to talk, A fantasy is something we achieve when a REAL MEETING takes place.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Latex, Massage
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
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Looking For: Men, Women, Couples (man/woman) or Couples (2 women) |
Marital Status: | Married |
Swinger Type: | Sex with others |
Speaks: | English |
Have Children: | Yes. We do not live together. |
Want Children: | Happy with what we have |
His |
Her |
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Birthdate: | June 11, 1954 | January 1, 1965 |
Travels to: | Gainesville, Georgia, United States | |
Relocate?: | No | No |
Height: | 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm | 5 ft 7 in |
Body Type: | Average | A little extra padding |
Smoking: | I'm a light/social smoker | I'm a non-smoker |
Drinking: | I'm a light/social drinker | I'm a light/social drinker |
Drugs: | I don't use drugs | I don't use drugs |
Education: | Some college | Associate degree (2 years college) |
Race: | Caucasian | Caucasian |
Religion: | Not applicable | Not applicable |
Bra Size: | N/A | 34 / 75 C |
Hair Color: | Brown | Brown |
Hair Length: | Bald | Long |
Eye Color: | Brown | Other |