Want to see my face pic?
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Posted:Dec 8, 2020 3:51 am
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2020 3:52 am
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Well, this isn't going to get it for you!
Do you have other pictures other than your feet
7/20/2020 6:31 pm
hey
8/31/2020 7:41 pm
Feet really
11/26/2020 2:05 pm
Why does it matter what I use as a profile pic?
11/26/2020 6:22 pm]
It doesn't, just wanted to see your face
11/29/2020 12:53 pm
Sorry about my other text, can I see a face picture please
12/7/2020 6:44 pm
This guy IS persistent... But, if I was going to show him a face pic, this isn't the way to get it.
I really dislike this 'type' of guy.
I'm sure there are gals as well....
But, I can only speak from my own experiences.
This is the type of guy who feels that any woman on here must be undeserving of decency and respect simply because she's out there looking to get fucked.
Any decent woman would not find herself here!
This short series of messages actually speaks volumes about him, though...
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There is a time and place for everything.
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Posted:Dec 7, 2020 3:51 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2020 3:55 am
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Men...
When the 'place' is the Tampax section of the health and beauty isle... Now is NOT the 'time' approach your female coworker and try strike up a conversation.
Trust !
I was quietly mulling over my options when I heard the unmistakable voice of the Gentle Giant.
"Well, hello there! Fancy meeting you here."
Uh... Yah. What the hell is he doing in the feminine hygiene section?!?
"Hey stranger..."
I was trying act all cool and collected, but I was horrified.
"I thought I saw you standing over here, just thought I'd come say hi. So.... Hi!"
Oh dear God, let this end soon. The only thing worse than awkward silence is awkward conversation with the Gentle Giant.
"I'm glad you popped over say Hi. So, see ya tomorrow then?"
"Yep, I work tomorrow. I'll see you tomorrow!"
I started to breathe a sigh of relief when I heard him start talking to someone else...
"Guess who's here? [Secret_Lade] is here. She's standing right over there..."
Wait... What the hell is going on here?? Is he pointing me out to SOMEONE ELSE???
Sure enough, the next thing I knew the Most Annoying Person Alive was walking up to me to have a long, drawn out conversation.
A conversation in which all I could do was stare at his missing front tooth.
I started running scenarios through my mind on how I could continue to shop for the appropriate box of tampons while still managing to hang on to what little dignity I had left in this scenario.
If there was one moment in time that I would have killed to be menopausal, this was that moment.
I finally decided to just go for it and grab the boxes of tampons do my comparison. If this didn't get rid of him, nothing would...
Yah...
Before I knew it, he was in line behind at the register, still telling about his 81 year mother.
Happy Monday.
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Big Brother is always watching....
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Posted:Dec 6, 2020 3:12 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2020 10:03 pm
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The week long Black Friday deals were good me this year!
One of the deals I managed scoop up was a year of Hulu for only $1.99 a month.... Amazeballs!
The catch??
It's standard membership, which means, it comes along with commercials here and there. I think I can manage stomach a commercial or two if it's going to save me $0. I've been paying full price up until now and, I'm the only one who watches it.
So, there I was, streaming something on Hulu and gathering up the Spawn's laundry wash a load when a folded up piece of paper falls out of the pile.
It looks like a note!
Being the nosey creature that I am, I immediately unfolded it see what it had say...
Was it a passed in class note from a friend who was as bored as she??
Was it a note from a with a crush??
Nope.
It was Spanish homework.
I laughed myself when I saw it and decided I was going translate what her response the question was.
I sat on the couch and google translated..
"My name is [Spawn]. My favorite class is art. When I grow up I want be rich."
Now, I bet you're wondering....
Just what in the hell does all this rambling have do with Big Brother??
Well, here ya go!
Imagine my surprise when that commercial break finally came around, and it was a Walmart commercial in Spanish! That commercial immediately followed by a Kohl's commercial...
Also in Spanish!
I sound a little like the Hippie when he would spew his crazy conspiracy theory shit.... but.... It's kind of scary that the tracking cookies on my pone could be linked my Amazon Firestick that's plugged into my TV.
Big Brother IS always watching.
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What are all the cool girls doing on a Saturday night?
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Posted:Dec 5, 2020 5:19 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2020 3:13 pm
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They're sitting around their apartments in their 'comfy' jammies, binge watching Netflix episodes of 'Legacies', and Christmas shopping on Amazon.
Nothing says 'living the dream' like a ratty t-shirt and sweats I tell ya!
I was talking the kitty earlier when I realized....
Holy shit! I'm talking a cat... What the hell happened my life??
Now that summer is gone I've become a hermit with hairy Chewbacca legs and unpainted toe nails!
I need to get my shit together....
For what, I don't know, it's not like I can actually go out and do anything on a Saturday night. Dating is now taboo and anything worth going to and doing is closed.
Sigh....
Yep, it's another exciting Saturday night in for the Secret_lade.
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Socks and Sinus Infections
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Posted:Dec 4, 2020 3:50 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2020 3:59 pm
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Feeling overwhelmed by the sheer number of coworkers who stop by your office to 'ask a quick question'??
I have a solution!
in sick for a day and it'll be a veritable ghost town! Tumble weeds will be the only thing rolling past your office door after you return.
Trust me...
By the end of the day Wednesday, I felt like I wanted to die. Sneezing, snotty nose, head ache and body aches...
Not gonna lie, I was a little concerned.
Concerned to the point that I scheduled a COVID test. Turns out I had a sinus infection only, thank God, and was able to return back to work today.
Have you ever noticed how your head gets foggy when you're taking medication?
I was headed to my office from the front of the store, this morning, when a voice from behind me was trying to get my attention.
"Ma'am"
"Ma'am"
"Excuse me, Ma'am!"
Turning in what felt like slow motion, I looked to see a woman behind me holding a black sock.
"Ma'am! You dropped this near the front of the store."
"I did??"
She must be mistaken....
"Yah, I think it came out of your pant leg, to be honest."
It took me a second, in my foggy state, to realize I had a fucking sock in my pant leg and wore it to work, worked part of the day, and never even felt it.
"Oh my God, I'm so embarrassed!"
Yep, I wanted to die.
"Could have been worse... It could have been a pair of panties."
Yep, that would have killed me. They'd have to carry my body off on a cart with the tumble weeds.
"Thank God for small miracles...."
Might I also add, thank God for antibiotics, thank God I didn't have COVID, and thank God it's Friday!
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Are you social distancing?
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Posted:Dec 1, 2020 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2020 11:11 pm
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Um, yah.... Broke all THOSE rules today!
Sigh...
I realized today just how poorly the whole social distancing thing is being executed where I work.
We complain a lot about the customers....
But, it's actually my coworkers who invade my space the most.
"You're fine, you don't need to put your mask on, I'm not worried...."
Really??
You may not be worried, but, I am!
We now have seven confirmed positive cases where I work and your cruising around in my office, leaning over my shoulder to see what I've got on my screen and "I" don't need to put my mask on because you don't think I'm contaminated with COVID.
How do I know that YOU aren't carrying it??
Five of those COVID cases are all from one department because... They weren't worried about catching it from each other.
Beautiful!
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Thank you for sharing....
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Posted:Nov 30, 2020 4:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2020 7:44 pm
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I feel honored that you chose include in your super personal conversation about your prostate exam with your doctor.
And....
The best part?? The best part was the part where I got to hear your phone , on speaker phone, all the way in my office from where you were sitting in the break room.
Even with my door shut I could hear it...
It was a special moment, indeed.
So, here's the thing folks....
NOBODY wants to hear your fucking speakerphone conversations.
I don't care what Mom and Pop are doing for their 40th anniversary. I'd rather not know about your husband's itchy rash. And, for God's sake, nobody cares what you made for dinner last night.
Take that shit off speaker!
I get it, I really do.... You're worried that people may think you're faking that phone conversation. You're worried that your unpopularity is shining through and the rest of the world can see your vacant, empty inner core....
The speakerphone conversation is not the solution.
The rest of the world will still think you are unpopular with a vacant, empty inner core, only, we will also be thinking 'what an inconsiderate douche' as well.
Guaranteed.
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On Today's episode of 'Downstairs Nightmares'...
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Posted:Nov 29, 2020 4:09 pm
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2020 6:11 pm
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Secret_lade loses a balcony... And loses her shit!
Beep! Beep! Beeeeeep!!
"WTF?!? Did someone literally pull up the balcony, on the grass, and start beeping??"
Secret_lade is standing in the kitchen, waiting for her coffee finish brewing, when she spies the tell-tale sign of headlights cruising across the backyard.
The Downstairs Nightmares are at it again!
Peering through her doorwall blinds, she watches as the driver rolls down his window have a screaming conversation with one of the Nightmares.
"What the fuck!! Are you going fucking guide back?!? You want pick this fucking thing up right the fuck now!"
Not sure what's happening, but this is gold.
"It's your fucking shit, get it the fuck out of here."
"Oh Fuck You!"
"Don't talk your fucking mother that way...."
Oh shit! Now I'm invested.... bad it's dark out and I can't see the spawn of Mrs. Wolowitz.
From here, it can only go downhill...
Without leaving her apartment, Mrs. Wolowitz has Spawn of Wolowitz pull his truck forward and starts guide him back, I'm assuming the door beneath my balcony.
Only....
Instead of pulling straight back, he's slighty off and hits the support beam my balcony, knocking it right off and into her door wall.
Glass is shattering but my balcony remains in place.
"What the FUCK is WRONG with you morons?!? There is a REASON why there isn't pavement back here!! It's NOT A DRIVEWAY!"
You guessed it! I lost my cool.
"I'm so fucking sick and tired of living above this! You don't need to bother calling the after hours emergency number, I'm doing it right now."
And, I slammed my door shut.
The after hours number is only a voicemail, thank God, because I was livid. It didn't take long for the creepy handyman to show up, though.
He was in and out of my apartment 4 times before he came to the conclusion the balcony was unsafe.
Fucktard!
The only thing holding it up is the fact that it's attached to the roof overhang...
Thankfully it's an easy fix for me, they just have to put the beam bac For the Nightmares, not so much. Handyman was peeved at being called out on a Sunday evening, he's still downstairs nailing something up over the door.
Sounds like it could be a week or before they get the door replaced.
Door needs be ordered, approvals need be gotten from the management company, and the neighbors have for it.
Sucks be them!
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Let's go on an adventure!
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Posted:Nov 28, 2020 10:04 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2020 3:43 pm
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Starting feel a little like the crazy cat lady shut in... I decided it was time for the Spawn and I trek out and see a new sight.
McGulpin Point Lighthouse it was!
It's not that often that it's sunny and 45 degrees November 28th in Northern Michigan, we had make the most of what will probably be one of the last nice days for 2020!
The wind was icy and Lake Michigan was angry... But, there were beautiful sights be seen.
I have say, I found it a little odd that this particular lighthouse isn't actually the water, instead, it's a hill and through some trees from the shoreline....
It makes me wonder if that is what the shore line looked like in 1868 when it was first constructed.
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Last night I had a dream...
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Posted:Nov 28, 2020 5:30 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2020 2:41 am
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When I was in 7th grade the only thing I wanted for Christmas was a dream dictionary...
My grandma had thought I was crazy, but she got it for anyway.
I've always had very distinct, very unusual dreams.
Some seemingly normal, some sexual, some frightening...
My thought was, if I broke down those dreams into parts and pieces that had symbolism and meaning, they would be less scary.
The funny thing is, my dreams always have music in them.
Sometimes I know the song, sometimes I don't....
Sometimes it fits the surroundings, sometimes it does not....
Last night I had a dream that was so realistic it scared the shit out of me. It wasn't anything from my life, and I have dreams like that often, but it feels like it could be from somebodies life.
It started with me walking home and accidentally going into someone else's home. I had apologized and said I wasn't paying attention, I could see the door was open and thought I was home because I always left my door open.
The occupant, an old man, just smiled and shook his head.
I make it home and I'm living in a somewhat dilapidated mobile home. I walk inside and fall asleep on the couch, waking up to find that it has gotten dark outside. Somewhat groggy, I get up and go to the kitchen to turn on the light. The first switch did not work, but the second one did, revealing an orange extension cord on the counter that had been woven into a zigzag pattern and a lit cigarette that had been placed upright on the butt, burned nearly down to the filter. My heart beat fast as this concerned me, it was not there before, and meant someone had been in my home. I picked up the cigarette and the ash fell onto my thumb, burning me.
Glancing around, I pick up a work uniform type jump suit and start to fold it... I can see the shadow of someone behind me on the wall in front of me and turn.
I'm certain I'm not alone.....
This is where I woke up. In real life, I actually was sleeping on the couch as I couldn't sleep last night after I woke up in the night and decided to watch tv in the living room.
The music from my dream was still playing in my head, I could still remember every word...
White Rabbit by Jefferson Airplane
My heart was still beating fast and I had to quickly find something else to occupy my thoughts as they would have continued to be in that bad place created by that bad dream.
I can only hope that this was not, in fact, a moment out of someone else's life...
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Milestone 500th post!
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Posted:Nov 28, 2020 12:27 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2020 4:17 pm
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Is it possible....
Could it be??
Why, yes, it is! It's my 500th post!
[insert confetti bomb here]
And, celebrate this milestone moment with me is Tilly, the Cat.
Tilly, the Cat, who decided to hop in the shower with me today and freak the fuck out.
Apparently the water falling out of the sky was more than she could handle.... And she clawed the fuck out of my ankle before ripping the shower curtain liner down in a failed attempt at exiting the shower.
It was like a scene from an over reaching sitcom....
Shampoo in my eyes, blindly attempting to calm a feral cat as it claws it's way out of the balled shower curtain liner tangled about my feet.
I couldn't make this stuff if I tried.
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Squeeze bottle mayonnaise....
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Posted:Nov 26, 2020 9:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2020 5:03 pm
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Modern day marvel? Or... Recipe for disaster!
You be the judge....
A very happy Thanksgiving all my readers celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday. I hope you can all take the time reflect on the aspects of your life that you are truly thankful for.
*Be thankful you didn't have clean out the lid my mayo bottle this morning. Gross!
Happy Thanksgiving!
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Welcome to the Black Friday Purge!
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Posted:Nov 26, 2020 12:01 am
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2020 5:40 am
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Where only the strongest retail worker will survive....
For retailers, Black Friday is the Holy Grail of sales days, for my retailer it is THE biggest sales day out of the year with only Christmas Eve coming in at a close second.
Black Friday is 24 hours of hell with frantic customers searching for amazing deals and they have waited an entire year to cash in on them.
It's an extreme sport for most Black Friday shoppers.
They've saved, they've mapped out stores and researched ads to create strategies to obtain their coveted sale items, they've assembled teams to cover their bases....
It's Black Friday!
With COVID this year, our Black Friday became a week long event....
When you have to count the number of customers coming and going from your store and have leadership staffed at the doors to enforce a mask mand it is no longer possible have just a one-day sale extravaganza!!
For safety reasons, it becomes a week long event!
Which means....
An entire week of Black Friday shoppers.
A week long Black Friday sale becomes more and more like the purge for us retail workers as sale items begin sell out throughout the course of the week.
a regular Black Friday, customers know the products are limited and first come first serve. Once they're gone, they're gone...
But, with a week long sale, the expectation is.... "You have it in the ad! You should have it in the store!! Why advertise it if you're only going to get a few???"
It is now an entire week of pissed off customers once they discover that on Wednesday we no longer have the sale item advertised at 50% with a coupon for $30 off their next purchase as it sold out on Sunday when the sale first started.
Fun times!
It's even better when the items advertised are only on hand because of the sale....
"I'm sorry Ma'am, we don't normally carry that solid gold waffle maker with the ivory handle. I...."
"What do you mean you don't normally carry it?!? It's in your ad!! That is the ONLY item I came here to buy!!"
Uh, yah... I'll just have to ignore that shopping cart full of shit. Do you plan on leaving it at the door when you storm out?? I'll bet you don't....
"This Black Friday is no different than any other Black Friday we've had. We still received products that were just for the sale, we only received specific numbers of items, and once they're gone, they're gone. You just have more days to shop the sale now so we can now keep people healthy and safe."
"Greedy corporations. They do that just to get us in here!"
Abso-fucking-lutely!
Although, I must say, I did manage to capitalize on a couple of Black Friday deals as well.
My Christmas shopping has begun!
Got a set of Air Pods for the spawn for $99 and a new Keurig slim for myself for $59.
Go me!
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