Sex is a primitive need, but let's approach it with class
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Posted:Nov 13, 2013 1:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2013 4:34 pm
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Hello fellow men out there,
We all want the same thing here, but disrespecting women and sending cock pictures on first contact is most likely hurting your cause. Some women like to play naughty, talk dirty. The truth is that most of us on here (both men and women) are pretty liberated, open to new experiences, and confident in our sexuality.
That being said, most women will, and rightly so, interpret it as disrespectful if this is your way of introducing yourself, even if they are actually fond of this type of play. A little classiness does not hurt, seriously differentiates you from most other guys, and might be the difference between getting a nice answer {=} vs no or "fuck off" one .
That she likes to play does not mean she does not want to be respected as a person. Respect her, you're on equal terms looking for some fun time, however that might be defined. Be straight forward with you want, but you don't have to be vulgar, again, it's all about respect.There is a difference between inquiring about whether she is into dirty talking, and right off the bat telling her that you want to pound her pussy. Not classy.
As far as compliments are concerned, and by compliments I mean stuff you would say in the street to any normal person, there is a pretty good article called "How to Compliment Women Without Objectifying Them". And this is one of the comments to that article: "If you are 'straight', don't say something to the opposite sex that you wouldn't say to a same-gender friend."
Being an asshole won't help you get laid, actually you are probably cock-blocking yourself, which is quite unfortunate. Simply show respect. The only reason for being disrespectful is if you, consciously or not, feel that you are entitled and in power. That is not the case. You are on here to play just like she is. This is the perspective you want to adopt
Anyway, as you saw I said most women, obviously this is not true of everyone. If you think this is BS, well it was not meant to change your doing; simply a friendly advice based on my experience, and it would be greatly appreciated if you could refrain from trashing this post. Hope some of you made it until the end and found this useful
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