So now what? the search continues....
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Posted:Oct 1, 2008 8:29 pm
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2009 5:06 pm
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Here we are having fun and frolicking in the lifestyle. All is good but something is missing. As in the last Blog Ms. hpyhrny had her way with someone, that I just found out, that she has been kinda hot for, for 9 years now. Holy! but she did and it was awesome, I hope they have repeats. Knowing my sexy sweety I don't think that will be a problem. But here is the conundrum I want mine too. I'm not playing the game where whats fair is fair or good for the goose... we all know the sayings. lol I talked to her and she totally understands. It would be a gift in return to the one I gave her.(woohoo christmas is coming early) The only problem is where do I pick out my present. The dirty magazines under the sink don't have prices, lol or deliver. Like 99% of the couples looking on this site for that elusive single female we have a long hard search for this person. This Unicorn, as I shall affectionately call her, I know would be in for the time of her life and like all my toys I do share. We are looking for someone that could enjoy both of us together or apart. This individual can be single or part of a couple. The male counter part won't be ignored too much. lol So this Blog is starting to sound more like an Add then anything else. Back to the Blog. I'm just wondering what it takes to find this "unicorn" or reasonable facsimile. What do we use to convince this lucky person that we mean no harm, can guarantee some fun times and no strings or head games. Any advice or applicant would definately be welcomed.
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Wasn't that a party!!! (Irish Rovers)
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Posted:Sep 25, 2008 9:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2009 5:07 pm
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Well the weekend has come and gone. It started on saturday and ended sometime on sunday. It is now Thursday and I'm still thinking about it and still recuperating. lol Well Ms. hpyhrny finally got her toy to play with. after a few years of trying to get this guy to come on out and after a few no-shows... HE FINALLY DID! She had a blast, he had a blast. Me...well I was ecstatic that she finally got to have a piece of him. lol a couple of times. This was the first time I met him, let alone even talked to him. Well My faith in my wife's good taste has been confirmed. Hell she picked me years ago. It is times like this that make a part of the lifestyle really stand out. That is it makes me all swelled up with pride and devotion in my misses. She is such a desirable lady and she can really please the guys. (she is building quite a list of admirers. lol) As well it allows me the immense pleasure of giving her the freedom to explore and try different "things" that most "vertical" couples only dream of. (more to come)
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Friends, or friends with benefits...that is the question!
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Posted:Sep 12, 2008 11:12 am
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2009 5:07 pm
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So you meet a couple and hit it off in all the right ways. You play and play again. Everything is all good and you start doing things outside of the life style. after all these are people that you want close to you. They are the type that you wonder where have they been hidding out for, for so long. Your friends are very close, you've shared many things and many common interests and everyone gets along great. Hell, you might just think.. match made in heaven (used loosely). Still things are good...Or are they? But now here come the stickler... the sex! thats right the SEX! It use to be fun, damn it was gooood! it used to be no pressure, damn everyone is still sexy. So what the hell happened? They became friends with the cloud of sex hanging over their heads. the unspoken expectations, nueances, even the flirting after a while didn't seam right. So what do you do. You try some time apart. It helps, but just to make you realize that you miss them. You make new friends, but end up comparing your new ones to the old ones. You are still good friends with the old ones and the news too. But the universe is just not right! You find yourself asking many many questions and getting no response (or 42 lol Hitchhikers guide.) The only response I can come up with is that people, relationships, and lives are constantly changing. Change can not be stopped, time cannot be frozen. gravity sucks! (sorry last one just thrown in there lol).Friends are there to be with you in the moment. They are there to help create memories, good or bad. They are part of your life period. You can look back and tell what kind of friends they have been by the types of memories you have about them. From that you rank them. The scoring system that you use is yours and you are the only judge. Keep in mind too that they are scoring you too! Does the scoring or how you are scored amount up to anything in the end? Will it secure you a place in the thereafter? who knows. But that shouldn't affect how you strive to be scored. But sorry I trasgress. Back to the big question. What to do about the friendship? I say let it change, be happy about it, encourage it and enjoy it. Life is suppose to be lived not wishing it was this way or that. But embraced for what it is and enjoyed to the max. because the next one I'm coming back as a Dog! lmao.
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