WELCOME TO MY BLOG
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Posted:Jun 12, 2013 10:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2014 9:03 pm
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Hi
i am interested in Open Minded couples,laid back and non-judgmental couples who have reached certain phase in their life where they are comfortable with their marital relationship and want to try other new spices of life(3some/voyeurism/seducing/flirting/role play/cuckolding ).
.I am well educated and mannered,well endowed,highly motivated in sexual pursuit with right minded people who are equal in sexual appetite.I am sexually creative and a passionate sex partner who is D/D free
I am fully single and not cheating out of any commitments or looking for side fun.I am not a desperate single as well,which you will come to realise .I come with fair amount of experience in handling myself in delicate situations and show good judgement.
I love to make a woman hot and desirable before I proceed.I am good with communication(how else to please a woman without listening to her needs),to make both the partners involved feel at ease.I am Well endowed and a very late cummer , can hold it till the partner achieves multiple orgasm and stay hard for longer period of time.
from the little education i had through this alternate lifestyle,one thing i have noted is,its mostly the husbands who initiate the proceedings,he looks at another mans wife pic,likes it dear and convinces his wife for swap. why this will not work in most cases, one has to match 2 partners alike here and it will be bitter even one of them doesnt work out. i do agree its heaven if that kind of match is found.But mostly,they only end up frustrating their wives,jumping from one couple to another
If you are the husband who thinks "this guy has got some nerve to ask me to share my wife him and not reciprocating me with offering a girl!"..well i have met with few genuine cpls,so i can always point u to them and u guy can take it from there.No guarantees though.
I have never met with a wife till now without husband consent.That is cheating and I am fully against it.I like the cuckolding and 3some part and have enjoyed it with some of my closest couples.for this,couple should have good understanding,as they say "u cant make brick outta shit".I am no newcomer when it comes to playing with condoms on.
I am looking for Guilt free lustful sex with no or little emotional attachment and the friendship that comes out of it.I am patient that means I dont like being sticky and pushy and expect the same from partners as well..that also doesnt mean i am "wham bham thank you mam!" type.I am fun to be with and easy to get along.I am open to anything from benign flirtation to exhibitionism to real sexual meets.So getting into bed is not my goal.Things are best enjoyed when savored.
no time wasters and fantasy dwellers...because i have had enough of husbands who want to fantasize..i mean just fantasize and talk about it,without even letting his wife know he has such fantasises and jerk off thinking abt it.Not at the expense of my time,sorry.i am a doer and thats wat works for me..no indefinite email ping pongs as well.my mails will be informative and appreciate the same .
i respect the ppl getting involved with me..i respect their personality,privacy and free will.
Ideal person:
married wife ,who is very happy with the husband.this is tricky,because, why would a happy wife look outside for sex or why would a happy husband share his wife in first place.Believe me,this is how it really works!I love the girl who can separate out lust from love, and have the maturity to control over what they are getting into.she should love everything about a cock and should be comfortable being around one(or more ).
Husbands ,who understand their spouse and be comfortable in letting her enjoy her fantasies.He should be comfortable in seeing or sharing his partner with another man and enjoy it.I respect the fact that its not for everyone and I dont want to instill any new fantasies into people.If otherewise,wait no further.
couples,who are not time wasters or money seekers, wanting to get in touch with other genuine couples or wanting to experiment in safe way .Every other cpl i met express the need of finding more suitable couples.so get in touch with me,i surely can hook u up.
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JOKE - MALE ANATOMY
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Posted:Jan 17, 2014 9:05 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 5:27 am
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A woman was on the way to winning $100,000 on a game show, but her final question was suspended for the next night. Her husband sneaked into the studio and found the question and answer.
He raced home and told his wife, "Your question is 'What are the three main parts of the male anatomy', and the answer is 'The head, heart and penis.'
The woman thinks about this throughout the night, but keeps forgetting the answer.
Her husband keeps reminding her, "The head, heart and penis."
Come the game show she has forgotten again, and the presenter asks, "For $100,000, what are the three main parts of the male anatomy? You have ten seconds."
"Um... the head."
"Good. Eight seconds."
"Um... the heart."
"That's right. Five seconds."
"Oh... um... damn. My husband drilled it into me last night and I had it on the tip of my tongue this morning..."
"That's close enough! You've won $100,000!"
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PUSSY LICKING GUIDE
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Posted:Dec 16, 2013 8:12 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 5:27 am
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Pussy licking is not rocket science, but it seems like most men are bad at it. Therefore I decided to give you a crash course in it. Being a good pussy licker will definitely make you stand out as a lover.
Oral sex is awesome and it’s one of the main elements of foreplay. Pussy licking will therefore help you warm her up for the later intercourse. It will get her warmed up and wet, ready for your cock.
It is also well known that women who manage to cum from oral sex (mostly clitoral stimulation) will most likely get an orgasm when being penetrated. Getting a vaginal orgasm for a woman is less common than clitoral orgasms.
By licking her pussy and making her cum a few times, she will enter the proper state and increase the chances drastically for vaginal orgasms.
To make pussy licking an even better experience for her, it is highly recommended that you tease her a little beforehand – make her beg you for it.
Hold back the oral sex until she can’t stand it anymore. This will make her very excited and increase the chance for her to orgasm – stronger orgasms.
There are a few different positions that you can do when it comes to pussy licking.
Different Positions
1) She sits on your face – the less dominant move you can do, but it seems to be enjoyable for the girl.
2) 69 – you lick her off while she gives you a blowjob – awesome position, but it can be hard to concentrate on licking her pussy, or enjoying the moment of getting a blowjob – especially if she is a good sucker. Personally, I prefer only doing 1 thing at once.
3) She is lying down while you have your head between her legs – the most obvious position for pussy licking, but also my personal favorite – it gives you a lot of options – you can easily play with her vagina while stimulating her clit.
How To Lick Pussy
First of all, you have three types of stimulation you can do with you mouth.
Different types of stimulation:
A) The first being with the tip of your tongue. This gives a more itchy feeling to the women and the stimulation is concentrated to one particular area. This is the most powerful type of stimulation and is the one commonly used to give a woman a clitoral orgasm. You can do this type of stimulation by either doing circular moves or “up-and-down” moves.
 The other one is with your full tongue – this gives a different feeling and it allows you to stimulate wider areas, but the stimulation because of lower intensity, is often not enough to give a woman an orgasm. This type of stimulation simply feels good to her, but is not tailor suited for giving orgasms.
You might want to use this on the beginning phase of the oral sex, where you are simply warming her up a little, playing around, licking different areas just to make sure she is really aroused. As the more aroused she is, the more chances are that she orgasms.
C) The third type of stimulation is by sucking – sucking her clit, sucking her genital lips or sucking areas around her pussy. This type of stimulation is VERY intense for many – often too intense. It can lead to orgasms and can be combined with licking – like sucking her clit while licking it at the same time, is a very powerful thing to do.
The best way to make a girl cum FAST is to apply suction to the clit while licking around it in a circular motion.
Additional Tips
Every woman is different, which means that some women will prefer one type of stimulation to another. Some have different preferences when it comes to intensity. It is up to you to keep your eyes open and look out for her reaction.
Now you have a few licking techniques in your arsenal. It is therefore time to focus on the different areas where you can lick.
It is wise to “warm her up a little”, where I highly recommend the “full tongue” type of stimulation (other types can also be used of course).
Good places to lick in order to ”warm her up” is the different areas around her pussy, her genital lips, her vaginal opening (this one is killer, especially when you stick your tongue inside of it – it can in some cases lead to an orgasm!). You might also want to lick her U-Spot, which is situated between her clitoris and urethral opening.
Another tip is to breath when being close to her pussy. In my experience this arouses women a lot.
Also, stunning and making a few noises is always good – show her that you enjoy doing what you are doing. That turns on many women.
Now you have gotten her all hot. I have taught you how to lick pussy, at least the basics. Now it is time to ‘lick her off’.
The reason why it is so important to warm her up a little before licking her pussy is that you will increase the chances of giving her an orgasm drastically. You need her to in the proper mood – she needs to mentally and physically arouse.
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some sex tips
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Posted:Nov 28, 2013 12:06 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 5:27 am
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At any given second, 4,000 people are having sex in the world. So ‘knocking’ is the most happening or ‘rocking’ thing in the world. Sex is not all about doing it in the bed. The three attributes that can help you in building an effective relationship with women include - your caring nature, communication skills and your confident attitude. ‘Lusty talk’ during sex can help to stimulate women even more. Tease her and make her feel desirable and you are sure to give her orgasm even if your performance is below par.
1. If you sweat during sex don’t worry – sweating men ooze testosterone and it is a biological turn on for women.
2. During sex keep the room warm rather than cold. So maybe turn off the air-conditioner if necessary or turn it on low. Heat causes dilatation of blood vessels and more swelling of the penis and vagina and flushing of the skin. Heat makes you ‘flush during sex.’
3. If you want your girl to become pregnant make sure you give her a big orgasm. The chances of pregnancy increases because contraction of pelvic muscles during orgasm help the sperms move up the vaginal canal and fertilize the eggs.
4. If your girl has a headache and you have no pills available give her a big orgasm and this can relieve her headache. Sex is known to cure headaches due to release of morphine like pain killer substances in the brain called endorphins.
5. Big orgasm also requires you to indulge in some foreplay. Gently touching, stroking, sucking and licking your partners nipples, thighs, vagina and clitoris are sometimes enough to start the orgasm. Keep the big act for the end.
6. Stimulate her clitoris with your fingers by gently fondling with the area. Remember the sensory nerve fibers have the highest concentration around the clitoris followed by labia, and the outer third of the vagina.
7. Find her G-Spot – G-spot stimulation can give a woman a big orgasm. It is usually located in the front section of the vaginal wall between her vaginal opening and the cervix. Use finger to stroke the front portion of the vagina and during intercourse the best way to stimulate her G-spot is insertion of the penis from the back. If the G-spot and clitoris are simulated simultaneously the women is likely to have ‘one hell of a orgasm’ that she is unlikely to forget.
8. Early morning sex is also a great option if you are tired in the night. You can get extra help from the surge of Testosterone in the morning. Blood levels of testosterone are highest just before dawn and are 40% higher than in the evening.
9. Keep you ‘But’ in shape - Buttocks of a man are the most admired part of a man’s body by women.
10. Age is not a factor for sex as much as it is for women. Studies show that even if you are over 70 years the chances of your being potent is over 73%. Actor Anthony Quinn fathered a baby at the age of 81 years.
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50 sex facts
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Posted:Oct 23, 2013 1:02 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 5:27 am
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1. A woman is more likely to want to commit adultery during ovulation than at any other time in her cycle.
2. Telling a convincing lie to someone is much more difficult when you find them sexually attractive.
3. Minute quantities of over 30 different substances have been identified in human semen. These include nitrogen, fructose, lactic acid, ascorbic acid, inositol, cholesterol, glutathione, creatine, pyruvic acid, citric acid, sorbitol, urea, uric acid and Vitamin B12, along with various salts and enzymes.
4. Chocolate contains phenylethylamine, the same feel-good chemical responsible for the ecstatic high people experience through sexual attraction and love.
5. Women who have given birth have darker labia minora than women who haven’t.
6. The majority of women experience a peak in libido just before their period.
7. -321°F is the temperature at which sperm banks store donor semen. At this temperature, semen can be stored indefinitely.
8. The point at which the average man reaches his sexual peak is between the ages of 17 and 18.
9. The earth could be re-populated to its current level using the number of sperm that could fit into an aspirin capsule.
10. A chicken egg could accommodate the number of female ova necessary to repopulate the earth to its present numbers.
11. During sexual intercourse, in addition to the genitals and breasts, the inner nose also swells.
12. White women are the most likely to engage in anal sex, particularly if they also have a college degree.
13. During erection, a smaller flaccid penis tends to have a greater percentage increase than a larger flaccid penis.
14. A teaspoon of semen contains approximately 5 calories.
15. Sex burns off an average of about 100 calories per session.
16. On average, from two to five million sperm are released each time a man ejaculates.
17. During any given period, women who read romance novels have a tendency to have twice as many lovers as those who don’t.
18. Almost a third of all women over 80 years of age still have sex with their spouse or boyfriend.
19. For both men and women, the heart rate averages 140 beats per minute at the point of orgasm.
20. The average woman will have sex more than 3,000 times over the course of her reproductive years.
21. Most men under 40 years of age can achieve an erection in less than 10 seconds.
22. Heterosexual anal sex is something 43% of women have experienced.
23. Women consider penis size the ninth most important feature for a man, while men rate it much more highly, in third place.
24. When a man ejaculates, the initial spurt travels at 28 miles per hour – faster than the world record for the 100m sprint, which currently stands at 22.9 miles per hour.
25. In one hour, the average sperm can swim seven inches.
26. With nothing in its path, a penis can shoot semen anywhere from 12 to 24 inches.
27. The longest erect penis on record was 13 inches. The smallest was 1cm.
28. There are 20 male masochists for every female masochist.
29. The average adult testicle contains enough sperm to measure a quarter of a mile laid out end to end.
30. For 75% of men, ejaculation occurs within 3 minutes of penetration.
31. During an average man’s lifetime, he will ejaculate approximately 17 liters of semen, which amounts to about half a trillion sperm.
32. The testes increase in size by 50% when a man is sexually aroused.
33. Australians are the most receptive to the idea of having a threesome – 28% of them claim to have tried it.
34. 1 in 50 people claim to have had sex in an airplane.
35. 15% of adults have had sexual intercourse at work.
36. 41% of men would like to have sex more frequently. Only 29% of women share this urge.
37. Greek couples have sex an average of 138 times a year – placing them at the top of the world sex league. Japanese couples have sex just 45 times a year, which puts them in last place.
38. 5% of adults have sex once a day. 20% have sex 3 - 4 times per week.
39. Every time they engage in oral sex with their partner, 30% of women swallow.
40. When sexually aroused, 60% of men get erect nipples.
41. Half of single women have sex by the third date.
42. 80% of men living in the USA have been circumcised.
43. Women over 40 years of age are more likely to masturbate than any other group.
44. There’s a direct link between how often a man has sex and his life expectancy.
45. According to experts, sex is about 10 times more effective as a tranquilizer than Valium.
46. Sex can relieve a headache – it releases the tension, which restricts blood vessels in the brain.
47. 44% of women find it impossible to enjoy sex with a man who is not their intellectual equal. Just 31% of men share this problem.
48. There are about 1,000 recognized euphemisms for ‘vagina’ in the English language.
49. At any given time, 25% of people are daydreaming about sex.
50. Over half of American adults have used the phone, email or text message to have sex.
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Female Orgasms
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Posted:Oct 23, 2013 12:53 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2013 8:03 am
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Women are capable of experiencing at least 11 different types of orgasms.
I know that how a woman orgasms is not as important as "if" she orgasms,
but I think this information is worth sharing.
Hopefully you will find it interesting too.
As mentioned in a recent post,
a clitoral orgasm is usually the easiest
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most common orgasm that women experience.
A vaginal orgasm is best achieved with steady thrusting
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it usually takes about 20-25 minutes for it to happen.
The sensation is deeper than a clitoral orgasm,
but it is less intense.
I prefer for a partner to park his cock in me
when I start experiencing one of these.
The G-spot orgasm is very intense,
but it also takes about 20-25 minutes to build.
Stimulation of the G-spot can easily lead
to a squirting (cum) orgasm.
Doing the "come here" motion with two fingers
inserted about 2-3 inches inside of the vagina
while facing a woman works great.
Fortunately I've enjoyed many.
The squirting orgasm (female ejaculation)
should not be confused with peeing.
Some women pee and call it squirting,
but some women ejaculate cum
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the G-spot is only one of the ways to make it happen.
It is the most mysterious and rarest orgasm.
I am fortunate that I sometimes enjoy them.
In general, a woman's sexuality and ability
to relax play a key role in it happening.
The A-spot orgasm is possible when an area
about 4-5inches inside the vaginal wall is stimulated.
It is a patch of sensitive tissue above the G-spot
between the cervix and the bladder.
This is the area that allows multiple orgasms
because it doesn't get too sensitive.
Most likely I have experienced them without realizing it.
The deep spot orgasm is achieved by stimulating
the area on the back wall of the vagina just before the cervix.
They are very deep orgasms that can simulate the sensation of anal sex.
I have felt this one before.
The U-Spot Orgasm is a less common orgasm
that happens when a small area of sensitive erectile tissue
located just above and on either side of the urethral opening is stimulated.
It is in the small area between the urethra and the vagina.
Stimulating this area creates a powerful response
that is similar to stimulating the clit.
I'm not sure if I have experienced this kind or not.
Sometimes it's hard to know exactly what a partner
is doing when I can't see.
The breast orgasm is intense
because the nipples connect to nerves in the female genitals
and many women feel a direct connection with their clitoris
when their nipples are stimulated.
Fortunately I am one of those women.
The oral orgasm is possible
because the mouth plays a big role
in the sexual nervous system.
It can occur during any sensual oral activity
such as kissing, licking, sucking or performing oral sex.
It is very easy for me to cum just from giving oral.
A skin orgasm is experienced by some women
when they are caressed and massaged.
I don't recall ever experiencing one,
but being touched even in nonsexual places can be very arousing.
The mental orgasm can happen with
external visual & auditory stimulation
or
from mental images without any physical stimulation.
I have experienced them a few times while thinking
intensely about past sexual encounters.
It is an incredible feeling!
Hopefully you have enjoyed this post.
So Guys, Does One Type of Female Orgasm
Fascinate You More than Another?
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How important is Kissing Blogville?
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Posted:Aug 13, 2013 2:54 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 5:27 am
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I will tell you for me it is VERY important because I really feel like you can tell a lot about a person by the way that they kiss and how they kiss you especially in a relationship?
I think with kissing that there is far more to it than my lips touching yours and how we entangle and tease one another tongues!
Intimate kissing for me simply begins and ends with my mind first then visual of that person's lips whether it is wet or supple and even with a slight effect of the tongue licking the lips as well?
Whenever I saw a woman I often imagined in my mind what it would be like to have her lips pressed up against mine for the first time, to feel your breath upon mine, our hearts beating quickly from the long awaited anticipation of that very first kiss!
How many of you bloggers can remember your first kiss, who it was with, the circumstances behind that first kiss or albeit suddenly and unexpected and caught off guard by surprise!
Whenever I kissed a woman in the past it was always more than a simple meeting of the lips! It was mostly in part to the meeting of our souls and that mental and physical connection as well as the chemistry between that woman and myself!
Sex does also play a part in the art of kissing but it is the intimacy within the kiss that makes it all the more worthwhile of being together and sharing something very special!
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How To Make Love Whole Night
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Posted:Jun 25, 2013 5:06 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2014 9:03 pm
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Love making is the most magnificent celestial experience. While making love, we forget about our past and feel absolutely no worries of our future; everything freezes to time and we live in the very moment. But unfortunately for some people; love making do not last longer and they are not able to enjoy every bit of it... Go on reading if you are willing to get to know how you can love for whole night without falling!!!
Love making is the most magnificent celestial experience. While making love, we forget about our past and feel absolutely no worries of our future; everything freezes to time and we live in the very moment. But unfortunately for some people; love making do not last longer and they are not able to enjoy every bit of it.
Normally people can stretch love making to an hour long activity, but making love for whole night is always possible. All you need is some simple techniques which are to be followed by both the partners. If you follow step by step procedure and understand what is needed to be done at particular time, you can make your nights enjoyable and memorable too.
Before we start discussing the points, it is very important to understand that 100% participation and complete devotion of the partners, better mutual understanding, desire for passionate love making and readiness to take initiative in the game of love are the prerequisites. There are situations when one partner has to lead and let the other partner keep his/her desires burning, failing to understand this will cost in early ending of your passion packed activity. Also please take care not to eat more at dinner, because it affects your active participation in love making.
Foreplay, knowing the peak point of ones partner, leading alternatively, use of different sex positions and some more are the key points to be learned about before even thinking about having night long sex.
As I have explained the importance of foreplay (and also provided with some important tips) in my article "Foreplay Sexual Intercourse Navigator!", it is important to start the sexual activity with a prolonged and sensual foreplay. The only difference in foreplay carried out during normal sexual intercourse and the foreplay intended for a night long sex activity is that this foreplay has to be carried out for longer period and should be divided in some parts. These parts should be performed from time to time. Foreplay is an art of expressing love and is a perfect invitation for a sex activity. Foreplay is important in order to arouse female partner for the game of love.
Knowing your partners peak time can help him/her slow down when he/she reaches to the extreme level, people who face problem of early ejaculation can be helped by their partners during intercourse in many ways. In order not to shoot before time, one should follow "Slowing Down" and/or "Packet" techniques. Slowing down when its a high sensitive moment pushes the shooting point further, allowing both the partners enjoy intercourse for some more time. Packet technique is used when its hard to slow down, at this point the stroking activity is stopped by the weak partner for some time and extended/advanced foreplay is used to give another partner continuous experience of intercourse whereas the partner having problem of early ejaculation gets some more time to calm down his/her desires at certain level and then again both the partners can resume the activity. Extended/advanced foreplay contains stimulating partners and allowing him/her to continue experiencing intercourse by fingering or blowjob performed by the weak partner. Another technique that can help in increasing shooting time is by pressing weak partners semen carrying vein (which is situated just below the scrotum) with the help of a finger by other partner, this surely allows late ejaculation for the weak partner. One advantage of this technique is that if you follow this technique for many days, it improves performance of male partner having early ejaculation problem and he can enjoy longer and stronger strokes after little practice and he can also gain control on his senses which causes in early ejaculation.
Use of different sex positions has its own importance in sexual intercourse activity. There are different sex positions which allow both the partners choose the way they want to enjoy their time. Some positions allow both the partners keep showering love on the other partner for longer time without shooting up early. Both the partners can use different sex positions during one intercourse. Its never possible to enjoy all night sex without both the partners taking lead alternatively, if one partner is leading he/she should help the other partner to keep the desires in control without reaching the end point early; at the same time the leading partner should make it sure that whatever activity is followed it should appease the burning desires of both the partners and should drive them slowly towards the celestial experience allowing them enjoy each moment during the intercourse. There can be more than one complete intercourse during the night long sex activity, but both the partners should never let the passion fade, which can cause decline in interest of the other partner. The combination of foreplay, advanced foreplay, different sex positions make it possible to enjoy all night sex, so both the partners should have proper understanding of these points.
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How To Have Sex With The Women On Top
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Posted:Jun 25, 2013 5:05 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 5:27 am
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Step 1Find a favorite position? Try out as many positions as you have to in order to determine your favorite position.
Step 2Be creative. Try talking dirty or role playing. You will have to step outside your shell if you normally hide in one at times such as this. Be comfortable and be yourself.
Step 3Introduce new things. Try out new toys or games that initiate sex. You might be amazed at what you discover you enjoy.
Step 4Focus. During intercourse focus solely on the act in progress. Speak what you want and do what you want and you may just find yourself having the best sex ever.
Step 1Get naked with your partner and find a flat, comfortable surface--a nice, soft bed is preferable.
Step 2The man should lie on his back while the woman gets on her knees and straddles him. She should face the man to make it easy for kissing and caressing.
Step 3Slide the penis into the vagina. The woman can now move up and down, side to side, or however she wants. She controls the speed and depth of the intercourse.
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How To Get 69 Position
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Posted:Jun 25, 2013 5:01 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2013 8:15 am
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69, also known by its French name "soixante-neuf," is a sexual position wherein two people arrange themselves so that they are able simultaneously to give oral pleasure to one another. There are at least 3 physical arrangements that make various kinds of oral-genital contact possible. Each of these arrangements suggests the appearance of the numerals 6 and 9 juxtaposed, hence the derivation of the name for this practice.
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
Prepare to Get Into a 69 Position
Step 1
Take a shower or a bath, separately or together, to assure yourselves that you are clean and attractive before you begin lovemaking. Without good hygiene, oral sexual contact is likely to be an unpleasant experience.
Step 2
Undress, or dress, to the point and in the fashion that you feel will best lead to lovemaking.
Step 3
Prepare for lovemaking with some initial expressions of affection, stimulation and exploration. Once you assume the 69 position you are probably committing yourselves to some very intimate behavior, so 69 sometimes requires its own foreplay even while it may serve as foreplay for other events.
Get Into a 69 Position While Lying Beside Your Partner
Step 1
Lie down together on the bed or another comfortable surface facing one another in a head-to-toe arrangement.
Step 2
Open your legs to allow your partner access to your ****oris and vagina or to your penis and testicles.
Step 3
Hold one another by the hips, pelvis or buttocks and draw your faces toward each other's genitals. You are now physically ready for oral-genital lovemaking.
Get Into a 69 Position Above or Below Your Partner
Step 1
Approach your reclining sexual partner from above. Straddle your partner face down with your feet on either side of his or her head. It is generally comfortable to begin with your genitals above the other's chest while each of you continues orienting yourself.
Step 2
Lower your genitals toward the face of your partner as you seek out your partner's genitals with your mouth and begin to kiss, lick or suck.
Get Into a 69 Position With One Partner Standing
Step 1
Stand firmly on a secure surface. This practice requires strength and trust, if not a spotter. The larger and stronger of the partners should be the one who stands.
Step 2
Lift your partner, upside down, until her ****oris and vagina are near your mouth. At that point her mouth should be near your genitals, and she may wish to use her arms to brace herself on your thighs or buttocks or wrap her legs around your neck and shoulders as she fellates you.
Tips & Warnings
Most forms of sexual contact that present themselves to a couple arranged in 69 position involve exchange of bodily fluids. Partners should use caution to avoid sexually transmitted diseases.In addition to accommodating fellatio and cunnilingus, the 69 position opens partners up to oral sexual contact involving the anus. While partners may find this practice pleasurable, a partner giving oral-anal pleasure should use an anti-bacterial mouthwash afterward and should avoid oral contact with the genitals immediately after oral-anal contact
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Premature Ejaculation prevention
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Posted:Jun 25, 2013 4:59 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2013 8:13 am
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premature ejaculation is an embarrassing but common problem for men. Men can last a few minutes or only a few seconds during a sexual encounter, leading to awkward situations, break-ups and even ridicule. There are several ways you can attempt to prolong the experience and have a healthy sexual lifestyle.
Know What Premature Ejaculation Is
Be sure you understand what premature ejaculation is before you can attempt to remedy it. It's a condition in which a man emits sperm soon after or even before sexual intercourse. It is split into primary (those who have had it since puberty) and secondary (those who have developed it later in life). Although most men aren't likely to admit it, statistics have shown that as many as one out of three men have had it at one time.
Psychological conditions such as guilt may be a cause of premature ejaculation, as well as anxiety over sexual intercourse. Relationship problems can also take a toll on a person, leading to premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Physical causes can be abnormal hormones, depression, inflammation or infection of the urethra and thyroid issues.
Premature Ejaculation Prevention
Consider therapy for premature ejaculation that's caused by psychological problems. A therapist may delve into your past and family to find out if anything may have triggered the premature ejaculation. Discovering the underlying issue may stop the premature ejaculation.
Try thinking of a decidedly non-sexual being or situation if you feel you are about to ejaculate prematurely--cutting the lawn, painting a wall, even a person or thing that is not physically stimulating to you. This may postpone the ejaculation.
Physically, you can use the squeeze technique to prolong the erection. Have your partner grab the head of the penis and squeeze until the urge passes. Wait about 30 seconds and begin again, and repeat if the urge to orgasm comes again.
Or, try medications to relieve premature ejaculation. Antidepressants can help with the depression and creams that can deaden the feeling can extend the period of erection. You should always see a doctor first to discuss your premature ejaculation before treating it yourself.
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How Men Can Last Longer?
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Posted:Jun 25, 2013 4:57 am
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Movement, Breathing and Focus
There are times when we want to sprint and other times when we want to be the long distance runner. Variety is the spice of sex life. While the quickie does have a place of honor in the collective memory of most adults, there are times when slow and steady win the race.
Cruising Speed Instead of Racing
For those private encounters when a couple feels that time and quantity equal quality, enjoyment for the female partner may depend on how long the male partner is able to last before ejaculating. In a sense, the goal is for the male to make his inner race car do something other than what it wants to do, choosing to cruise along at thirty miles an hour instead of racing off at eighty miles an hour and running out of fuel after five to ten breathless minutes.
Being able to make the male pleasure centers do something other than what they normally do requires focusing on changes in movement, breathing and mental focus.
Different Movement
It is possible to have too much of a good thing, even when it comes to sex. Too much sensation too fast becomes the enemy of the man who wants to last longer. Thankfully, as the partner doing the penetrating, males can regulate how much sensation we feel and how fast that sensation comes. Slower, shallower strokes still feel good, but not to the point where male composure gets overwhelmed and ejaculation seems uncontrollable and unavoidable. Eastern love-making techniques espoused by Taoists suggest five slow, shallow thrusts for every slow deep thrust. The Taoist philosophy on orgasms was that they were reserved for women only, so a theory of male movement based on avoiding male ejaculation altogether should work well for those males who still want the Big O, yet want to delay it for a while.
Different Breathing
Breath control also plays a factor. Whether riding a roll-coaster or being ridden like one, when we get excited, we tend to hold our breath. Just as runners who breathe better can run longer, the same is true for men engaged in athletic loving-making. Taking slower, deeper breaths is a good way to fallback from the crescendo and prolong encounters with a partner.
Different Focus: Thinking Of Everything But The Girl
The notion of changing one's mental focus during love making is a little trickier. Batters are routinely told to keep their eyes on the ball. Inversely, one way to knock a homer out of this park is to keep the mental eye on everything but the ball. Sometimes trying to flood the mind with thoughts having nothing to do at all with intercourse can help send the game into bonus innings. Thinking about taxes, gross chicken jokes or even a television jingle can buy a man extra time.
However, this tip comes with a caveat. Intentionally distracting yourself during sex might stretch the episode, but it can also make the experience less fun. Instead of being in the moment with a loved one, having a mental out-of-body experience means that enjoyment and intimacy is lost or at least postponed. Sometimes longer is better. Sometimes longer is just longer. Don't let the quest for a spicier sex life cause the endeavor to lose flavor
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