Something More
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Posted:Oct 20, 2020 2:43 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2021 1:52 pm
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I know it is hard get naked with someone for the first time. I get it. We all have our issues, body hangups etc.. For example, I don't like sharing full body shots of me. I like my tits, my smile. I am a 59 yr female who has a great sex life with my hubby. It because of the greatness of our relationship that we are willing search for more enhance it. Its just that we both know there is something more out there. We are forever in search of the something more. Define for yourself what that is one day, and I bet you when something comes along that isn't exactly that something more, you will be willing take a chance that it could at least be something... then comes the awkward conversation, really putting out there what you want, what you seek and why or why not this person is or is not going fit the "ideal" you have developed as a couple. AND STILL, as in all things, you will compromise, settle or be disappointed.
Like, why can't guys get hard and stay hard? Immediately my first thought is that they aren't into me. That is immediately where I go every time. How about they are nervous? Too excited? Have an ED issue? All kinds of reasons they can't maintain an erection and for some reason I always think it is my fault. Guess what? It isn't. I am sexy, sensual and ready. Sometimes they are not. Sometimes their something more is not going to line up with mine.... or my hubbys.
The guys that contact us daily are mostly willing to say just about anything to get a meeting with us. Here is the kicker.. we will not meet with just anyone. They have to be willing to embrace the bi side of things because that is a huge part of why we are doing this. AND.. they must be into us. BOTH OF US. That is where it gets complicated.
Still searching for the elusive something more.
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