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Perpetrating Perpetrators
  
Well, I have placed a precursor to this blog on my profile. However, I need to go into this a bit deeper. I have been with NoStrings before this current and up to date profile. I left because of all the perpetrators. All those who feign interest in you long enough to find out what desires you have, then leave you hanging. Why? What's this about?

Ok, so you may not be interested in me ONLY because of what my desires are. But is that the only reason why? If so, then how come you won't share yours? How about letting me know why you won't continue the conversation? I ain't gonna be mad at you for letting me know the truth--I'm gonna get mad because you feigned (or perpetrated) interest in me. It's frustrating!

I know your goals in NoStrings may not be identical, or even similar, to my own, but I don't think that excuses perpetration.

So, next time you connect with some [fill in the blank], just let him know he's a freak. Maybe it'll make EVERYTHING in NoStrings safer. Maybe they'll go to the APPROPRIATE FriendFinder site and stay there.

Only YOU can prevent forest fires! LOL
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I"m not RACIST, just...careful.
Posted:Sep 18, 2009 8:25 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2011 11:51 pm
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I hate when people say "I'm not racist." When they add to it "I have black friends." (or whatever other race), my spider senses go haywire.

Just because I have a gay friend does not mean that I'm not homophobic. Just because I work with an Iranian and willingly converse with them does not mean that I'm not racist against Middle Easterners or Indians. Just because I think white women are FUCKING CRAZY does not mean that I hate all of them. Just because black women are trifling and cry and whine about spilled milk and water does not mean that I won't fuck their brains out. (These are all examples, folks.) In other words, none of this proves that you are or are NOT racist.

What does, you ask? Would a black guy, say Carlton from Fresh Prince, nice, a gentleman, always looks sharp, always respectful, anything but your stereotypical black guy, wanted to date or, dare I say it?, marry your and asked you for your permission for either. Is he good enough? Now, apply that to whatever "preference" you decide to not deal with (for whatever your sorry ass reason is). Is your negative preference good enough for your /? Your sister? Your brother? I dare say your spouse if you were 'forced' to allow someone else to satisfy them? Are they good enough? If not, guess what? You ARE racist, asshole.

Ok, so you're not racist, but you don't prefer black partners. Gotcha. Here's a simple fix: "I'm not into blacks. It's my preference." If you want to explain why and put me in the same box as every other thug-wanna-be, weed smokin', ebonics speaking negro out there, fine. Not every dark skinned brotha or sista is like that. They are far and few inbetween, mind you, particularly when it comes to dating, but not nonexistant.

For all of you who are offended by me using your 'type' or lifestyle as s point of reference, that's all they were: points of reference. Most whites and latinos/latinas have a problem with blacks, and think that saying "I'm not racist. I have black friends" is okay by us. That's like saying "I'm not racist...just careful." "WTF? STFU, kiss my ass and suck my dick!" is all I want to say in response.

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I"m not RACIST, just...careful. (6)gunner54h
Dec 11, 2009 12:26 pm