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Day Pic - Watersports - Extremist - Not for Squeemish - 2007-06 Jun 09
Posted:Jun 9, 2007 12:58 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2011 1:59 pm
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In the Series, "Extremist - Not for Squeemish" - Pic 1

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Pic 1 - WaterSports - Extremist - Not for Squeemish - 2007-06 Jun 09

Extremist activities. What are they?

On one hand, they are anything that a person feels is extreme and certainly they are subjective to each individual.

However, certain activities or levels of activities are generally more extreme and called "Edge Play" or "Extreme Play". All activities have levels or degrees of play, and so, anything can be become extreme or be extreme for a given individual.

This series addresses a bit of both. (see more at bottom of the posting)


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Introduction to this Series:

There are a lot of activities in BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Domination/Submission, Sadism/Masochism). The list on alt is quite inclusive. Their "Alt Fetish Checklist" includes most activities that guys might typically engage in play, and then some.

Considering that any activity can be taken to it's limits, the boundary or edge of any individual, and cross over to something beyond the boundary of a sub, this series will address some of these activities.

There are activities which are classified with their own category and called "Edge Play" or "Extreme Play". These move further and further beyond the traditional safety, control and bounds of an individual, and often move beyond BDSM. This series begins to touch upon those, within the bounds and ability of control by a Master.

A question might be, "How does one get to this level?" The answer is individual, but generalizations do abound.

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Trends:

There is a tendency of late for Doms and subs (Dominants and submissives) to narrow their interests, to concentrate on specific areas of BDSM. It seems to be a syndrome of our culture today. Interest seems to be first gained from widely available information, broader knowledge and understanding, with more available and easily available sources. Online access to information is a big part of that. As a result more and more subs of all ages, who might not have tried anything alternative, are having their primal desires fed with a greater list of activities, while individually and specifically centering on certain things. Essentially, they're learning on their own, and not learning the broader spectrum of BDSM, but rather, a tailored experience.

For example: I've often heard a guy say, he was introduced to anal play from an old girlfriend, that he loves his ass being used and stretched. This happened over time, while his gf got him more and more interested in it, with toys, household objects, fingers and hands, strap-on dildos and sometimes cocks. Eventually the guys move into more 'extreme levels' of what started as basic anal play, and that being fisting and/or, showing on webcam as he impales himself on very large objects. Nearly all of these boys consider themselves str8 (in spite of those skeptical and unbelieving observers).

Labels of Vanilla or Extreme, Straight or Gay:

This isn't a judgment about str8, bi or gay. Keep in mind, there is a difference between, love, romantic sex, sexual interests, sexual play, and alternative sexual play. You can imagine yourself in different situations like that. Society often tries to label a person based on an interest. I might like smelling roses, but that does not make me a horticulturalist. Therefore, a guy might like objects up his ass to reach orgasm but, that does not make him gay. There is a huge area along the scale of str8 to gay and equally along the scale of vanilla to extreme. I subscribe to the idea that nobody is 100% either way. Society often dictates a fear or a phobia toward a label, and then tries to pin that label on as many people as possible. I recommend keeping an open mind.


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Watersports, WS, WaterSports, GoldenShowers, Yellow, PISS:

Watersports is more popular than you might think.


WS can be done with oneself. It's more and more common for young guys to want to be pissed on, consume it, forced or freely.

Other people think it's so extreme they cannot imagine anyone doing it. This is a good example of individual perspective, in addition to it's many possible levels of play.


Many guys include WS as one of their limits (haven't done but curious), but it's not common for a guy to include it as a boundary (won't do or consider).

Like several alternative interests, outside of masturbation, WS can be self performed, aka solo WaterSports, to get some idea of what it's like. Best to do it in the bath, so there's no cleanup.

In fact many play with piss in the bathtub. As boys grow older they often like to watch each other piss. It's a common prank or humiliation for a friend to aim his stream toward his best buddy and vice versa - piss play for certain.

WS can go from the mild of being pissed on the hands, torso, areas lower than the head and neck. Simply pissing on the belly or chest, legs, or even in one's pants and underwear is a good beginning for oneself or together with a partner. In partners, the whole back area can be used.

So, the next level might mean including the head and face. That's a leap for many guys. This can also lead to open mouth without consumption. You certainly get the taste, this way.

The next level is consumption/drinking of piss. Again this can be done solo or with someone. Is it dangerous. More than likely, in most pairings of two people, in most settings, consuming piss can be safer than kissing and swapping saliva. Is this debatable, YES! Piss is consumed in many cultures as a medicinal cure all - and used in some cultures as a cancer treatment through a urine enema.

Back to WS play. The last level can include more situations for being forced in WS by a Dom or Master.

What's the attraction? Certainly the warmth of it. The fact that it's a bit taboo is probably more the reason. The idea that it's humiliating, and possibly that it seems like risk or extreme in some ways of thinking.

The point of it in BDSM is like many activities, control, trust, focus of ones thoughts toward priorities, bonding, and last but not least, the fun of it.

In many ways it's an expression. It expresses the full service, full submission, full release of control of a sub/slave to it's Dom/Master.

Of course, guys do it cuz they're guys. It's like asking why they like to get dirty and wet and injured in sports.


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What is included as "Extremist activities"?

They can and most often include the following:

Anal Stretching/LargeDildos and Objects, Ball/Scrotum Stretching, Blood Play, Branding, Breath Play, Caging, Cling Wrap/BodyWrap, Confinement/Caging, Cutting, Defilement, Dirty Play, Electro/TENS, Enema/Douching/Enema/Klismaphilia, Fisting, Foreskin Stretching, Gun Play, Knife Play, Mummification/Masks, Scat/Brown/Dirty, Toilet Training, Torture, Watersports/Piss Play, Whips, Body Modifications, Amputations and others.

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Day Pic - Nature Whores - 2007-06 Jun 09
Posted:Jun 9, 2007 11:26 am
Last Updated:Jun 10, 2007 12:10 pm
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In the Series, "Nature Whores - BJ in the Park"

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Pic 1 - "Nature Whores" - BJ in the Park - 2007-06 Jun 09


Two hotties, getting it off in a park. Public sex in nature areas and the associated risks can add a lot of dimention to play - many men seek it as an added thrill. Of course, it's more thrilling if you don't end up in jail for violating some perverted law. Real handcuffs in jail is not the fun that it is in play!



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In this scene two guys are in the park, in a rather open area, adding risk to their public sexual activity.

Blow Jobs in parks are as common and as old as mankind. Adam had to get his cock sucked from someone, somewhere, before Eve was ripped from his rib.


If you do it in a park, remember the risks stem from two main sources, (1) law enforcement, and (2) from bashings.

Bashings are perpetrated by small or not so small groups of men or teens who like to bash the 'fags' to hell, as their ministers taught them from the pulpit (according to most court testimony when they get caught). Bashers visit parks where they know men meet for sex - one must wonder how they know if they themselves never went there for sex.

Often men are very discreet in parks - doing it in secluded areas. Seclusion is also part of the real danger.


In the pic, one boy is sucking the other's cock while the boys are in an open setting, which adds to being seen by law enforcement or guys seeking to bash. For them, the scene is more than the sexual act, but it's the public display of it that makes them very aroused in their primal need for sex.

Other people meet in public areas, and go to private locations such as home or hotel for the sex.

Risk is a thrill for many people.


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Cams: Is it about Showing vs Viewing or ....
Posted:Mar 4, 2007 8:26 am
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2012 10:43 am
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People come to these sites for a core purpose. Of those who cam and view which category below fits best.
I Cam and Don't Care who views me ::: the point of it all !
I Cam and Only want certain people viewing me ::: I spend time to shut people out
I Cam and Let any other cammer view me ::: tit for tat
I Cam and Only Let certain people view who also cam ::: I don't trust anyone else
I Cam and Only Let opposite sex view me ::: I can't cope with same sex viewing me
I don't Cam and Don't Care who I view ::: it's the point of it all - fun!
I don't Cam and Only view certain people ::: I spend a lot of time searching
I don't Cam and Don't view ::: not my thing
I don't Cam and Only view certain people who invite me to view ::: I don't trust others
I don't Cam and Only View opposite sex cams ::: I can't cope with same sex
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Day Pic - Twink Subs & Special Talents - 2007-02 Feb 25
Posted:Feb 25, 2007 1:27 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2007 1:28 pm
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What words come to mind? Hot - Sexy - Kinky - WOW - Damn - BIGGG - Twink - OHMYGOD.

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I know you just want it as much as he yearns to reach it with his mouth and tongue. This boy can not only lick his cock, he can suck his own cock by a few inches. After he revs you up with his talent, he can tickle your nipples from the inside when he rams it in, all the way, deep.


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Day Pic - BDSM - Bondage - 2007-02 Feb 25
Posted:Feb 25, 2007 11:12 am
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2007 11:32 am
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In the Series, "BDSM - Bondage"

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Pic 3 - BDSM - Bondage - 2007-02 Feb 25

Previously posted:

Pic 2 - BDSM - Someone asked: "What is the perfect slave?" - 2007-02 Feb 25

Pic 1 - BDSM - B&D, D&S, S&M - Did you know ... 2007-02 Feb 04

BDSM - an abbreviation for Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism.

Bondage, one of the few most requested alternative/bdsm activities, is a serious activity and requires one vital element to be sacrosanct: Trust !!! A sub must have unconditional trust in his dom or controller, and the dom must be fully trustworthy in most bdsm, and most especially in bondage. Once immobile, the sub has no choice.


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This boy is one of the sweetest, cutest twinks you can find and he just loves being tied up and used - vulnerable, helpless to whims of his dom, and all his senses focused on his what you do with him. This boy is a real experienced submissive. His only pleasure is in your pleasure. The fact that he's immobile and unable to stop you makes his cock drool like a leaking faucet. He knows he can trust you completely. His body, his cock, his whimpers, the pleasure shown on his face, combined let you know that.


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Day Pic - BDSM - Someone asked: "What is the perfect slave?" - 2007-02 Feb 25
Posted:Feb 25, 2007 10:38 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2011 1:57 pm
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In the Series, "BDSM - What is the perfect slave?"

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Pic 2 - BDSM - Someone asked: "What is the perfect slave?" - 2007-02 Feb 25

Previously posted:

Pic 1 - BDSM - B&D, D&S, S&M - Did you know ... 2007-02 Feb 04

BDSM - an abbreviation for Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism.

Note: Slave in this context is a willing person who submits to a Master in BDSM activities. There are many variations to the methods, practice and roles of the slave, yet, it is a formal statement of both the slave and the Master, with rules, ethos and experience factors to differentiate a slave from anyone else in otherwise normal BDSM activity.


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What are the qualities, the factors, the elements of a slave, and then what are the elements of perfection for a slave in the alternate/bdsm environment?

I want to explore a few thoughts and ask others to add in their perspectives on any part of this topic.

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Words like submissive, passive, service, property, pup, worthless, pup, caged, and many more are often mentioned in messages I receive. Is it a fantasy or, is it play or, is it in fact, real?

Sometimes a boy describes himself as naturally submissive and will do anything, absolutely anything for his Master/Mistress, or, will do anything to please a Dom/Domme or Master/Mistress. All of those seem to be common, yet, what do they mean? When does a slave discover that he/she is a slave or is slave material? The word often missing is "experienced". Rarely on this or other sites, in profiles and in other circles does a slave say he/she is "a slave experienced at serving his/her Master/Mistress". It seems as if this is a place where submissives who desire to be a slave search for their calling. I somewhat think it's true for Masters and Doms. However, in the case of Masters or Doms, if they are seeking their calling, they are neither dom or master, they are posers and fakes. Why, because it's partly nature, partly experience, and largely an ethic - the way of thinking and believing.

Far too often, boys write that they are open to anything, but offer no explanation of "anything". In fact there often seems to be no real interest in fully open chat, let alone slave/sub BDSM activities. I have to wonder why the word slave is so openly used.

This site provides a real good avenue for people to explore their desires to submit to a Master/Mistress, to explore their cravings for various non-conformist activities, to find like-minded people. However, many guys I've talked with say they get little or no real discussion on here. Maybe they just haven't figured out how to get connected. However, I suspect it's the same reason they're not at a club or social event for meeting someone of like-minded interests. The web and this site are a "safe havens" for the newly initiated (or hope to be initiated) in a world they don't really yet understand.

I for one, suggest that this site and other web sites should be places where information, training, learning resources could be offered. It seems that they are desperately needed. Simple things like the definitions of the words, and their context in the BDSM community would be one thing, the roles of a Dom/Domme and sub might be another, popular views on commitment and responsibilities yet another. This site offers courses, and that's a start.

Certainly, I want subs and slaves to understanding the difference of being a bdsm slave, participating in bdsm activities, and seeking to learn about those. It would be an achievement to read words like responsible, experienced, dependable, obedient, honorable, trustworthy, inner nature, and a few others.

I guess I'm an optimist or a dreamer - NOT. lol. Msg me any time on my blog topics.


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Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant 2007-02 Feb 24 hot_fuckbuddy 18yo in England
Posted:Feb 24, 2007 1:01 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2011 1:57 pm
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In the Series, "Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant"

Note: The Sexiest Boys Alive Contest has been one of my earliest series on my ALT account, and now, a way to highlight some sexy boys on this site.

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Sexy is a matter of perception in many ways - but like many things, it can be said, "We know 'sexy' when we see it." It is not a physical attraction meter, but one of the whole guy.

hot_fuckbuddy
hot_fuckbuddy
is the NoStrings handle for this sexy 18yo guy from Leeds, Yorkshire, England, in The UK. This hottie shows his "sexy" on cam, with a schedule of Sunday nights (UK time folks), and sexy in his writen profile. He calls himself, "a hot toyboy." Ladies, can he hand himself on a silver platter any better than that? His byline of, "Hot young fuckbuddy ready for action" sure gets your attention. His cam will get a lot more than your attention, or should I say, "get you at attention." And guys, he doesn't leave anyone out, as he says, "... slightly bi-curious, I want to suck off and be sucked off by a man."

Ok, I'm booking my ticket to Leeds now. I have a feeling this boy is a hot little (big where it counts) instiable boytoy who'll be one of the few to wear me out.

Commming in a jiffy!!!!!


P.S. hot_fuckbuddy has a blog at this link: hot_fuckbuddy

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Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant 2007-02 Feb 04 screamattherain 22yo in Canada
Posted:Feb 4, 2007 12:36 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2007 10:16 pm
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In the Series, "Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant"

Note: The Sexiest Boys Alive Contest has been one of my earliest series and a way to highlight some sexy boys on this site.

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Sexy is a matter of perception in many ways - but like many things, it can be said, "We know 'sexy' when we see it." It is not a physical attraction meter, but one of the whole guy.

screamattherain
screamattherain
is the NoStrings handle handle for this sexy 22yo guy from Alberta, CA. This quiet, shy guy shows his "sexy" regularly on cam, in his writen profile and on chat. I'm not sure about that shy side, since he easily expresses his interests, and creative "sexy" side. Whether or not he is a "" and a "slut bitch" as some say when he's on cam, he is very friendly with a magnetic, easy going personality.

Don't let this hot sexy stud, slut or pass you by. Did I mention how well he 'cleans' up his sticky, cum messes - LICK!


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Day Pic - BDSM - B&D, D&S, S&M - Did you know ... - 2007-02 Feb 04
Posted:Feb 4, 2007 12:12 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2011 1:57 pm
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In the Series, "BDSM - B&D, D&S, S&M ..."

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Pic 1 - BDSM - B&D, D&S, S&M - Did you know ... 2007-02 Feb 04

hogtieboy, 26yo, is a very enthusiastic, energetic and submissive slave, who enjoys camming ... albeit he's straight ...

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Do you or did you ever engage in BDSM, think about it, ask about it, check it out?
I've written a lot about invidual aspects of BDSM on this blog. This is the start of a series on specific topics.

What is BDSM?

The acronym itself is a combined acronym for
B&D - Bondage & Discipline
D&S - Domination & Submission
S&M - Sadism and Masochism, sometimes called sadomasochism

BDSM is a mutual interest activity-relationship within a culture and community that engages in a number of physiological, mental or emotional, and spiritual stimuli. The center of BDSM is D&S, domination and submission. It is the core and foundation of the mutual interest emotional and spiritual relationship. Supporting the D&S foundation is B&D, bondage and discipline, and S&M, sadism and masochism with emotional, both with mentally and physically and emotionally stimulating activities.

Controversially, BDSM is a way to focus ones natural instincts through activities in a relationship which enhance and balance three planes of existence "body (physical, sensual), mind (temporal, emotional), and soul (infinite or spiritual)" existence. For everyone, there is a fire in the pit of their gut, in the center of their mind, in the expanse of their soul, which is often unfed. It withers or lies dormant. When that flame is given stimuli it expands and grows to flourish and feed from the very nature of one's being - body, mind, and soul, harmonize and become a self-sustaining engine, a state of nirvana, opening a glimpse of heaven. The saints often write of this as reaching a state of ecstasy, a state with the divine. It should be pointed out that most other physiologies and sciences, which claim "body, mind and soul" healing, simply concentrate on one of those, such as massage, yoga and natural health (physical, sensual), or meditation (temporal), while attempting to cross three or more planes (worlds) of existence through logical (temporal) understandings of creation or purpose (spiritual). Few people suddenly become interested in BDSM from teaching, training, recruitment or logic oriented influences. Teaching or training might show what they feel. Logic might help explain what they already know. Yet, people engage in or are drawn to BDSM from the fire within, their natural instinct.

I use the phrase activity-relationship because BDSM is deeper and more involved than the sum of its parts, which are often dissected by those who attempt to describe BDSM, where they focus on certain popular activities in BDSM. Culture and community are often mentioned when discussing BDSM, because like any interest, those who practice it, often seek others who do (it takes two to tango), and thus becoming a cultural subset or a BDSM community of our larger society. Further, people who enjoy specific interests within BDSM appear to be members of a smaller subset or subculture within the BDSM community.

BDSM includes a number of consensual activities that enhance an interaction between those who are in either dominant or submissive roles. This relationship like any friendship or partnership, engages the brain, body and soul in ways that enhance each person's sexual and non-sexual interactions.

What is not BDSM?
BDSM is not forced, it is not a form of abuse, it is not about pain, it is not degradation, and it is not destructive. Many web sites focus on these aspects as a way to either describe, relate or pigeon hole the complicated aspects of BDSM. All of those are bogus and can not be taken seriously. Many of the "fakes" or "posers" in BDSM are those who engage in destructive behaviours, and who, for reasons of error or outright fraud, perpetrate their behaviour upon novices in a community in which they think they can blend, that being BDSM.

What might/may or might not/may not be involved in BDSM?
BDSM does not have to include sex of any definition of the word sex, or it very well can. BDSM is or may not include pain; it is not tied only to pain. BDSM is most public or popularized in gay leather bars, but it is not just a gay community or a leather community. In fact, from my interviews of thousands of men and women involved in BDSM, most are by far, men who associate themselves with a straight or bisexual label. BDSM might involve what's called a 'Master' and a 'slave', or not. Although BDSM can be lived like a lifestyle, a person may or may not live their dominant or submissive personality fulltime or only in BDSM 'play'. A man or woman who is dominant in business, which can be a learned behaviour, might engage as a submissive in BDSM, their natural role, or vice versa role or behaviour. Role playing might be used or might not. Monogamy is not always a clear defined casting in BDSM play, sexual or non-sexual. Play can be only non-sexual. Straight, bisexual or gay, are not clear lines of distinction in BDSM. There is no set or defined situational awareness within or among the BDSM community, culture or subcultures.

What drives BDSM?
The driving engine of the physical, emotional and spiritual relationship is a combination of control, trust, bonding, and choice of ones body, thoughts and purpose of being. Dominant and submissive personality types or learned behaviours are essential to BDSM activities, roles and interactions. Does a dominant enjoy controlling another person or a submissive enjoy serving another person? Those are the words often stated or used in defining roles. However, a natural dominant seeks and is energized by a natural submissive's relinquishment of control in unconditional service to the dominant; while a natural submissive seeks and is energized by a natural dominant's power and ability to responsibly take control (ownership) of a natural submissive. A dominant's and a submissive's interaction relationship is co-dependant; one cannot flourish or fully exist without the other. They are each other's fuel that bonds them together. A natural submissive trusts his dominant without question - ultimately this is an unconditional trust and symbiotic. A natural dominant absorbs and assumes control unquestionably in a (responsible) trust bond (relationship) that, due to its very nature, can only support and enhance. A natural dominant cannot harm, diminish or destroy the fuel that energizes his existence. In this very nature based understanding, choice is a human trait that both dominant and submissive come to 'know' of each other. A dominant will take responsibility and control for the very life of the submissive, while the submissive gives his dominant meaning and life.

What is a Dominant or a Submissive Master or a Slave?
There are a thousand definitions that all skirt the basics. Foundationally, a person who engages in BDSM itself is usually naturally dominant or submissive, or a person who likes to play the role of a dominant or a submissive. B&D is the core. One is naturally so, or plays a role in all BDSM activity, community or stimuli. That is not the same as a fake or a poser. Role playing is common and fully acceptable. Over time, as a dominant gains experience, training from those who are more experienced, deep understanding and an ethos for his abilities, nature and 'craft', he is granted recognition as a Master. Slave takes on many connotations outside this realm. However, conversely to a Master, over time as a submissive gains experience and a deep understanding and ethos for his nature, abilities and 'craft', he is granted recognition as a Slave. Within much of the leather community within the broader BDSM community, an entire set of protocols come into play, for those who tend to live BDSM as a lifestyle.

What is a Fake or a Poser?
A fake, is one who is not described by the above. A fake is a person who seeks to destroy, harm, or degrade another person is not a natural dominant (else he's psychotic), or a natural submissive (else he's psychotic), but rather a twisted, hate filled, angry, revengeful individual who is psychotically lashing out on unwitting victims. The internet is full of such fakes. A poser tends to act like a dominant or a submissive for often undefined reasons which can range from desire, or envy, or misunderstood interests, or
confused personality, or need to belong, or voyeuristically observe others from behind a mask.

What are some of the major activities?


-o Total Control, Total Domination, Total Submission, 'Force' Play, Orgasm Control;

-o Restricted Movement, Bondage, Suspension mummification, Caging, Handcuffs, Restraints;

-o Humiliation, Verbal Humiliation, Stripping/Nudity, Public/Exhibitionism, Video, Photos, 'Force' Feminization, Toilet Training;

-o Discipline, Spanking, Paddling, Whipping;

-o Submit to Authority, Generational, Age Play, Role Play;

-o Penetration, Ass Play, Dildos, Butt plugs, Fingers, Beads, Object Insertions, Fisting;

-o Role Play, Daddy/, Coach/jock-cheerleader, Teacher/student, Principal/schoolgirl-schoolboy, Homeowner/handiman-deliveryboy, Doctor/patient-nurse, Fireman/victim, Policeman/criminal.

-o Oral Service, Body Tongue Worship, Licking, Cum Eating from body or holes, Swapping Cum, Face Sitting, Rimming, Cocksucking, Mouth Fucking;

-o Sensation Play, Sensory Deprivation, Forced Orgasm, Masturbation, Massage, Creampie, Bukake Shaving, Fur, Ice, Latex, Satin, Stockings, Electro Stimulation;

-o Fetish, Leather, Boot Worship, Harness, Chaps, Sniffing Used Underwear (Jocks, Socks);

-o Kink, Give Receive WS, Enema, Medical Submission;

-o Group Activity, Gang Bang, Circle Jerk, Bukake Party, Orgy;

-o Pain, Cock-Ball Torture CBT, Clamps, Tit Torture TT, Electro;

-o Defilement, Dirty, Raunch, Strong Smells, Body Odor, Piss/Scat Consumption;

-o Body Alteration, Tattoos, Marking, Scaring, Branding, Amputation, Piercing, Stretching, Gauging.


What are not some of the activities?
Without judgment of these activities, BDSM activities do not include , do not include death, do not include violence, do not include animals, and do not include victims (unwitting players). Pedophilia is not BDSM, Beatiality is not BDSM, and is not BDSM. Generally they're mentioned in the BDSM community, but as much as they are, they are their own area of activity.

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Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant 2007-01-30 DikaLickaLishus 22yo in TN
Posted:Jan 30, 2007 2:12 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2007 4:01 pm
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In the Series, "Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant"

Note: The Sexiest Boys Alive Contest has been one of my earliest series and a way to highlight some sexy boys on this site. Eli is my first NoStrings "contestant".

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Sexy is a matter of perception in many ways - but like many things, it can be said, "We know 'sexy' when we see it." It is not a physical attraction meter, but one of the whole guy.

DikaLickaLishus
DikaLickaLishus is the NoStrings handle for this sey 22yo guy from Jackson, TN (despite the NoStrings map pulling up KY). Eli shows his "sexy" in his writing where he expresses his interests, and thoughts, and he shows his "sexy" in his pics where he expresses is nature, his feelings and his creativeness. He says in his profile, "I'm a crazy country white boy, with some kink on the side." From his profile, it's clear he nails who he is, with that line. He is sexy in his personality, creativeness, kinks, clarity of himself, his bod and his photo presence.

Eli's pics show his creative side and a few of them can challenge many of the hottest professionals on the planet. Lick a Lishus !


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Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant 2007-01-30 jesterKO 23yo in NC
Posted:Jan 30, 2007 1:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2007 2:10 pm
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In the Series, "Sexiest Boys Alive Contestant"

Note: This has been one of my earliest series and a way to highlight some sexy boys on this site. I will highlight some guys from alt, because they are sexy and I had posted them on my alt blog. The boy posted below was my first "contestant" on alt.

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Sexy is a matter of perception in many ways - but like many things, it can be said, "We know 'sexy' when we see it." It is not a physical attraction meter, but one of the whole guy.

jesterKO is the ALT handle for this 23yo sexy guy from the midwest. I've used pics that I've taken of him (see the first post below) on a number of my blog posts. He is sexy in his personality, easy-going attitude, talents, submissiveness and physical presence.

Currently he is serving in Iraq.




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Who the Fuk belongs on ALT, in terms of who the Fuk DOES NOT belong on ALT?
Posted:Jan 30, 2007 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Jun 10, 2007 1:35 pm
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I'll keep adding to this fun blog list of who should go back to baking Fuking cookies or changing the Fuking oil in their peekem-up traughk - wot dah FAUUUGHK.


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People who don't want hear the word FUCK do not belong on an adult web site, and most particularly do not belong on an NoStrings type of site - hence the center word of my BLOG.

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People who don't want to be hit on by Fuking both, persons of the opposite sex, and persons of the same Fuking sex, do not belong on NoStrings - hence the reason I DO reply to their Fuking insulting responses to my Network Invites or Messages.

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People who don't want any Fuking sort of adult oriented sexual encounter do not belong on NoStrings - that's why God invented Fuking church socials - make use of them - warning: stay away from the church ladies, they hit on me for "naughty" sex all the Fuking time.

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People who don't Fuking write anything at all in their profile, except to repeat the same Fuking letter of the alphabet in order to fill out the required minimum characters, and therefore, don't indicate the difference between themselves and a '57 Chevy, do not belong on NoStrings.

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People who think that they are engaging in a "new sexual experience" activity when they Fuking have "vanilla" sex facing the "wrong" direction on TOP of the fuckn bed, do not belong on NoStrings - hence the reason Fuking viagra was invented - they need to see the doc and get it.

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People who have not the slightest Fuking clue what any of these words, phrases or abbreviations mean: Bondage, Pain, S&M, Domination, Submission, Master, Mistress, Kink, M/S, DS, D/S, Raunch, Alternative Sex, do not belong on NoStrings - hence the reason the missionary position was invented - they should use it.

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People who think Fuking foreplay is cam2cam or kissing below the neck, do not belong on ALT - hence the reason Fuking center consoles in cars were invented - take a ride on one, you'll thank me later.

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What the Fuk is a BLOG?
Posted:Jan 30, 2007 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2007 10:16 pm
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What the Fuk is a BLOG?


I've had this blog on my ALT profile, and have often been asked to put my blog here on NoStrings. I use pics and text together with sarcasm to teach, amuse, question and discuss a large number of adult oriented topics, particularly BDSM.

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Officially or unofficially, depending on your view of the world, a BLOG is a web (publicly published) personal (individual) journal (log), for others to read and provide comment. It's like a "pompous" personal diary on the web (made public), frequently updated (often daily). As with any diary it reflect the moods, temperment, personal thoughts and feelings (personality) of the author, and also, the personality of those who comment. The fact that other people read it and comment on your "diary", is a twist or twisted capablility brought about by the world wide web - the internet - computers - and of course, the main ingredient, bored people.

Analysis: a BLOG - "B" list as in not "A" list or worth anything. "LOG" as in a useless piece of wood, often used to make paper or used to thow on a fire. Put together, a worthless useless piece of wood (but in this case it's electrons rather than paper made from wood). In short, useless ramblings of an egocentric, pompous, person. Let's just think of the writings of millions of PLATOs in the 21st century. Oh, let's not!

The most widely seen BLOGS are the political ramblings of self proclaimed knowledgeables (clearly pompous idiots who keep talking to prove otherwise, but clearly sustain the common view that they're idiots) who think they have some charter or pre-ordained authority to shove their spew down your throat. So, what the fuck, if everyone else is doing it, why not do it yourself and let your words travel the globe being read by people who are so bored out of their undies, they'll stoop as low as they have to, to read this shit.

Q: BLOGS on NoStrings - what are they, and what's their purpose? A: What they are - Diversions from the real reason you came (and probably often cum) on the web site, which is to look at pictures of hotties, and attempt to hook-up with one. Their purpose - The purpose(s) on Alt can be said, to try to lure a hottie to recognize you as something more than just a perverted sex starved raving lunatic. Does that answer your question? That's a question to a question.

If this hasn't been taken by you as a humorous view of people's self view that anything they say is something other people want to hear, then you're on the wrong site. That leads me to ask, "Who belongs on NoStrings?" or more importantly, "Who does not belong on NoStrings?" The subject for a BLOG. Master Will

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