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Friends and Friendship  

1MassiveWetSpot 58M/54F  
5 posts
1/5/2008 7:52 am

Last Read:
7/17/2020 11:11 am

Friends and Friendship

Webster defines the following:

FRIENDS as a person whom one knows and is fond of; close acquaintance

FRIENDSHIP as the state of being friends

How can we say we are friends with someone and at the first sign of trouble or they do something we don't like (whether it be past or present) just shun them away as if we never knew them. This is something we find this very sickening. We know people can do bad things and make mistakes but we ourselves must look inside of us to see if we are perfect first before turning on them.

You ask why we are doing this, well its simple. Someone that you all know (and when WE say YOU ALL we mean many of you that are our friends) made a mistake in the past just like many of us. Instead of listening to this person and trying understand what happened so that you might try to forgive, YOU just closed yourselves off and turned your back on this person (and this is someone that would give the shirt off their back to you and for some this person has).

We are of the opinion that it is not our place to judge anyone, we leave that up to the one we believe is our maker (whether you believe in GOD or whatever HIGHER POWER you believe in). Somewhere, somehow, someone has forgiven YOU, so why can't you return the favor. WE hope that you are never in a position that many of YOU have put this person in by ganging up on instead of trying to help.


Controlher69 54M
1 post
9/20/2018 8:48 pm

This is sooo true.... I wish everyone would REALLY read this and maybe in the future take the time to listen and understand..... But, they won't..


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