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WHY WOMEN NEED TO STOP BEING TOLD TO RELAX WHEN RECEIVING ORAL SEX
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WHY WOMEN NEED TO STOP BEING TOLD TO RELAX WHEN RECEIVING ORAL SEX I read an article not so long ago in a womens magazine well known for talking about sex. This particular article was giving us women tips on how to relax when receiving oral sex. The article itself was giving pretty sound information, “you might be worrying you smell but he won’t be”, kind of thing (very heteronormative but that’s another issue) but that wasn’t what was pissing me off. What was pissing me off is why it appears we need this type of blog/article, telling us how to enjoy receiving sexual pleasure directly relating to our vulva, in very close proximity, because a quick search tells me there are a lot of them. Why the hell aren’t we asking where these fucked up messages are coming from in the first place? Obviously, there will be a lot of women out there who are comfortable with their bodies and will have no problem getting their sexual needs met. However, those who are not so fortunate are likely to have lost their relationship with their vulva at a young age. It is rare for to be encouraged to love and appreciate their vulva. We are often scolded for exploring and talking about it so we enter into womanhood with this idea that it’s all a bit yucky “down there”. Using phrases like “down there” reminds me of Lord Voldemort from the Harry Potter books, who is so evil that even speaking his name will bring untold terror to anyone who dares! So just to prove that nothing will happen, VULVA!, CLITORIS!, VAGINA! There you go…..not one death eater in sight. The attitude towards the vulva and oral sex is a worrying combination of myth and media. Myths such as “I can’t let him go down on me because I smell” or anxieties like “what if I take too long to come?” or “he won’t like the look of it” are very prevalent today and they are all messages that have been given to us by other sources. I truly believe we would not have these anxieties if they were not suggested to us, however indirectly.  |
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5/28/2019 3:10 pm |
I would lick you and make you cum several times be for I mounted you!
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I think whatever a woman can do to have a comfortable self body image is a good thing. The ass ambassador
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5/28/2019 3:39 pm |
was this post made to actually address a certain something that you read that pissed you off ? way i see it the pic of you and the article have very little in common...you are male you have altered your body to look and dress like a female , why would that article piss you off? you say we are scolded for exploring and talking about it so " we" enter into womanhood? you would have never entered into womanhood , you would have entered into manhood with the idea that some day you would be exploring a womans body...so therefore there is no " we " and " us" when discussing a womans genitals ...and how she views or is told to relax when oral sex is imminent ...not in any offensive way ...ppl get may the wrong idea ...
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5/28/2019 4:13 pm |
you are very cute.
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i get it...i agree with you... see, i found out accidentally how to masturbate, at age 5...actually i was just sitting in my chair, crossing my legs, and pushing my pussy against the inner thighs, i felt tingle on my pussy and felt good...therefore, i kept doing it, till my mother saw me... then my mother said, good little girls should not do "something like that"...as if i was doing "something bad"... now i get it as an adult, if i was masturbating in front of people in public, yes, that might not be not appropriate, but saying openly, masturbating is bad for the girls, like my mother did...yah...that just made me feel like i should be ashamed for doing such a thing... luckily, it did not stop me from doing things again, and i actually made sure, my mother was not looking at me when i was doing...haha... then as i grew older, i was curious about how my vulva and vagina look like...so i started to explore in front of mirrors...i touched with my fingers...i felt the discharge thickness, it changes according to the period cycle, and yes, i smelled my fingers...no, nope...no smell...well, that's not true, it has a certain smell, but not to the point, it was yucky or fishy... so yah...i did not even thought of there are girls who has no confident when the guys go down on them... but like you said, there should be more accurate and positive article about their body..."down there" is not yucky place...we should all celebrate what we have...of course, the importance of good hygiene should be addressed... and if, IF, you smell something bad, or see abnormal discharge, you should go see docs...cus it could be signs of STD, yeast infections, or something... but other than that, nothing to worry about...they come in different shapes, colors and sizes...but they are all unique and beautiful... what we need is an encouragement and accurate informations...
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