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Weren't Women Taught Never to Take Candy from a Stranger..  

Heathen_G 65M
391 posts
12/29/2019 3:55 am
Weren't Women Taught Never to Take Candy from a Stranger..

So why would women accept drinks and dinner from a complete stranger ??

[Read first comment at the bottom of the page].


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
12/29/2019 11:41 am

Lots of women are wary of guys who offer to buy drinks etc. I don't think it helps guys get laid, quite the opposite.

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


Heathen_G replies on 12/29/2019 6:24 pm:
You are right about that.

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
12/29/2019 5:53 am

Oh dear dear dear!! I'm not sure where to start with this as I saw the blog in question.
I like to meet in a public place initially, personally I am not out for all I can get, if we went for a drink I would alternate the buying, if it's dinner I would insist on going 50/50, I am self sufficient and don't need a mans' money.
I am sure that there are women and men that are out for all they can get, but these people should be easily recognizable from initial contact

And so what if the man insists on paying, I don't expect you've met at The Ivy or the Ritz, so you'd probably lose fourty bucks if you aim was to pay and score sex.,,, and failed.

The guy who said, what is wrong with taking a nice lady out to dinner, and enjoying each others' company sounds like a nice guy with standards, he does NOT sound like a loser at all. AND is probably more likely to "score" that a dickhead who says "fancy a fuck"

You seem to have an issue with men treating women to dinner, or anything else, Your constant blogging of this fact, points to the fact that you have been stung/conned and are bitter about it, if that's the case you need to let it go and move on. Not everyone is out for all they can get.


Heathen_G replies on 12/29/2019 7:15 pm:
He is a loser. "Nice guys", like him, are suckers and these women know to play that game with him.

Forty dollars is still a loss. Once a week for a year, that's still about $2000 wasted out of his pocket.

Mr Nice-guy is thinking he can only get women if he pays her directly or pays for her food and drink. The poor loser has no idea all he has to do is talk to her and see if there is any sexual chemistry. Any woman, including yourself, knows within 5 to 10 minutes of meeting a guy if she will ever have sex with him.

I don't have an any issue with a men treating his woman to a meal and drink. "His woman". The woman he has intimate history with already.

Yes , I have an issue with women mooching off men when she can afford to feed herself. I have an issue with men spending his money on women he wants to get to know. Completely unnecessary to spend his money to get to know a woman....and by the way, he wouldn't be doing that if he had no sexual interest in her. So , "Get to know", really means, "Can I get her naked". That's what he means when he says to a woman, "I'd like to get to know you".... translation: "I'd like to see you naked in my bed".

Yes... I have an issue with women demanding respect and equality but not respecting men, not respecting the equality she no has, instead insisting personally-unknown men buy her food and drink and gifts, when she knows very well he wants to bed her. Hell just become a prostitute. Then that transaction would be fair, and he would get what he pays for.

Did I get stung , conned? No. I just paid very close attention from the late 1960's to now.

ltrskr 76M

12/29/2019 4:58 am

    Quoting jay_peek2000:
    Jesus, you guys are a bunch of losers. I have met a lot of women from this site and elsewhere and not a single one was looking to take advantage of me. Most people, men and women, want to make sure that they click and are safe before they have sex. In a civilized society, this usually involves meeting over coffee, a drink, or a meal. You sound like bitter, cheapskate incels.
Another good example of profile failure!

Reading ur profile u must have a sign in ur driveway that says
"Parking for Sex Only"
One hour limit!


jay_peek2000 60M
29 posts
12/29/2019 4:35 am

Jesus, you guys are a bunch of losers. I have met a lot of women from this site and elsewhere and not a single one was looking to take advantage of me. Most people, men and women, want to make sure that they click and are safe before they have sex. In a civilized society, this usually involves meeting over coffee, a drink, or a meal. You sound like bitter, cheapskate incels.


Heathen_G replies on 12/29/2019 6:30 pm:
ha... well you sound like a homosexual guy with a buzzword dictionary for 2018 through 2019...

ltrskr 76M

12/29/2019 4:21 am

Interesting post!

Seems there just not one answer because we're all different people!
If the chemistry is there, then maybe a chance, but if that's ur only goal, men or women then u decide that up front before u meet.
If she fucks me because I bought her dinner then I'm not interested anyway.
Pictures:
Did u ever notice how many women say, "NO COCK SHOTS" but their only photo is of their pussy!!!!! Post what ur comfortable with, they can ask for more AND that will give u some insight to maybe what they really want, men or women!
If u don't look like ur profile picture, I'm going to drink until u do!

Good post!
Happy New Year!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/29/2019 3:56 am

I was reading through the blogs yesterday , and found these questions a woman was asking about going out with men.

She's divorced. She made a point of making that very clear up front. I don't know why. She's in her 50's, so she shouldn't be all that naive about going out with men she finds on a popular sex site.

She asks, "Why is this so hard ??.....She's 50 something, she couldn't possibly be confused about an erection, so I read further..

She said she had dinner the other night and was able to get some honest answers from a gentleman. ...... she's not getting honest answers from a gentleman. Everyone knows when men or women showboat their manners, you're not going to get honest answers.

The following numbered sentences are excerpts of what she said/asked: ....and I answered her.

1. When us gals say we don’t want a hookup but let’s meet and see if we click and go from there. ...... Okay, if the guy wants sex today, right now, he should wave bye-bye. If he does go meet her, don't buy her dinner , don't buy her drinks..... she's interviewing you to see if you're a sucker or if she could see herself in bed with you.

2. Is this true?? How fast can I bed her?? ..... Sometimes. May as well have some fun with it. Women like to to play the game, "How fast can I get him to spend money on me". Seems perfectly fair to see how fast he can get you naked.

3. I can change her mind once she sees how great I am. .... No. If she doesn't want a hookup, then meeting her is most likely going to be a waste of your time, [and if you're stupid] a waste of your money.

4. Hell I bought her dinner. .... You were stupid. Don't do that any more for women you have no intimate history with.

5. If she didn’t want it she wouldn’t have those kind of pictures on her profile ..... Consider that she doesn't want it with you.. or she is using those type of pictures as bait, to lure in some suckers.

So her question is: 6. what internal rules do you go by. .... Same rules as anywhere else. Rule #1.. if she shows no sexual interest within one to three times out with her, walk away. Rule #2.. Don't spend money on a woman you've got no intimate history with. She has her own money.

7. Just wanted to know if this was a thing. .... Yes. It's a thing.

One guy answered her by saying, "What is wrong with just taking a nice lady out for a dinner and enjoy each other company never have tried to bed a women if I had dinner with her and I would pay the bill nice to talk and have a nice conversation and get to now each other that is what I would do. "

He had his gentleman [I'm a sucker] costume on when he answered her. He may as well be waving a flag that says, "I'm a loser".


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