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Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
7/28/2019 6:53 am

I wouldn't fool with anyone if I knew they were attached and that there significant other didn't know about it.
Like you I prefer not to get involved if there is a home problem, but if there partner tells me personally it's ok, that's a different story


12211male 60M/54F

7/28/2019 6:59 am

When they leave Their “status” blank, or mention..must be discreet, it’s a dead giveaway they’re attached..


1980hwl 53M
90 posts
7/28/2019 7:05 am

I agree but don’t have to worry that often!

Better late then never


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
7/28/2019 7:16 am

Nope, it's not for me either.

I don't want to be that third person in the relationship which has to be kept secret, I don't wish to cause deception or lies in the relationship, don't want to have excuses told to me all the time.

Like you said, I don't want the drama of all that.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
7/28/2019 7:37 am

If the woman is cheating it’s a flat out no go, finding out after the fact is a deal breaker, I have no interest in having to deal with an angry significant other.

Given that in today’s society open relationships and permission to play is within the range of normal, there is a slim chance I might consider getting involved with an attached/married woman if I can ask questions and be more than reasonably certain that she is doing so by mutual arrangement with her significant other.


BigBadSteve94 30M

7/28/2019 7:38 am

Yeah you are right somewhere deep down inside you know their partner isn’t like 100% with it even though they can act like it. Only was given an opportunity like this once and I did feel bad but still hooked up sadly lol


Mikemike107015 53M  
136 posts
7/28/2019 7:39 am

I prefer women who are attached but only if there partner gives them their blessing. I find single women become clingy even though I am up front about my desire to only be casual. I will not be with someone I know is cheating. Interestingly enough, I've been talking to a woman for a few months and we obviously share a mutual attraction. I've made it perfectly clear to her that not only will I not be with her physically while she is attached but that I also don't want to be the reason she becomes unattached. Quite simply I'm only interested in being with her if she breaks up with her boyfriend for her own reasons, not because of my interest in her. ✌


Satyr48 75M
1905 posts
7/28/2019 7:54 am

Men are rabid dogs when it comes to sex... You're wise not to believe them without hard (excuse the pun) evidence... Personally, I don't lie, because I don;t have to, but if a woman doesn't want a married guy, regardless, I respect that, and don't press... there's plenty of other women...
A few years ago, my wife would have been 100% with you, but lately her "standards" have slipped, and she isn't as strict about relationship standard... Her current attitude is that she's getting older, and her sexual drive and ability won't last much longer, so she's "stocking up" now...

Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years...
You could be next...


xxxncincy 48M

7/28/2019 7:55 am

Just be real with your partner, if you not happy in the situation just leave and move on. Better and safer for both parties.


thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
7/28/2019 8:44 am

It Depends, I see a married woman in an open relationship. I know her and her husband very well and all know and consent. Our relationship is not for everyone but as long as everyone communicates and knows, there may not be a problem.


1_bolt 57M
1 post
7/28/2019 9:01 am

My wife and I have an open marriage. We both like to fuck a lot and I travel quite extensively. Sometimes I may be gone for several months. Because of this we both allow each other to play separately as long as we communicate to the other what we are doing. Sometimes it is just a simple text saying :Hey I'm getting laid".


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/28/2019 11:47 am

It certainly lends credence as to why people don't want to be seen here.
To many people these days really never give a second thought even care about the disservice they do to others emotional health!

Using more than all the road!


lediscret31 42M

7/28/2019 2:10 pm

Qu\'en pensez-vous ??

C'est plus un site pour s'amuser et se passer le temps que pour faire des rencontre, mais en deux ans j'ai quand même rencontré deux personnes du sites avec qui j'ai eu quelques rapports, et vous ,


Srabon2017 36M
35 posts
7/29/2019 9:37 am

I don't know what is right or wrong?


sicky81 42M
23 posts
7/30/2019 5:26 am

mmmmmm


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
7/30/2019 7:56 am

This maybe a sex site but I do have my standards. If a couple are swingers that's one thing, and I'm ok with that because all parties involved know. But when one person is married and says oh my husband isn't interested in sex any more, or can't get it up, and the man says that his wife has lost all of her sexual desires. Then do something about it there is help out there for you. But I refuse to go out, meet, or sleep with someone that is married when the other person doesn't know what's going on.

We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious


hotnhorny4nsafun 62M/49F  
6 posts
7/30/2019 4:35 pm

Well we are attached and have very open communications about meeting others. We dont hide anything from each other at all. She has no desire to meet others without me at this time. I meet others but she is always aware of it BEFORE hand unless its a last minute thing and that happens very rarely at all. Some ladies have said they want to talk to her first to confirm however she refuses to do that because she feels she is forced to give approval to somebody to meet me, and i agree that we are adults and her nor I own each other. We have full trust and openness between us so no need to receive permission from her, if they require approval then I wont meet them.


rh1972 51M
609 posts
7/30/2019 6:20 pm

I know it's going to lead to some trouble for me, but I will fuck them even if I do feel bad for their spouse - but I won't abide being cheated on myself.


fffinder2000 60M
128 posts
7/30/2019 7:08 pm

I agree, prefer singles for less drama. Also, if an individual is less than truthful regarding one topic, how much of a stretch will it be for them to be less than truthful in regard to other topics?
Last, in regard to profiles mentioning "discreet". I know it signals a red flag BUT the concern is not always in regard to relationship status. Professional and community image are concerns for some people.


Oxygen4fun 53M/52F  
163 posts
7/30/2019 7:24 pm

Mr Oxy is allowed to fuck other women, but we are always together. We never separate. For us, we enjoy the experience together. If the other woman is straight, then we play all 3 that way too. Mrs Oxy has a few guys in her pocket for mfm fun, notice that was mfm, because we always play yogether. One of the guys is upfront and already told us that if he meets a lady, we'd have to take a break or stop with him. We completely agree. Honesty and openess eliminates the Drama! Cheaters are so so sad! We won't have anything to do with cheaters and agree with you completely.


Soukyan 67M  
17 posts
7/31/2019 3:31 am

I've been really tempted a few times.

But I've only gone there when the guy knows what is going on.

How do I know he knows? Well, when he wants to watch, is one sign ...


oldman1973 75M/38F
617 posts
7/31/2019 3:44 am

I Phon (F) will fuck and suck any man whether married or attached, I do not care if his partner knows or not. He need that dirty free sex same as me, but my husband is always there, takes pics and joins in.

This is a fucking sex site lets do it. I also do it with girls too in front of my husband but do not do sex without him there. I just love 3 hole sex anytime anywhere we can get it


mott105 70M

7/31/2019 4:38 am

Good for you


mott105 70M

7/31/2019 4:39 am

I do agree with you


routerdf220088 65M
54 posts
7/31/2019 6:54 am

its a matter for each person to make


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