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Learning Curve  

NotShyInKY45 51F
22 posts
1/19/2019 1:37 am
Learning Curve

I’m a lady who enjoys sex. But I’m not looking to be a fuck toy unless it’s just part of the stage I’ve set up for an encounter with someone who already knows me. I want to make love with others who want to make love to me, then afterwards go on with my single life and let them go back to whomever they have to spend time with. I would like to do that with multiples, threesomes, maybe a few FWB’s. What I don’t want is to just be used as a vessel and nothing more. I Believe in total give-and-take in the bedroom (or wherever we fuck).
So I’m learning that I have to be more attentive to what I agreed to when I invite someone to be an FWB or whatever. It’s a learning curve, that I am quickly becoming an expert at.
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NotShyInKY45 51F
10 posts
1/19/2019 2:01 am

 Hi
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Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/19/2019 2:56 am

 The chances of you being someones fuck toy, usually through the misrepresentation of telling you they really want to make love, is quite high on this kind of site. Maybe you should try eharmony or some vanilla site, and make some men happy over there. At least if they lie to you over there about making love, you getting hurt would be more understandable.


NotShyInKY45 replies on 1/27/2019 8:18 am:
I think I’m on the right site. I just don’t want to be a free prostitute for people. Do you understand? I don’t take requests, lay there and take it pretending that you’re good, B you’re on call booty call whenever you want me but never there when I’m need it, etc. I want lots of partners at different times, when I have time. But it is weeding through all of the trash that is just going to take time.

Kyguy568 56M

1/19/2019 7:08 am

 I hear what you’re say and completely understand. The old saying that “patients is a virtue “ rings very true on this site. Good luck and good sex.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/19/2019 1:50 pm

 Tear it up and take all prisoners!
Using more than all the road!


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