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I've been on this site for about 10 years. I've had virtually no success. It seems of the available and searching women the "married dick" is a major obstacle. I respect everyone's wishes once they indicate no interest in a married man. Many profiles suggest wanting a third person for MFM experiences, and other married women also wanting an outside marriage sexual relationship. I'm here hoping I can find a mutually beneficial relationship for both parties. As I said....not much luck but I'm not dead...so I march on. Cheating? I guess so. Once your partner wants nothing to do with sex and you do...you either divorce and rip the family apart or you bear the pain and look for some satisfaction elsewhere. I've learned not to judge...life is too short.
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I've been on the site for more than 16 years and I've had more success than most. I make no bones about being partnered/married etc. and there is a select group of single women who get it, there is a select group of couples who get it usually where the husband is either: Wanting to see his wife pounded, orhave a BBC or wanting to clean up the results of it and finally he is just bi-curios and hopes to find a guy that will let him also suck his dick. The point is there are all kinds on this site, but the main driver from 2002, was that this site be a SEX SITE, however; many of the women are looking for love and connection here and that causes too many problems. When I think about it the site is interesting from the standpoint many on this site are on others, they used the same photos on many and write different profiles, but when confronted with their dual lives they seem to be pissed off that they were "found out." You can't come ass out, titties flopping here, then say you want a nice church going guy on another site where you use the same facial picture, that will never work. Also as a guy who is not getting at home, don't you think he is paying more attention to the situation, versus the single guy who has his pick of the litter? That is what women sometime fail to get, they are competing for scare resources, they have high wants in a man and a man will settle for someone who just does, so again the disconnect. I've written hundreds of blogs over the last 16 years and a few come to mind. The most recents are about a fifty year old teacher and mother of two daughters who recently contracted herpes looking for Mr. Single right guy, after she was fucking a married dude over fours, she said with the married dude she never argued over him using a condomn, showering etc...he was compliant and happy, but single guy never wanted to use one, safe sex was always an issue-single guy was fucking whatever was walking, because he could-married guy ws just happy to have anyone((((((understand the difference here ?????)))))) She isn't the first 15 year earliar another recent divorcee, mother of a daughter told me the same story. The you have the married flake outs which, I get where one partner is all in but the other isn't, cool I get it it part of the game, but you just keep it moving and finally, the death/retirement of a long time partner those are all situations that come from being here, taking the time to get to know and understand and realistically have something. I'm afraid today in 2019,18,17 and rally going back to the election of Obama in 2008 the dynamic of this site has changed as have people. So my pitch now like then is does someone have good writing and communication skills? If they do you have a chance and married/partnered guys are a different breed but safer by the dozens any day any way you chose it.
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1/19/2019 8:17 am |
You are exacty right Suppletitties and it works for some folks and it doesn't work for others. I have been successful and honest also and that is the beauty of this site. Everybody has their own preference and it's definitely not one size fits all.
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What do you realistically think your chances are of hooking up through this site? - I don't EXPECT it - I have - quite a few times. Some ladies accept it's my situation to deal with - not theirs. If you are only here for chat, how successful are you in finding a sexy chat partner? - Not applicable. I'll chat, but as a prelude to actually meeting. Are you also listed on other hookup sites, such as Ashley Madison? - I have several other accounts, but have learned that everyone there is here TOO, so why bother with those others? (And AM is mostly young chics.) 27 Inches Needed Busted Black and White, on HNW Pussy Problems [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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1 post 1/20/2019 8:57 pm |
I wonder if the categorical rejection of a "married" person is the same as the categorical rejection of a amputee, a blind person, a Republican, a Jew, a blonde, a person no education, or someone with a STD. What I mean by categorical rejection is to reject off handedly without any interaction, no discovery, no query. Is not this a form of bigotry? Maybe. But, this is a site where anonymity reigns and we are encouraged entertain our fantasies. The profile and cupid questionnaires ask if we are looking for circumcised dick, big breasts, Catholics or petite people. I guess it is OK to categorize accordingly to suit our fantasies on this site, I just hope we don't do it in real life.
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