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Guys, can we talk?  

RoxyGMVP 59M/47F
12 posts
8/22/2018 11:15 am
Guys, can we talk?


Hello everyone. Roxy and I have been on NoStrings for a couple of months now. Met with a couple of guys, one was a good time and the other was a complete bust. That being said, we never give up!

We're not new to playing, but somewhat new to this site and I must say the number of messages we get every single day are a bit overwhelming. Now, that isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it does lead me to this -my first- blog post on NoStrings.

Now, please understand, I really try to be a positive person in my life so going to try to keep this as positive as possible. The number of messages we get doesn't bring me to this blog post nearly as much as the content of most of those messages. The simplest way for me to break this down for everyone is a very basic list of "Dos and Don'ts" for messaging us. (And maybe many other couples on NoStrings who are looking for fun.)

Do send along a face pic and a little about yourself when you send us a message.
Don't simply send a message with only a "hi" or a "sup" with no pics and no other content. We simply will not reply. I understand that you have to cast your net as far and wide as possible to catch some fish, but please make a little effort.

Do compliments and offer suggestions for something to do.
Don't Think that the size of your cock is the only thing that matters.

Do invite us out for drinks or dinner on you. It's not that we can't afford our own drinks and dinner, we can, but you have to think (for us anyway) that this is kind of a date. Be a real gentleman until it's time not to be. Offering to for a hotel room is also a nice touch.
Don't offer money to spend time with Roxy. While I think she'd be an amazing , she is not a .

Do be willing to take your time. We're happy to chat with the right guy, happy to set up a meet and greet and really happy when that leads to something fun happening that night.
Don't send a message offering to come over right now for morning, evening, or afternoon sex. That may be great for some folks, but we never move that fast.

Do shower, trim and be at your best. Do I really have to say this? I guess the answer is yes.
Don't not do any of these things. We met with a young man once who showed up in sweat pants and he smelled bad. Big no for anyone.

Do be honest. If your married tell us, might not be a deal breaker. Use recent pics.
Don't lie or bullshit. Pretty simple.

Do be graceful in defeat. Roxy is picky and this is a kind of superficial world, so if she doesn't like your face pic, or your message and we don't get back to you please understand and don't take it personally. sure you're a great guy.
Don't when your advances are rejected with some kindness and good humor send me a message back saying "fuck off." You're not hurting my feelings and you're making yourself look bad.

Do like our photos, message us and feel free to reach out anytime just to chat. We're real and we're good people.
Don't expect us to be here 24/7 and don't expect to always get instant or immediate responses, sometimes if we know the chemistry won't be there, we just move on, you should too.

Thank you to anyone and everyone that took the time to read this to the end. Hate to sound like giving a lecture, but I had to get this out. I hope all you guys understand your best ally when it comes to getting in Roxy's panties. For me the more the merrier, so I want you to succeed.

Happy to be a part of NoStrings and we both hope to meet some really great people and build some ongoing relationships.

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/22/2018 4:22 pm

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RoxyGMVP 59M/47F
5 posts
8/23/2018 5:37 am

Thank you so much for the help. I will remember this in the future!


windsjohn 73M  
798 posts
8/27/2018 6:20 am

I enjoyed reading your post. have fun and get all you can.


Fantasyboy209 48M

9/24/2018 8:21 am

I like. Informative and helpful.


Fantasyboy209 48M

9/28/2018 8:34 am

Good read. I’ve read it a few times now. Thanks for ya big me learn a few things.


Malekowine 65M

11/19/2018 7:44 am

You succeeded in being positive and instructional without being overbearing. That’s difficult to do but you did a nice job. I suspect the advice is good advice for most people. I’ve had similar experiences but with women. Your description of a guy in sweats gave me a nasty flashback! Believe it or not, some women behave that way too!

Again, thanks.


Badbilly5150 50M
1 post
11/20/2018 2:19 pm

That was a great post...this should be required reading for all single males to even get on the site...


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