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Brave people hiding behind the internet and anonymity, or so they think.
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Thankfully I've not been on the end of that kind of abuse, and it's not something I'd do to someone else either. You kind of want to let people have their say and the world isn't always smelling of roses and things are never permanently wonderful, but if something upsets you then it makes sense to remove it. Unless I could think of something extremely witty in response.
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If the comment was made on a profile picture then I would just delete it. If the comment was made about a picture on my blog then yes, I would respond....along the lines of "Now you know which blog to avoid" I would never leave a comment like that on anyone's picture. I've been a half-naked Wednesday participant for a long time and I've seen pictures that were poorly photographed or not sexy to me. I always find a positive thing to say anyway. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Given my profile pic I get all kinds of comments. Mostly good and some bad. It doesnt bother me but they make it easy for me to easily invite them to my block party. Thanks for sharing!
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I'm so sorry that happened to you hun, I don't know what some people are thinking and I have found the ones that leave those types of comments on pictures are usually ones that have NO pic on their profile at all. I was brought up with the saying "If you can't say anything nice then say nothing a all!!!" I hope your staying dry not much rain today just lots of wind and gloomy/sunny skies.
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1 post 3/6/2019 3:37 pm |
Everyone's Gran will tell them at least once in their life. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. I have taken that advice throughout my life.
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Anyone who makes a pic public here or anywhere, is leaving the door open to people who will comment. ...... That is exactly right. but it makes you wonder about people in general. .... If you are going to do that, then you have to accept all kinds answers. What provokes someone to think they have that right? .... This is not always about provocation. People do have a Right to speak freely. A "Constitutional" Right. Or do we all have that right to say whatever we want..... If you are lucky enough to live in such a country? Yes... You have the Right.
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Yes, people do have a choice. People are not always going to choose to be courteous, either. .. That choice can be subjective, too. So what a person may interpret as a dick comment... could be interpreted by another, as a truthful comment. You're familiar with that nonsense expression, "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all"? People do not benefit, do not grow, from a quiet public, nor only from a public that speaks nice. So , fuck it...someone has to tell it like it is.
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3/6/2019 5:24 pm |
I agree, more please
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How the hell do people grow from insults? .... They make a change.... or they just lay down and whimper. People told Picasso he wasn't good enough, his art lacked. Men tell their sons , "You're a lazy drop out, you're not going to amount to anything", so he buckles down, works hard and becomes a CEO. It happens. A daughter is told she doesn't have the looks to attract a wealthy man, so she goes to college , gets a degree and becomes financially independent. how you think this is appropriate..... How do you think telling others to not say anything not-nice is appropriate? You can't do anything about what others want to say, or feel they need to say... for whatever reason. I'm not into being all super sensitive .....Good , because in a public environment, that person wouldn't last very long. and yes one can be truthful and a dick all at the same time. .... Okay. So why are you upset? I'm not asking people to be quiet, but this sort of behavior isn't necessary.....What behavior? Telling you a particular picture is disgusting? It isn't UN-necessary. You put your image out in the public, the public is going to respond. A person writes a Blog topic... people will respond in all manners of way. So why would a person think their photos are safe from uncomplimentary comments? I'm not bugging this dude, never tried to contact him or even look at his profile, .... You put yourself out there... people will comment. Get a tough skin.
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opinions are just belly buttons , everyone has one , some are weird, some are sexy , some are just full of hairy lint ..... ignore the ignorant .responding makes the idiots get bolder .never allow anyone to change your feelings or actions , who gave them the power to do that ? well only you can give them the power .
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maybe going negative to get you to send them so other pics?? can't imagine why someone would say that...ur profile pic looks great
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That how some people live their unhappy life trying to bring other people down, most would never say the things they to a person face to face. they aren't brave enough so they use the net to say things.
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3/6/2019 10:05 pm |
I’m pretty sure some people get on the computer and they are jo jo the idiot boy- lurking and stalking and say shit just to troll around. They have that right to hide with no responsibility of the words they say but we have the right to delete and block.
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3/6/2019 10:31 pm |
Trying to make other people feel bad, doesn't make me feel any better, so no.
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It's called "Conversing", you half wit . Try it sometime.
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But, but he says he’s nice in his profile. And btw, mr dreamboat, he’s not.
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When you're unphotogenicmmy gifted it makes no nevermind what people say. Using more than all the road!
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I've been lucky in the fact that I've not had any bad comments on my HNW pics. Even though I often say..."WTF was I thinking about"
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How the hell do people grow from insults? .... They make a change.... or they just lay down and whimper. People told Picasso he wasn't good enough, his art lacked. Men tell their sons , "You're a lazy drop out, you're not going to amount to anything", so he buckles down, works hard and becomes a CEO. It happens. A daughter is told she doesn't have the looks to attract a wealthy man, so she goes to college , gets a degree and becomes financially independent. how you think this is appropriate..... How do you think telling others to not say anything not-nice is appropriate? You can't do anything about what others want to say, or feel they need to say... for whatever reason. I'm not into being all super sensitive .....Good , because in a public environment, that person wouldn't last very long. and yes one can be truthful and a dick all at the same time. .... Okay. So why are you upset? I'm not asking people to be quiet, but this sort of behavior isn't necessary.....What behavior? Telling you a particular picture is disgusting? It isn't UN-necessary. You put your image out in the public, the public is going to respond. A person writes a Blog topic... people will respond in all manners of way. So why would a person think their photos are safe from uncomplimentary comments? I'm not bugging this dude, never tried to contact him or even look at his profile, .... You put yourself out there... people will comment. Get a tough skin.
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ya all rolls off
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3/13/2019 11:53 am |
it's an important issue...why can't we all just say what we want? and...why should we need to say what we want? It does affect the other person just like comments from others affect us. But do we care and if we don't should we?
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With this negative comment, he has achieved exactly what he wanted: attention He made you think more about him - albeit negatively. You even worry so much about him that you write a blog post about it. I would say: time given away Lust was zu schreiben? [post Privater Briefkasten Privat Mailbox (private Mailbox)
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So I like to read blog posts, even the comments to. Some are surprising, interesting, funny, but sometimes only superfluous. I had it already, that I wrote a stupid comment because I did not read the blog correctly - I noticed the next visit, because I "follow" blogs and look at the other comments Lust was zu schreiben? [post Privater Briefkasten Privat Mailbox (private Mailbox)
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3/17/2019 7:14 am |
*I* usually don't post something negative to a picture / profile, if I think the picture is not flattering. A handful of times I've challenged members, if say there are three hot pictures, and a fourth one that looks NOTHING like the other three - and challenge which picture is accurate..
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