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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

Only as old as you feel, they say....
 

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
12/21/2020 2:44 pm
Only as old as you feel, they say....

Well then, I must be an exhumed mummy.

Good GOD do my shoulders and back hurt today.

Why???

Because I'm a weirdo and it apparently takes a couple of days for my after-sex aches and pains to show up.

If I could dip my body in Icy Hot...

Note to self: Must do stretching exercises before spending time on the hands and knees doing the rough stuff.

Egads....

Thank God for ibuprofen and wine.

Monday!

westcountygirl 57M/50F
Ask me for a photo
136 posts
12/23/2020 9:11 am

 Somehow, I just saw you on a whole different level. wow. nice!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/23/2020 3:29 am
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Reps... until those muscles 💪 burn... and then more repetitions! 👍
You sound like my son when he was coaching me at the gym. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/23/2020 3:27 am
    Quoting hippiechick1967:
    I think your after-sex aches and pains were there all along - they were masked by the oxytocin cloud you were in!
Hmmm.... I never thought about that aspect of it all. You're probably right... Once that feel good feeling goes away, you're left with, how you really feel. LOL


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/23/2020 3:26 am
    Quoting Avonsenior:
    I have tried the wine before teh sex starts I am wondering about taking some of the aspirin ahead of time too. Soak in a hot bath sometimes helps
    New here to your blog Sweetie
Welcome to my blog. I hope you found it entertaining.


Avonsenior 70M
1458 posts
12/22/2020 9:29 pm

 I have tried the wine before teh sex starts I am wondering about taking some of the aspirin ahead of time too. Soak in a hot bath sometimes helps
New here to your blog Sweetie


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
12/22/2020 3:37 pm

 I think your after-sex aches and pains were there all along - they were masked by the oxytocin cloud you were in!
Elevate me...


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/22/2020 7:54 am

 Reps... until those muscles 💪 burn... and then more repetitions! 👍


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/22/2020 2:47 am
    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    Ok, I know I shouldn’t ask but what do you consider as “the rough stuff”? I’m so out of practice I doubt I remember the soft stuff either....
That's a tough question.... Everyone's interpretation of 'rough stuff' is going to be different. On this occasion, rough stuff was hair pulling, spanking, shoulder grabbing, just all around rougher treatment. For some, this will be considered nothing... For some, this treatment would have been intolerable to them. Good sex, for me, includes both intensity and physicality, and slower, sensual rhythms.


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
12/22/2020 12:37 am

 Ok, I know I shouldn’t ask but what do you consider as “the rough stuff”? I’m so out of practice I doubt I remember the soft stuff either....
My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


fwblook4unow 48M
Ask me for a photo

12/21/2020 11:54 pm

 Sounds like you need an all body massage😘 Go ahead and lay down on your stomach, nude, obviously, as I oil up those shoulders and middle of your back and massage them until they feel nice and loose. Then I will oil up that lovely ass and inner thighs and massage those lips down below until you cum....or ask me to slide inside😉😘😊


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 9:00 pm
    Quoting citizen4722:
    I can live with pain after sex
    I've been dosing myself up on paracetamol over the weekend. I can't get rid of this pain on my ankle. Probably needs surgery but that could make things worse according to my doc.
I feel for you... Dealing with pain day in and day out. It's not a fun feeling, I don't know how you cope. At least when I'm feeling uncomfortable, I know it's only temporary and I'll be back to normal again. Chronic pain is something entirely different...


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 8:57 pm
    Quoting mc_justmc:
    "spending time on the hands and knees doing the rough stuff." time to break out the video!!!!!! This is where a hot tub/spa come in very handy for getting those joints and muscles relaxed.
I could have totally used a hot tub when I got home from work tonight... My shoulders and the middle of my back were so tight. Thank God for ibuprofen, wine, and hot showers.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 8:51 pm
    Quoting Apollorising60:
    The older one gets the more time ones needs for sexual injuries to heal!
Truth! Probably doesn't help that I haven't been all that active.... Those muscles aren't used to being used in that capacity now. Who knows when it may even happen again.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 8:48 pm
    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Just a thought . . . what you call "Stretching exercises" some may see as foreplay
I'm thinking, maybe... I'm not capitalizing on the foreplay piece enough.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 8:45 pm
    Quoting smallballs555:
    at least you had the sex to account for the pain
Very true... I did. With the whole COVID thing, I've been kind of keeping a low profile.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 8:43 pm
    Quoting  :
Hmmm.... I guess there wasn't quite enough foreplay then. Next time.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 8:42 pm

 Well, thank you.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
12/21/2020 8:41 pm
    Quoting flannel_light:
    Take you a hot bath girl. I want be able to walk when I get it again
I ended up taking a nice, hot shower... And it did help loosen things up a bit. Enough so that I fell asleep on the couch at like 7 o'clock... Of course, now I'm wide awake in the middle of the night... LOL


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
12/21/2020 7:28 pm

 Take you a hot bath girl. I want be able to walk when I get it again
The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


unklepaul2 77M

12/21/2020 6:48 pm

 good for you.


smallballs555 68M
141 posts
12/21/2020 5:36 pm

 at least you had the sex to account for the pain


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/21/2020 5:05 pm
    Quoting secret_lade:
    Stretching exercises before sex.... Who could have thought that day would come.
Just a thought . . . what you call "Stretching exercises" some may see as foreplay
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Apollorising60 63M

12/21/2020 5:03 pm

 The older one gets the more time ones needs for sexual injuries to heal!


mc_justmc 63M

12/21/2020 4:24 pm

 "spending time on the hands and knees doing the rough stuff." time to break out the video!!!!!! This is where a hot tub/spa come in very handy for getting those joints and muscles relaxed.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
12/21/2020 4:21 pm

 I can live with pain after sex
I've been dosing myself up on paracetamol over the weekend. I can't get rid of this pain on my ankle. Probably needs surgery but that could make things worse according to my doc.


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