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The crunch you could hear around the world.  

secret_lade 49F
14390 posts
7/15/2020 2:29 pm
The crunch you could hear around the world.


My office sits quite a distance from the break room.

On a normal day, I may hear some laughter or a little loud talking... But I never hear an individual actually 'eating' anything in the break room.

Until today, that is.

I was on the phone with a director from another store and all I could hear was the crunching sound of someone eating chips in the break room.

And, I'm not just talking a little crunching...

Someone was back there open mouthed chomping on chips. The crunching sound was echoing all through the offices and conference rooms. I had to shut my office door just to hear my conversation.

What the hell is going on back there??

Turns out today was the day we were providing potato chips to the employees and one of our diminished capacity employees had discovered this and was munching his way through the stockpile of chips during his break.

He had to have had at least 10 empty bags sitting before him...

Good lord.

There are so many things I would like to say, but I cannot... Part of me has been hardened to these people as a result of years of sexual abuse by a family member who was diminished in this way.

I spent the majority of my young life being told...

He doesn't know what he's doing. He can't control himself. We need to just keep this to ourselves, we don't want him to be taken away. Don't allow yourself to be alone with him.

Really?

No little girl should ever have to wake up with any man's hand in her underpants.

Diminished, or not.

I now have a hard time being around these individuals, and I avoid the Chip Chomper like the plague. I have seen the way he looks at women and ... All those old, bad feelings just start to resurface.

WolfRunsWild 54M

7/30/2020 4:20 pm

Who likes to Fuck?


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
7/16/2020 8:29 am

To say the abusers didn't know what they were doing at the time is a load of bull!
At least when the chips are down....things will be quieter


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
7/16/2020 1:51 am

This is horrible to hear, I'm so sorry.


topherific 61M
5209 posts
7/15/2020 9:42 pm


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
7/15/2020 8:52 pm

hmmm... Well I'm not qualified to offer a comment on this one.
Sounds like stuff a pro should address...
Yep... That's fucked up


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
7/15/2020 8:23 pm

sorry, not on board with the victim suffers and the predator gets treated with kid gloves; diminished capacity or not, it's not right, it's not fair. i don't blame you for feeling the way you do. sorry that someone failed to protect you.

yep, good idea to avoid 'that one' but might need watch his ass too.


mc_justmc 63M

7/15/2020 4:52 pm

Oh damn, that's terrible. I'm sorry to hear you went through that.


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
7/15/2020 4:44 pm

I don't understand the reasoning behind not making it known that a person behaves in such a reprehensible way. I understand diminished mental capacity, but even small children can learn right from wrong! And while those people are spouting "he doesn't know what he's doing" and "we'll just keep this to ourselves" they are not doing ANYONE any favors! His behavior was unacceptable and apparently NONE of the adults seemed to understand the lasting damage they were allowing to happen to young, innocent children!
I got a very small taste of that type of situation when I was young and it left a lasting impression on me, so I can understand distancing yourself from a person like that.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
7/15/2020 4:40 pm

'those people' ... I understand it's a huge trigger for you. I understand you see all of 'those people' as sexual predators but they just aren't.

I hope you continue or get help to deal with the abuse you received as a child.

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


teddy425 65M
294 posts
7/15/2020 4:08 pm

That's awful. Sorry you had to endure that. I have a rather harsh view, but it used to be the norm. If you can't be trusted to behave in a free society, you should be in a mental hospital, or a prison.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/15/2020 3:11 pm

In case you're wondering, it was a family member who had been my predator and no, I was not the only child he did this too. Unfortunately, instead of taking measures to prevent him from sexually abusing others, everyone chose to sweep it under the rug because, mentally, he was a 5 year old.


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