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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

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secret_lade 49F
14391 posts
11/15/2016 9:15 pm
832

Believe it or not, that's the number of emails I've received on this site just since I made my profile visible again in July.

Mind blowing.....

Granted, some of them are from the site and a few are from old friends I've made over the years but the vast majority are from guys who are desperately trying to hook up with anything containing a pulse.

Here's the problem guys:

If your entire email is a pic of your cock and nothing else, you probably won't hear back from a woman.

If you demand to see naked pics to prove someone is real, you probably won't hear back from a woman.

If you are unable to string 5 words together to make a sentence, you probably won't hear back from a woman.

If you insult a woman's profile pic then proceed to ask for more details about said woman, you probably won't hear back from that woman.

Just a tip!

I can't speak for everyone, but I can speak for myself. I can patiently wait for the right guy to come along, I've done it before. If you want to stand out from the rest, break the ice with an email about yourself and your intentions.

We'll take it from there.

secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
7/11/2020 9:31 am
    Quoting Insideofu4funtwo:
    I appreciate this post. It's a sad state of affairs that there are that many horny hard up men, yet I can't help but point out why is there such a shortage of eligible women on here. The playing field is so uneven. Sure, I realize there are all the reasons we could list that women's needs are much different than men's, or that men are just pigs in general. Both are true.

    But still, there are some women who brave the onslaught that surely happens to all here. Perhaps a dating site yields different results.

    I would like to believe that there is a larger unrepresented group of women out there that have higher sex drive not finding there way here, but then again, perhaps woman find it easier to enchant a suitor more direct. Truth be told, I think we men are just weak to the charm of ladies.

    Imagine a world where we could be more honest about our desires. Perhaps relationships would be stronger. I really don't think men and women are as different as we proclaim they are. Sometimes all we want to do is fuck. Some of my best friendships and relationships have occurred after we get lust out of the way.

    We're a sexually repressed society. I just wish more women were here. Like 832 emails in my inbox
I wish it were a more even playing field, to be honest. That way, the cock shot / one night stand guys would have their pussy shot / one night stand girls and the people like me, who are seeking a regular play friend with similar interests, would more easily find each other.


Insideofu4funtwo 48M
6 posts
7/11/2020 6:30 am

 I appreciate this post. It's a sad state of affairs that there are that many horny hard up men, yet I can't help but point out why is there such a shortage of eligible women on here. The playing field is so uneven. Sure, I realize there are all the reasons we could list that women's needs are much different than men's, or that men are just pigs in general. Both are true.

But still, there are some women who brave the onslaught that surely happens to all here. Perhaps a dating site yields different results.

I would like to believe that there is a larger unrepresented group of women out there that have higher sex drive not finding there way here, but then again, perhaps woman find it easier to enchant a suitor more direct. Truth be told, I think we men are just weak to the charm of ladies.

Imagine a world where we could be more honest about our desires. Perhaps relationships would be stronger. I really don't think men and women are as different as we proclaim they are. Sometimes all we want to do is fuck. Some of my best friendships and relationships have occurred after we get lust out of the way.

We're a sexually repressed society. I just wish more women were here. Like 832 emails in my inbox


scott6250 61M

11/16/2016 3:59 pm

 That is a lot of email. Good rules about emailing women.
"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


secret_lade replies on 11/16/2016 7:14 pm:
Happy Wednesday!

dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
11/16/2016 8:01 am

 yes, yes, yes, yes and yes!!!!!


secret_lade replies on 11/16/2016 10:13 am:
I'm glad to see I'm not alone on this!

mc_justmc 63M

11/16/2016 5:35 am

 we get email?


secret_lade replies on 11/16/2016 10:14 am:
The popular guys do.... LOL

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