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A curious Question for  

Ladywithatti2d 83F  
261 posts
1/7/2009 7:01 am

Last Read:
1/13/2009 11:00 pm

A curious Question for


MEN!

Yet again yesterday, I receive an email, now the subject matter was XXX. I figured, here I go again, someone else who can't read a profile where I say NO NUDE PHOTOS.

Oh no, instead, I get this little gem.

WHY WOULD ANYONE CONTACT YOU WITH ALL THAT NEGATIVITY.

Ok, here is the 64 million dollar question. Why the hell is it you men feel that if you read a profile, and it is NOT what you want, or you don't like it, you absolutely feel the NEED the DRIVING FORCE, the UNCONTROLLABLE URGE to fire off an insulting email voicing YOUR OPINIONS!.

Guess what men, the likes and dislikes listed in both men and womens profiles are just that PERSONAL PREFERENCES. You men sure don't have any problems even going into great detail, "must be, insert height, must be insert weight, must have insert eye color", and so the list goes on, but let a female state her preferences, and BAM, right over the head you feel that uncontrollable URGE to fire off a nasty email.

He found MY Profile filled with negativity, yet I presume he found himself polite, kind, compassionate, intelligent. NONE Of which are found in that insulting, demeaning email.

Are you males so stupid or egotistical as to think just because YOU didn't like it no one else will? Do you think because YOU stated your thoughts, I am going to dash to the EDIT button and change MINE!. Maybe you think your the only freaking male on this planet who's thought actually matter. Well they may on your own personal level. Or to your Mommy. BUT they sure as hell do NOT matter to me or anyone else who receives your drivel.

Next time that urge comes over you, stop for a minute and think, now this is going to be very novel for some of you, "What is this going to make ME LOOK LIKE".

I can tell you how you look, rude, disgusting, illiterate, (obviously can't read, or understand the part where I say, if you don't like what you read, don't email, just move along), insulting, demeaning, and the biggie here, you look like the exact, SECOND perfect person on this earth, the first being Jesus himself, and You the perfect ASSHOLE.!!.

Annoyed Lady

scgabiwife 50M/40F

1/7/2009 7:57 am

Most dont bother to read the profile. Sad but true.

Standard member friendly scgabiwife


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
1/7/2009 1:39 pm

Thanks Josey, but you don't fall into that category!!

They don't read, and just because YOU don't happen to like what THEY are selling that automatically makes YOU the bad guy!!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Lady


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
1/7/2009 1:40 pm

Thanks scqabiwife, you are right they don't read, they look at the pretty pictures, or they DO read, and don't like what they read, and instead of minding their own business and just moving on to something they do like, oh no!! they gotta send that email out.

I guess they must feel that it makes them a much bigger, brighter, intelligent man than if they just moved along.

Lady


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
1/7/2009 6:09 pm

Oh I hear ya FutureMrs!!

Apparently there are a lot of them out there that lack total comprehension skills altogether!!.

Lady


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
1/10/2009 6:39 am

Most definitely afropicgal! and you are so right, too bad they don't have that all idiot button.

I replied in a recent blog it's title is "here is one for ya". The guy was wailing because the ladies do NOT reply to EVERY email he sends out, and gosh what ever happened to good manners, he replied to all the ones he gets.

I kid you not, ONE MAN, wrote a ONE LINE reply that said.

Thats easy, because most of the women he has met on her are PIG IGNORANT.

Now go figure THAT. When I read that, I replied yet again, and said, Thank you Salem426 for proving exactly what I said about men. That was a classic example of what happens, if you don't want them, or agree to meet them you become ugly, whore, slut, get the hell off the site, this is a site for just meet and bang!

If anyone wants an eyeopener, they should go read Rdy2try4 blogs on what a polite no thank you gets you. They are actual replies from anyone who has politely declined someone and this is what they get.

Lady

[Rdy2try4 a polite no thank you]


rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
1/13/2009 3:02 pm

lol that link would be A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates folks!

I personally am sick of saying NO to people that didnt' read even my PHOTO!! IT says not available and there they are.. "wanna screw?" as if it didn't apply to them. Keep in mind.. MOST of these idiots have IN CAPS.. "NO MEN.. I AM NOT GAY!" or some specific weight category or height for the women.. but do NOT disregard THEIR profile!! Shit on mine..but hey.. we are on THIS site right??? lol


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