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Am I being unreasonable?  

babeegurl70 53F
36 posts
11/28/2017 10:52 am
Am I being unreasonable?


I recently posted this on the advice line ( Am I being unreasonable?), but thought I would post here too Blogland. Please feel free to comment on either or both posts. Hopefully, by leaving this here, maybe suitors who actually read my profile, will know how I want to addressed.

Recently, I was talking to this guy about meeting up tomorrow.
He was texting me very provocative messages. I asked him
to talk to me like a lady and not like a . He got very defensive
and ed me a Drama Queen. Am I being unreasonable in asking
for respect? The way I see it, 95% of the time I go out on a date,
I will fuck them unless they creep me out or stink. I don't
see the need of talking it up before hand. I will make sure
they have a good time as I give 120% every time. I will go until
my body just gives out. I'm sure every else is the
same way here. In order for me to have a good time, I need stimulation
between the ears, not just the genitals. So my second question
is what is the point of talking it up ahead of time? Most time
the talking it up ahead of time just leads to disappointment.
I would much rather be pleasantly surprised than be disappointed
in something that doesn't meet expectations. I hope
I'm making sense here.

Later,



RevThrax 51M  
1 post
11/28/2017 3:24 pm

I agree completely. Most of us are here for the same reason so "talking it up" is rather pointless. I was raised to be a gentleman and I take great pride in it. Unless specifically asked otherwise the men should be treating the women here with respect.

Kudos to you for turning him down when we refused to treat you with respect.


babeegurl70 replies on 11/28/2017 3:38 pm:
You certainly know how to treat a lady right...and exceeded my expectations.

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
11/28/2017 4:34 pm

“Talking it up”with someone you don’t really know is just weird to me. After meeting and interacting, the sex chat means something. Keyboard sex talk just seems meaningless with a stranger. But, men are different.


VelkutuVoom 55M
135 posts
11/30/2017 7:25 am

Very brief analysis by me: Slut in great big letters on your profile, but also Respect in big letters. Men will focus on the 'slut' part. I quickly glanced at your profile, but it seems sexually supercharged, so that's what you get - supercharged horny men. Maybe tone it down. Just an opinion.


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