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Saying you're not interested  

NorthfieldGuy76 51M
59 posts
9/5/2017 9:48 am
Saying you're not interested
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MelissaKrapf 46F

9/5/2017 11:07 am

 I'd wish that people would read my profile before contacting me. or my blog. I always answer my IMs or messages. but some dont take i'm sorry but im not interested. as a good enough answer or contact you weeks later asking if you're interested again. and again. Only time i dont answer them is if its just not worth the time becuase they've said... "want suck my cock?" if they read my profile they'd see im looking for a fwb . Males need to read one's profile or at least the tag line... sighs
"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
Found this quote on a website... befitting I think.... Meli


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
9/5/2017 1:30 pm

 So basically... because you won't pony up for a membership that allows you to actually read what a woman has stated that she's looking for, she has to take time out of chatting with someone she IS interested in, in order to tell you that she's not interested in you so that your feelings don't get hurt?

Is that what you're saying here?

Just pay for a membership already, then you'll at least have a .01% better chance at getting a reply.


NorthfieldGuy76 51M
36 posts
9/6/2017 12:57 pm

 A follow up on what I was attempting to say, if a bit poorly.

I don't believe that women on NoStrings should answer ever IM. That's purely impossible and completely crazy.

What I am suggesting is if you do answer an IM, talk with someone for awhile then decide you're not interested, saying so is the right thing to do and that's that.

I know men can be complete dorks/jerks. There are definitely times where if someone isn't being nice to you, you sure don't need to be nice to them. I'm totally not suggesting that you should be nice to someone who is being verbally abusive.

Hopefully makes more sense.


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