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Let's be friends?  

justplayin16061 54F
259 posts
11/7/2019 3:26 am
Let's be friends?


Short and sweet today...

How seriously should a woman take a man is adding several friends everyday?

Laxgeek36 53M  
620 posts
11/7/2019 3:33 am

Depends on the depth of the man, how much you know about him, how long he has been on the site...my guess would be not to take him too seriously...but its just my nodding head opinion...


Mtho5251 58M

11/7/2019 4:01 am

Maybe that's all it is a friend he just might be a friendly guy nothing more


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/7/2019 4:15 am

Let's be friends? .... If he's straight, has a functioning erection, and asking, "Let's be friends".... means he wants to fuck. If you're far away? You can bet your conversations with him will become sexual. How soon? Depends on how aggressive he is feeling.

How seriously should a woman take a man who is adding several friends everyday? .... If he can't, or won't, meet you in person, then don't take him seriously at all. Regardless the number of "Friends" he is adding.
Even [if he is only] adding just one "Friend".


IAMLOOKING4UM 73M
173 posts
11/7/2019 4:17 am

I think it all depends on what you are looking for


benard69 66M/66F  

11/7/2019 4:32 am

Get serious! The whole friend thing on here is a joke...


101daydream 58M

11/7/2019 4:54 am

" don't judge a book by its cover "
Be patient time tells all


stopbyandsayboo 52M
1295 posts
11/7/2019 4:55 am

Hi There

I have never really understood the whole adding friends feature on this site..

You get friend requests from people you have never spoken to

Some have hundreds of friends on their profile

Maybe some think that the more friends you get makes you more popular and desirable

At the end of the day all that matters for me is that the person your interested in is sincere and real

JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART


Albany_NY_Frank 64M

11/7/2019 5:11 am

I think a lot may have to do with how comfortable in their skin they may be. Some may feel threatened, some may feel...no big deal.


Pget331 39M
17 posts
11/7/2019 5:49 am

I'll be friends


Adz201999 36M

11/7/2019 6:24 am

👍👍


affair200 53M
271 posts
11/7/2019 6:55 am

i would think fake profile


bacaunco 73M

11/7/2019 8:20 am

    Quoting benard69:
    Get serious! The whole friend thing on here is a joke...
correct


Sexczy69 71M  
3703 posts
11/7/2019 9:10 am

I do not know the answer to your question? but it would seem to me either he was a lot of time of his hands or he one shot wonder???


racyredlace 53F
147 posts
11/7/2019 9:44 am

So many things to say...
The smartass in me says... Having lots of friends on NoStrings is like sitting at the "cool" table in the asylum cafeteria.
The libertarian in me says.... Our right to freely associate is protected by the constitution, so we can have as many or as few friends on here as we want.
The empath in me says.... some people need to be surrounded by others to feel validated, whether it's through real world connections or online
The realist in me says... Just mind your own business if shit like this bothers you.
The seasoned NoStrings member says... whether he has 1 or eleventybillion friends, if he's "hot and heavy" in his interactions with you, you are the only one holding his attention.


justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
11/7/2019 10:06 am

My sense is that NoStrings conceived its *Friends Network* as a pathway for restricting group communications, such as photo-sharing and blog-posts. Years (eons?) ago- before Facebook and other social networks came to dominate- there was utility in this tool. However, NoStrings has allowed it to (technologically speaking) stagnate and it is now a vestigial organ- once functional, but now more or less useless.

As to taking ANYONE in this community *seriously*, this is absolutely an eye-of-the-beholder prerogative. Members bring an infinitely diverse range of needs and objectives to the NoStrings *table*- from long-term to ephemeral. While I welcome invitations to a "Friends Network" (and occasionally offer them myself) I use the journey of building friendship and trust for wayfinding in relationships.


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
11/23/2019 4:06 am

Reverse the thought . . . How serious would you take someone with only a few friends?
Some people, particularly men, go after friends as trophies, as a sign that they are virile and desired.
I have had and still have some good friends that I met here through blogs. Most of them are not on my brief 'friends' list.

Hello, hello, hello, is there anybody in there . . ?

Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
1/28/2020 6:12 am

.... the friends network can be casual or more depending on how you interact with your friends.... sometimes it's just a way to easily find kindred spirits...


Iwanaliku2 59M  
68 posts
2/9/2020 8:13 am

If I am chatting with someone through IM or even emails... I may ask if I can friend them so I can find them on IM easier... But I may be the exception... Not sure why others collect them...


washpaman119 44M

2/18/2020 7:08 am

Depends what you are looking for. I wouldn't look down on anyone who is looking to make more friends. As long as they are honest..


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