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Are you married?
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Are you married? I get several contacts each week asking if I meet married men, so I'm taking a few minutes this morning to give my thoughts on this topic. Look, I totally get it that some (many?) wives are inattentive and leave their men parched for sex, or that you need a little variety (maybe she does too?) but if you are married please read this through so that you understand where I’m coming from if I’m reluctant to answer your contact. First I should say that I don't have anything against married men, they can be terrific lovers but they are not always the best<b> buddies </font></b>and here is why: 1. A married man's time is not his own, it's structured around when he can create a couple of hours free of his wife that won't be questioned. Usually this means the middle of the day or a quickie on the way to or from work. This is a problem for me because I'm looking for friends that can also do things when I want to do them. 2. Married men have to be careful where and how they spend money,, can't leave tracks you know. How do you explain the dinner or cocktails? I don’t need to go to expensive places or do things that cost a lot of money but I don’t like excluding things either just because they can’t show up on a credit card statement. 3. Married men have to be careful where they are seen; what happens if a friend or acquaintance sees you and I together? What if we’re seen by a friend of your wife that maybe you don’t even know? So if you’re married do any of these describe your situation? If so we’re probably going to have trouble being good FB’s. |
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I don't want the drama and I think about it as if I was the wife, I would be highly upset if I found out my husband was seeing another woman, The first and upfront on the most is if he is lying to his wife, then you know he will lie to you point blank, now unless they are a couple in this that is different, but solo married males no
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You put it very succinctly, but glad you did mention we can be terrific lovers 
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i think you covered it very nicely
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well i maybe wierd, but i dont understand why a single lady would see a married man... there is nothing truly in it for her... maybe a few $'s but that is another story an reason ...lol... But he cant be there when she needs him, for help, or mental support, or as the friend she desired when started... its one sided to say the best. If a man wants someone else...GET A DIVORCE... why would any woman want to sit home on weekends, holidays, birthdays, etc etc, all to have a quickie meaniless sex with someone who doesnt have her heart in mind... baffles me
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