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No Exceptions.
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No Exceptions. I received an email from a gentleman that stated the he could not load pictures. I responded by telling him how. He then said that he would send some to me if I was interested. I checked his profile and, of course, he is married. As nicely as I could, I declined his offer of sex/an affair. The response I got was ... not what I expected. He assumed that the reason I declined was because of "moral" issues. I have stated, on my profile, that I am not interested in married or attached men. There is NO exception to this rule. I don't care if your dick is dipped in gold. I am not interested and I will give you my reasons for this. Firstly, if you are found out by your significant other, it is the 3rd party, ie the "other woman" that tends to pay the price. Oh, don't get it twisted. Your woman will be mad at you, but she is with you for a reason and it is easier to blame someone you don't know than it is to look at the person you are involved with. A woman will sacrifice much to get and keep the man they want. If he steps out, then they will justify it in their minds, but the need to lash out will fall upon the "mistress", who may not even KNOW that the guy she is with is in a relationship. So, my safety is of the utmost importance to me. If a man is single, don't have to worry about being stalked or harmed by a girlfriend/wife. Next is availability. If you are in a relationship, the man is not available to do certain things. Even IF it is only sexually based, I cannot spend the night at his home or vice versa. I cannot go out in public with him for fear of being seen by someone he knows. I cannot call him up and say let's do something on the spur of the moment. Messing with someone who is involved with another LIMITS the amount of time spent together and what things can be done. Finally, I know what it feels like to be cheated on, being the cheater and the mistress. NONE of those roles suited me. I find that lowering my standards to get laid is akin to being a . So..do I have moral standards? Yes I do. I know what it feels like to have the one person that is to love you forever, seek solace with someone else. I know what it feels like to experience the desire of another man because he made me feel that. I also know what it is like to be "allotted" time because he can't get away to see me when I want him to. So...if you do not or cannot read my profile, here it is in plain English. I am not interested in any man that has a relationship with someone else. Don't waste your time or mine, trying to be the exception to my rule. There isn't any. I am on here to chat and view an occasional cam. That is all. 
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I am sure there were signs that he was married, but your brain was asleep and your heart and pussy was directing you. You have to be attentive to what someone is telling you. There are always signs that something isn't right, you just have to let your brain work for you.
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Team 40Bats......A very intelligent women that won't settle for the bullshit!!
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You are so right about another man who is either married or even attached, it causes all kinds of stuff you don't even want to get into.
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1/31/2015 6:25 pm |
I respect people who standa by their words and it should be the same for everyone. You don't have to explain anything, this is your decision, your will and that's it! Good on you!
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Obviously you had nothing to feel guilty about there, yet it just baffles me how some folks can be so deceitful. Not only is he completely jerking you around but his wife as well. Takes a special kind of twisted to pull off all those bare faced lies!
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