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Blogs > 40BATS > Me, Myself and I

Who is Playing?  

40BATS 54F
133 posts
10/4/2014 7:38 pm
Who is Playing?

I hear so many men complain that women don't want to meet.

Well. I am learning that the same goes for men. The local ones say they want to meet, but in reality, they are scared to (my opinion). They compliment a woman on how pretty/beautiful/ sexy she is. But when it comes time to ante up...no dough. Now don't get me wrong, everyone is not everyone's cup of tea and I understand that. But if a person expresses a mutual interest, what harm is there in meeting? Oh!!! Maybe it is because of all the pumped up stories one tells about their sexual prowess. Or maybe it is a game.

Then you have the ones that are "swinging through". Keep swinging. I need more that a "What are you up to tonight?" at 8pm. How about I am NOT meeting you. My pussy doesn't rule me.

And finally, we have the ones that profess affection, knowing that there is NO hope of ever meeting because they live hundreds, if not, thousands of miles away. I am a realist with dreams. I know that I won't meet most of the people (men and women) that I talk to in here, but DAMN!!! And yes, I have affection for some, but I KNOW that I cannot feel anything more than friendship.

So, to say that I am tired of the BS and nonsense, is a gross understatement. If you want to meet, MEET. Otherwise, quit lying, get a clue and STFU!!!.

loveable431 80M
9 posts
9/10/2015 8:16 am

 What makes me mad is you attempt to contact someone, and they won't even respond or they just say OK, what does OK mean? Are you interested or not. I know some people receive a lot of msg's, but it only takes a second or two to just say thank you but no. I respond to every msg I receive even those a 1,000 miles away.


licher4hrs 62M

11/7/2014 1:40 pm

 If you have guys locally that are not what they say they are do not give up there's probably more out there then you think they just dont know how to correspond with a lady


jerrbear3567 57M
1 post
10/24/2014 3:31 am

 I totally agree with you but I have to say, I have met some awesome people on here and met in public I can say I have been with one woman from this site and have not sense because of the BS games like lets meet, and like you said when it comes down to it, all reasons stop it from happening, Maybe it is just a game to them or MOST, but I know there are real people on here, just have to take the time to weed out the fakes, which so far has been a wait for me..lol Hope you have an awesome week and good luck on you're search..Jerry


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