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Kissing  

40BATS 54F
133 posts
2/5/2014 10:48 am
Kissing

What is kissing for you? I am finding that no one wants to kiss anymore and that is saddening to me.

So I am posting this poll to ask your opinions on why that is.

A mode of foreplay
An expression of lust/desire
A necessary evil
An unwanted act
An addiction
Other: and please explain


AlabamaJama53 25M

12/19/2021 6:04 am

A kiss to say good morning and a kiss to say goodnight.
A kiss to start a fire or another to end a fight.
A kiss because I love you. A kiss because I need you. A kiss to raise to raise your spirits.
I can't shower you with fucks; but I can with kisses.
The single most strongest muscle in your body is your tongue; that sensual appendage lurking behind your lips, always at the ready to enhance your kiss.
I blow you a kiss from across the room and prove my affection from afar.
A kiss usually marks the beginning of a Wonderful night of sex. When used properly it will mark the end as well.

All of these things that are of the kiss and yet still so many more examples. The abundance of which is only limited by my imagination...


Numbers65Man 73M
9 posts
12/29/2015 5:40 pm

All of the above plus one more... It is the most basic of all forms of human caring. Whether it is a kiss on the lips, on the forehead, on the tip of the nose or on the cheek it is a sign between two people that there is a connection.


loveable431 80M
9 posts
9/10/2015 7:35 am

I agree with so many of the comments made. I for one love to kiss, it always turns me on, and I don't mean always sexually. To kiss a woman's soft lips and her response (that is if she knows how to really kiss and not open her mouth wide open) I have been told that I am a great kisser, I kiss so softly on the lips and I enjoy spending a lot of time doing so. I think one of the biggest problems is, men and women don't really know how to kiss. If I am attracted to a women and we are kissing friends, I love to just take them in my arms and make sweet love to their lips, sex is not always needed. Just the closeness. Women tell me a lot that men in their past didn't like a lot of foreplay or none at all. To me that is the most important part, the same as taken her in your arms and just holding her close after having great sex while she comes down off that high. Kissing is an art, so practice makes perfect as they say and it can be so much fun and enjoyable.


dafocker44 64M
986 posts
7/19/2015 8:55 pm

What happened to kissing to say "Good Morning!" Or, I'll be right back, I gotta get a beer from the fridge! How about Kissing to say I missed you as i worked today! Maybe kissing just to kiss? Kiss me when you get up to leave the room and kiss me when you return! Kiss me til I tell you not to. Then kiss me some more. Let me know that I am special and I will do the same to you. I may even do it before you get to.

Two lips pressing together. Its not that hard and it helps you live longer!

[I]Da Focker!!


rm_maxx201199 63M
8 posts
2/28/2015 3:45 pm

I love kissing, it's a way to say HI, good bye, hi sexy I missed you, just because or because you turn me on and you really need some serious kissing. I like kissing those sexy lips of yours, behind your ears, your throat, the back of your neck, between your breasts, slowly up your spine and then back down again, behind your knee, on your beasts, slowly up your legs from your feet to your mouth, Your nipples, your thighs, your eyes, your clit, your pussy and then back to that sexy mouth of yours.

I really like kissing!


bigmeatypenis69 59M
9 posts
12/31/2014 9:27 am

I love to kiss a woman as part of great sexual experience - hours of passion must have hours of kissing!


chris1312we12 45M
2 posts
12/9/2014 8:45 pm

To me kissing is part of sex.For me kissing gets me going and turned up.I love to kiss a women passionatly and then make sweet love to her


hollydazed 110M
18 posts
9/12/2014 11:02 pm

Kissing is one of my favorite addictions.Its all of the above choices and can be oh so much more.


livelifegood1 56M
2 posts
7/27/2014 2:09 am

i think kissing is something that shows close ness and part of love making.people do not ghet close and or comfortable enough to feel .like holding hands or walking through the store and rubbing her hair like it has calming effect on them .there is no relaxing letting gaurd down and realy feeling all the litle shit that is so great .BECAUSE NO ONE REALY CARES about any one more than them self. just my thoughts .i was raised old school on how to treat a woman and when some one is with you and at same time so far off theres no room for one to hold her face in his hands and look in her eyes with meanig and kiss her softly and with all that in one to share to love and passion through that single kiss.


Adventurecpl47 76M/71F

5/19/2014 4:50 am

I (male 1/2 of the couple) like to share kisses.
#1 is the build up to other sexual play. Long hot wet kisses
Then there is the body kisses as part of oral sex.
My favorite kiss is the snowball kiss ... the finish of a blow job, I have cum in her mouth and I get a nice sticky kiss that tastes of my cum.


dean12570 54M
1 post
3/8/2014 5:19 pm

kissing a mate is a sighn of mutral compatable and my fave show of expresion


sacto95825 56M
95 posts
2/18/2014 6:18 pm

I wish one could vote for more than one entry ... should i have voted other, if I would have liked to check off the first two?


40BATS replies on 2/20/2014 4:48 pm:
Why two?

shycanuck 47F  
169 posts
2/14/2014 10:33 pm

I love kissing and I find that many men I have been with have been like Eponia said kiss once or twice then pound the fuck out of you..... I seem to have to keep looking for the man who wants to lick my lips slowly and use foreplay more often...


40BATS 54F
197 posts
2/14/2014 9:09 pm

So far...No one has had anything negative to say (or vote) about kissing. So why is that people don't kiss anymore? If it is an expression of lust/desire (as most of you have voted) then why is it a dying art?


rm_1eroticjoe 63M
3768 posts
2/13/2014 3:38 pm

I absolutely LOVE kissing. I assume you are talking about real kissing, not that thing you do with your Momma, Daddy, Kids, or Brother/Sister. It's that special thing you do to show your affection. It doesn't have to be foreplay but it better be a part of it, every time!

If you can't kiss me then, damn it, you don't care nothing about me. That simple, isn't it?


BlackSword84 39M

2/13/2014 12:19 pm

Kissing is a Swiss Army Knife in a sense: jack of all trades. It can be simple and sweet, just showing simple affection. It can be the spark that leads to lovemaking. It can be the aggressive flame that leads to mindbending sex/fucking. It all depends on the intensity of the kiss and how/when/where it is used.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
2/12/2014 11:10 am

Kissing is a very imtimate way of saying "I love you and want you." It is also one of the most potent forms of foreplay and if done with total focus and love will leave you both breathless, with your "bits and bobs" leaking and slippery and your hearts and souls merged with the Infinite.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


rm_Bikebladeski 59M
31 posts
2/10/2014 5:58 pm

It's the most intimate expression of desire . . . 's @ BATS


cs1df2 41M
1463 posts
2/6/2014 6:57 pm

I went with other because I think it can be each of those things and many more - just a few that come to mind:

"I've missed you"
"Thank you for being you"
"I'm sorry you hurt"

Though overall I agree with you it is saddening ...but for me what's been done to hugs and dancing seems even worse (almost seems like physical contact has been sexualized to the point it's nearly impossible to even touch others at all)


40BATS replies on 2/6/2014 8:08 pm:
Too true about hugs and dancing. I was raised to give firm handshakes and real hugs. Now hugs are mere pats on the back or, like you have stated, a sexual form of touching. I cannot speak on dancing since I haven't dance with anyone in a while. But I am sure that what you have stated is true.

sexynewf61 62M
2876 posts
2/5/2014 1:54 pm

I agree with dragnr8 in that kissing is absolute. I enjoy kissing my partner anytime & every time. I have been in a relationship where if I went to kiss the lady while we were out with friends or while friends were at our house, she would shoo me away.

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40BATS replies on 2/6/2014 8:00 am:
That's horrible. Kissing, to me, is what leads up to the sex. To kiss in front of others is one of the best ways to show affection and lust.

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