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Why do poeple message you when your profile clearly shows you aren't what they want  

TripKitty 53F  
31 posts
1/27/2011 8:43 am
Why do poeple message you when your profile clearly shows you aren't what they want


I get quite a few emails from people, men and couples, who seem very nice and sincere but when I read their profiles they are clearly not looking for the same thing I am or our compatability (distance, body type, age) don't match. Why would they do that? It leaves me in a bit of a spot as I have to decide to write back or not.

*sigh*...frustrating.

Up until this point I've e-mailed most back and they have been quite nice (except for one who was a bit of an ass)

How do others handle this I wonder.

hell_yeah200573 50M

1/27/2011 3:14 pm

totally your decision how you respond to ppl or not respond. and if they can't handle it , thats there own problem and will have to deal with it without showing there immaturity


sexysteve332 45M

1/28/2011 5:41 am

I agree with hell yeah.Now if i could only get a few to decide


TripKitty 53F  
7 posts
2/3/2011 4:24 pm

That's a reasonable thing to do discreet: Good idea and very good reasoning for us Standard members


kweav 69M

2/7/2011 6:45 pm

I wish I could meet someone who will make me happy and put a smile on my face every day.Thats a big wish, but wishes do come true. If I find her and moving my butt to be with her is needed,thats not an issue at all. You would think living in a big city would be an asset,but its not. I long for a peaceful environment and I will find it.


luv2lickurpusss 65M

4/2/2011 5:13 am

I have to agree with discreet... I'm a standard member, and immediately I could only see so much of your profile.. I'm attracted to larger ladies, and I see you have larger breasts, so I'm hoping you're big all over.. big bum, thighs, etc.. I would message you if I was able, so being unable to flirt, or message you, I'll hotlist you, hoping you'll be curious about me and maybe check out my profile to see if I'm someone you might be interested in...


Daveplaces22 64M
1 post
4/14/2011 2:50 pm

TripKitty

As a standard member, we can't see all the profile in here. Emails are sent to see if there is an interest. Those who reply I thank you even if I am not your type!

Have a great day!

Email me

Later

Dave


funloverns 55M
18 posts
5/8/2011 8:12 am

Keep in mind that some of you women are very sexy! It is very easy for a man to get caught up in desire and e-mail someone when they are not what you are looking for, they are hoping against reason, often what passion equates to. Having said that you and I are a 5 point match


DaphneANewGirl 69T

5/23/2011 6:36 am

I don't get too much in the way of responses, but I do get the odd comment on my blog. I am mainly looking for female friends, no sexual activity intended. I figure community first, then let the sex come spontaneously.


busty_curious2 56F

6/12/2011 3:45 pm

I have also received emails that had nothing to do with what I am looking for and sometimes I answer and sometimes I dont, but I guess taking a chance sometimes is ok cause you get to chat with interesting people even if they are not quite what you're looking for


Shadow_44 44M
16 posts
6/15/2011 2:06 pm

In all truefullness im a standard member and i only read the part of a profile i can see !! If anyone send's me a e-mail i resopnd because idd rather someone talk to me and ask me qustion's rather then assume ive seen there profile. I cant send them a e-mail and that suck's because there are a lot of women on here i would love to talk too and get to know, Not just read a profile.


novascotiaguy1 43M

8/6/2011 7:40 am

Cant blame guys for wanting to email you trip


steadyfreddy22 68M
1 post
8/30/2011 9:27 am

I agree with the standard profile story....its very frustrating trying to read and only get a few lines.....when u see a pic as lovely as yours is we certainly want to know more....as standard we cant even initiate emails which is a real bummer.....


toofast2byawho 40M

10/9/2011 5:57 am

Hi. I'm a standard member and can't read most profiles But I had to say your pic looks amazing. I would love to chat and maybe get to know you.


long_fore_player 70M
5 posts
10/14/2011 5:11 pm

Hello,
Being standard ...blah blah blah...you know no power.
Anyway I answer everyone who contact me females males and couples. I feel we are all here for intimate contacts. I respect their interests and politely decline when I'm not of the same mind. There is no point in being rude to anyone, Even though as you all I'm had some rude responses. We move on and enjoy.


ludwig202 72M
11894 posts
3/15/2019 1:09 am

Hello
you are a wonderful woman elegant attractiv and super sexy all you want as a friend i also you are here the queen 1000 kisses


HaliFWB 50M
25 posts
4/1/2019 2:55 pm

Sadly as a standard I can’t view profiles or send emails to find someone compatible to myself .. frustrating at times


ScottBNS 65M
23 posts
4/24/2019 6:44 pm

I agree with Dave... as a standard member I cannot see your desires and compatibility needs.... it is just tempting to contact a sexy woman and see where it goes !!


Newguy0784 37M
18 posts
6/10/2020 4:12 am

I agree with with of the comments where being a standard member it hard to read profiles . So the only way to find out something about some is to ask and most times gets no response.


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