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Up your dating game with strategic touch
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Up your dating game with strategic touch I copied this but forgot where.. It is still worth reading. How to send your date's sexual mercury through the roof Cheek When The moment she arrives. How Go French and kiss her gently on each cheek says Dr Simon Moore, co-author of Complete Psychology. Why A recent University of California study found two light, quick kisses was the most positive potential greeting for a member of the opposite sex on a date. Upper arm When On the way to the restaurant. How “Initiate non-predatory, non-sexual contact as quickly as possible,” says Judi James, author of The Body Language Bible. “Think of it as a ‘checking’ touch.” Why A study by Missouri Western University in the US found even a slight hand brush on the upper arm was enough to cement a positive opinion of the giver. Shoulder When Arriving at the restaurant. How “Help her out of her coat while you continue talking,” says Moore. Touch at least one shoulder cleanly. Why In a study at DePauw University in the US, volunteers were able to communicate ‘love’ to a blindfolded stranger’s shoulder with 78% accuracy. Back When Showing her to her seat. How “Her back is a hugely sexual area,” says James. “Start with non-sexual, flat-hand touching – you aren’t playing a piano – before graduating to light finger play as the evening progresses: later, try running your fingers in small semicircles on her back.” Why “This is a non-personal area, so a great place to stroke if you’re not yet certain that anything more obvious would be welcome,” says James. Forearm When She’s finished her main course. How Her temperature is building: it’s time for a definitive move, says James. “The inside of her lower arm – near her wrist – is your target.” Why A Kinsey Institute study showed the wrist was one of a woman’s most responsive areas. Palm When Any time you really make her laugh. How You’re already one nil up. “As you sell your punch line, touch her palm, almost accidentally as you gesticulate,” says Moore. “If she touches you back, keep this up – increasing duration each time you make a key point or reach a punchline.” Why “Her hands, mouth and tongue have the most sensory representation in her brain – and are the most responsive to touch,” explains US sex therapist Nan Wise. As you won’t be touching her mouth Waist When As you’re leaving the restaurant. How Don’t whip her into your body, Flamenco dancerstyle, but execute a gentle, non-pressing arm around her waist, says James. “Just keep away from her stomach – women are uncomfortable being touched there.” Why Close proximity to your body heat will raise hers. Plus, a Queen’s University study in Canada, found women take sexual clues from ‘safe’ touch, such as around her waist. Hand When Hailing a cab for your next stop. How Open the car door for her and take her hand. Why “This is a friendly, a ectionate gesture and strengthens your bond,” says James. A study by the University of Illinois found that even (seemingly) incidental contact like this between tutors and students could significantly strengthen their bond. Knee When In a late-night bar, alone. How It’s do or die time. “Reach over and gently stroke the back of her knee or top of her calf,” says Wise. “Areas like these and her underarms are both underrated and extremely erogenous.” Just don’t go for her underarms on date one. Why “Skin surfaces that don’t get a lot of attention are more sensitive to touch because they haven’t been exposed to as many stimuli,” says Wise. Time for another cab soon… Fingers When As you’re relaxing in the taxi. How “Run your fingers around her palm, before gently meshing your fingers with hers,” says James. Why “This mimics how your bodies interconnect during intercourse,” says James. It’s a protective and intimate move that should get you invited in for coffee. So, after reading it, what does everybody think? Me personally, I think it might work...in some cases. Here are my thoughts... If woman is quite interested in the guy and thinking she might be interested in sleeping with him then this touch could be what slowly turns her on enough to get her over the edge. If on the other hand she is going on the date and is not initially all that attracted to the guy this amount of touching could be what turns her off. I think would would be important here would be to do a first time touch, making it look casual and judge her reaction. Is she looks uncomfortable and starts to withdrawn her appendages into a closed off stance then back off and take the hint. If she leans on more, giggles, touches her hair, looks deep into your eyes, etc, then she might be ready for the next subtle touch and will start to do some touching of her own. Has anyone used these touching techniques to turn a woman on? Does anyone want to try them? Who thinks this is silly and never going to work? |
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I read this expecting a good laugh like most advice you see online. There are some good ideas for initiating "non-creepy" touch here though. Touching doesn't turn a woman on if she's not already turned on. It's a little misleading how they made these touches seem like magic tricks. They should have told guys they need to calibrate their touching and when to touch and when to back off. It's still a good article though.
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