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Getting a pizza, how to talk to a woman and how to not talk to a woman
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Getting a pizza, how to talk to a woman and how to not talk to a woman I went down to my local take and bake pizza shop (it's better tasting, cheaper, and I'm frugal) and I was helped by a cute 20-something chick. As always I walk along with my pizza, watching as it is made. I have never had anyone skimp on the toppings while I am watching. She was irritated with some co-workers that were lazy and not wanting to do their jobs. I'm glad I didn't end up with them making my pizza. She commented to a good co-worker about some troubles she had at work, I joined in with a couple of casual comments relating to what she was dealing with. She was taken aback a little. I don't think she was used to customers talking to her, but she smiled and we talked a little more. Just customer / employee friendly chat. When she was finished making my pizza, I commented to her that she did a good job with making it. She was surprised, commenting that she rarely ever has customers tell her that. Other co-workers get that all the time, but she almost never hears that. I reiterate that she did indeed make a good pizza, and find myself unable to say anything else, so I end up leaving. Two things are stuck in my head ... thus, this post. First, she truly did make a good pizza, and I am surprised that more people don't inform of that. Second, why in the hell can't I tell women that I would like to do more with them. I mean, I can be polite and have normal conversation, but to get any further ... I just ... freeze up. I can say that here, or on text messages ... but in person I freeze up, unless I have already said something to that effect on here (or text) Hell, I became great customer / employee friends with one gas station chick that I wanted to bang ... 2 and a half years I talked with her 3-4 times a week. I never could tell her, even when she informed me that she was going to a different station to work. I can't count the number of times I told myself that I would ask her ... This is why my wife was so surprised and glad for me when I finally asked a different gas station chick out ... seemed like it was going to work out, and then something happened and now she ignores me (friendly employee / customer chat has turned to icy, it's my job to help you) ... so I don't make it any harder on that one, I can get rang up by other co-workers ... I still have no clue what happened there. All this comes down to ... why can't I tell women I want to do more with them. I have a co-worker, older, kinda ugly married guy. He hits on chicks ALL THE TIME! He's gotten several chick's . I am awed by his brashness in just walking up and asking ... then I realize, I think I'm better looking, much younger, many of these chicks have admired me working ... and yet, he can get their numbers ... and I can't even ask them. Why couldn't I ask that one pizza chick if she wanted to do something later, or just her number (or give her mine). What is soo difficult. My co-worker says at worst, they say no ... Is that what hangs me up? The fear of being rejected? Or is it more, the fear of not being perfect ... I don't like doing things halfway or winging it. I do a fair amount of research and get decent to good at something before I try it, thus I usually succeed on the first attempt. Anywhere from medicine and the ability to heal, to car mechanics, to computer programming. I research a little, then ace what I want to do. Is that my problem? I want to ace asking women out? ... Isn't that a ridiculous thing to try to improve at? Women are so very different from one another. There is no way to truly improve at asking women out. I see blog posts from women complaining about guys that give misspelled one line sentances. Yet I leave a decent and well thought out comment on a woman's blog, and my comment gets ignored while some guys comment "let's fuk baby" gets a response of "I find you very interesting and would like to get to know you better, I saw that you try to contact me on IM, send me an e-mail please." ... What the?!? holy sh... I got "beat" for her attention by a flippin' elementary school drop-out ?!? ... Where in the heck was I going with this post??? Hmmm, Getting a pizza, how to talk to a woman and how to not talk to a woman. I got a pizza (it was yummy and very filling), I had polite conversation with a chick and left her feeling very good and happy. I couldn't ask her for her number to leave us both hot, sweaty, and blissfully exhausted ... I guess I covered it all, and spewed out some extra drudge that was floating around in my head. Have pizza, drink beer (or soda), be young, and have fun    -out- Visit my blog if you want to at thax013 and thank you very much! |
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