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Blogs > rm_UpNorthHiker > Any hope for a single guy?

Christmas Blues (balls)  

rm_UpNorthHiker 49M
11 posts
12/17/2009 9:18 am
Christmas Blues (balls)

Well it is that time of the year again, the Holidays, though one of my favorite times of the year it is also one of those times of year when I start to feel a little blue. It doesn't help that I find myself single this year for the first time in 14 years and am still trying to find out what it is a single guy does with himself.
I have had a few dates, not a lot but a couple, I think they went really well but they were all with woman who live at least an hour and a half away from where I am so the logistics don't always work out smoothly when trying to arrange more dates. Because of this I am going on quite the dry spell now and my body is screaming at me.."hey we desire physical contact asshole, get off your but and go find a nice woman to spend some time with". Another thing I have noticed about this time of year is that most everyone is busy busy busy with family, holiday parties, work events, etc. and it makes it that much harder to find a date.
I did meet an very nice girl at a Christmas party last week, she flirted with me, I flirted back, she seemed like she might be interested in me however she was wearing a ring on her wedding finger..so I was confused. She didn't talk about a significant other, she was very flirty, and in our conversations with each other and other people she came off like she was very much single. This led me to wonder about the proper way to bring up this subject, I mean how do you just come out and ask someone if they are married or not? It just doesn't seem right to me to ask that question without coming off kind of rude or something. Maybe I am wrong but that is just how it feels to me. Kind of like a cheesy pick up line or something.
Well that is all I have time for today, write more soon.
T

fenomenalfemale 47F
2 posts
7/9/2010 7:38 pm

 You just ask...and any gal worth spending time with will be upfront about it...


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