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Hello GoodNookee, These are good questions. I've been involved with a few MFM threesomes and hopefully can shed my point of view. 1. I don't go in to it expecting intercourse. Remember a MFM is all about pleasuring the woman. I for one take great pleasure in pleasing the woman. I have always discussed with them what is off limits and what is not before the clothes come off. An example may be no kissing. The couples I have been with all wanted me to fuck the woman except one. But after we got in to it, she was so turned on that it went out the window and they both wanted me to fuck her. But I think it is very selfish to expect it. 2.It is very possible for some soft play between the men, lets face it your going to be in close proximity.I myself am not bi and the men were all straight also so it wasn't a problem for me. 3. Can't answer for the couples, as I only swing solo. 4.My experiences have been awesome and I wish I could find a couple for regular get togethers, but there has to be a connection between all parties along with an attraction of course. For example, the two men flirting and hitting on the woman in a bar is a great prelude to take it to the next level. Having some things in common, like motorcycling, boating, also makes the possibilities endless. Hope I was able to help!
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Well said, Hot4hots3! This is why we put this up in the Blogs instead of the Forum. At least you looked to see what we had blogged about and read it. We always get email or IM's or comments in the Forums from single guys looking to hook up. We do not meet single guys from any online site because they want to hook up THAT instant. Some are polite, ask questions, have a brief conversation (online) and if we say not interested they accept that, and we all part as friends in the adult online community. Others will dive right in an ask things like, "will she fuck me?", "will she suck my dick?", will she do anal?", "has she fucked anyone before?", "When can we play, today? (most times they are geographically far away yet will drive across the state to meet up)". They beg for nude photos, have very incomplete profiles (if it is filled in at all) and of course no photos of their own, ( they "need to be discreet"). Even after politely telling them that we are more interested in finding couples, they will insist that they should meet us. Sometimes you have to wonder..... Hot4hots3 - I didn't meet for any soft play between the guys but my wife loves massages and soft play. (just wanted to clear THAT up) Since you are also a biker maybe this winter we will see you at some bike events. Let us know when you will be out and about.
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Oh I guess I did miss understand the soft play part. Thought you meant between the guys. Speaking for myself, I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as in the end, the woman allowed me to get off in some way. I would be so turned on that I would hate to leave with a hard on (LO if you know what I mean. Especially after massaging her! But I do enjoy giving a massage(and receiving one too).... Hey let me know when there's an event (biking) in the area. I don't get out much in the winter.I know what you mean, was chatting with a lady the other night about this. There are so many Dickheads out there and so many rude people. I say to people that the internet is a wonderful tool, but it is also our worst enemy and it will eventually bring an end to the America that we once knew.
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Hi have you had any luck yet? I gather that you rige, maybe we could meet up this summer at one of the bike events
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I agree with Hot4, You need to put out what you expect for limits. Know what you want from the experience. You need to discuss it before hand. If the wife only wants her man inside of her or only wants to give oral to her man, then state it up front. If the person you chose is willing to chat with you and share information, he should be willing to follow your wishes. I also know on this site there are many jerks, so beware. You two have been on here for along time and know. I have always thought sex was about pleasing the lady. She desires the pleasure any way she wishes.
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So what do you think GoodNookee? Should we get together for some indoor fun sometime?
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12/9/2015 3:15 pm |
Hi there GoodNookee. I would be interested in meeting up with you, and seeing if things would work out. Im a single male, 61. Str8 I would not expect intercourse on the first meeting or two. At some point I would hope that would just happen. So yes I would enjoy being a soft play partner. It would be fun to just pleasure the female mfm. Ive done a mfm once before. It was fun. I would say, being the extra guy, you need to set the ground rules ahead of time. Meet the extra first, get to know him a bit. maybe meet for drinks and conversation the first time, and if things seem right make plans for a playdate then.
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Great questions.... I'm just going to state that communication between the parties is paramount! If the ground rules are given, and then there shouldn't be expectations of any kind... That being said, some gentlemen aren't as cool as others! -NFE
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Your questions are well thought out. However I want to speak out for adding a male to make a trio. Yes, there are males (and females) who are not polite, thoughtful, etc. and that puts one on guard. But please know that there are males out there who would add much to the trio and be open to communicate what the limits are and what to expect. Sometimes one has to go throw lots of toads to find the prince but the effort might just be worth it. Mature Male Looking to Please
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I STARTED DOING 3SUMS & PARTNER SWAPS W'EN I was 16, so YES, I ave experience, grin. Best advice I can give is meet first in a public [lace, t'en if all goes well, c'oose you play place.
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Am now 10 miles away n Winona. Can be a 'soft-playmate" if that is what you wish, a good 3rd should be ready to be whatever the woman of the cpl wants him to be ! wdbridgedragon on ya ho o
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I volunteer and hoping you are still looking!!! Mature Male Looking to Please
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Hello, we like what you have to say in your profile, as well as your ages. Maybe we can get to know each other and see how things go.
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10/3/2018 7:34 am |
I would ove to be the third guy> I am local too. I am willing to be coached on what you expect and don't expect. I am a complete gentleman and respectful to all
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Love the profile. In all respects being the third one has to accept the cpls boundries that they set. Being pushy or disrespectful will not win favors of any kind. I have been in a 3sum where the woman sets the rules of engagement an totally her choice if she feels comfortable with the third guy getting his oats but i for one enjoy what the other two get out of the fun. I am bi an do enjoy soft play with all. Hope to become chat friends if interested. AS usual distance is the issue. Thanks in advance of any responce.
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Great questions! The bottom line is you only bring in men who respect your wishes and boundaries. Should be a lot of discussion prior to play, and as others have noted, it's all about the woman, Some of us men like pleasing women orally more than just about anything, so I don't think it would be difficult to find one. We like the idea of 2 couples so both women can be the center of attention. In any event, good luck! M&D
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to be pleasing the women would be the only goal and she can say what she and who to be pleasing her at said time
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