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7/18/2010 11:32 am |
Hopefully something will work out, I am in japan and over here being a Black American is very limited who you can meet on this site. You try to talk with them and the first thing they think is playboy...Not all of us are that way, Everyone say be patient, but 7 months is patients enoug I think...I will do a experiment to see if face to face out in town, is better than on this site amd get back to you on it. I am shy, but not scared..
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8/9/2010 5:23 pm |
I'd like to add my two cents and then ask a question. It's not SO much easier to get laid online than in the real world. And if you want your best shot, don't say something to me in an email that you wouldn't say to me in person. "Hey slut, let's fuck" is less effective than "I really like your profile and would love to chat with you more about your fantastic fetish." That said, I get about ten emails a day, when I respond to someone saying "thanks for contacting me, but I'm not interested" I wind up having to have a conversation about why and then get insulted when I say no. Of course, when I don't respond at all, I get insulted. So it is better to get insulted by not responding or by responding?
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8/15/2010 6:49 pm |
I agree with .. First Email .. I wanna do ya...F and S Those Tits.. is a turn off.. Written in a comment with my PICS.. I have no problem with..
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8/26/2010 4:10 pm |
You make several good points here Ryan,I am sure that women do approach this site differently than men do ad men need to realize it.Regarding your comment about how tons guys have figured this site out and had a great time here think that depends on ho0w you look at it,because given the huge number of men here,yes many are going to do well,but I bet if you look at the percentgage of men here that do well that you would see that it's a low number.
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8/31/2010 9:20 pm |
Interesting. I've been here twice- once for 3 months about 5 years ago (successful) and about two months this time (not so successful.) Things seem different now vs. then- I don't recall the same volume of scammers, and where in the past Women seemed to want to spend some time "breaking the ice" in communication of some sort,the majority of profiles I viewed this time around were quite blunt about wanting minimal communication - "I don't need a chat/ e- mail buddy" seems a pretty common sentiment on the profiles I have viewed lately. The group suggestion is good, but in looking at groups this time around , most in my area seemed quite inactive. Doesn't help much to join a group based 1000 miles away , unless you do so on the outside chance that someone in your area participates there as well- hence the suggestion to look at ones group interests on their profile, I suppose- I'm realistic- My age and "status" are a big handicap, and I will admit that I haven't necessarily brought my "A" game to bear - (Gold membership and face pic mandatory for the "big leagues".) I'm Just surprised at the lack of curiosity and casual interaction ( that can often lead to something more) that is lacking here.... It's more like making a car purchase ("I want this, I don't want that") than a meeting place-
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These are all red flags and not only should you be extremely cautious, but frankly, end it and report them to the abuse dept. This is typical scam routine.
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9/12/2010 7:30 pm |
Very well Put! Passion and love making!
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9/12/2010 7:32 pm |
Wow that is something so serious,it never pays to be too careful at any time! Passion and love making!
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9/12/2010 7:46 pm |
Well i`m in Ga. and within the area i live in most of the guys do not want ot pay for the gold membership, frankly this site is pretty good it has it faults like everything else. The men and the women on this site are about the same. Form what i hear and i know men are out number over here and some men just dont know what to say and most of them are afraid of their own shadow! As far as they want see how many legs will spread open, well good luck with that. I say it`s time for me to give it a rest. NoStrings is been good times and bad times. I say to all who know me , met me, hug me, talk to me, etc. best of luck to whatever you trying to hold your pants up with. Maybe come back later and have some fun. Passion and love making!
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really agree wit this.. sex is the best1
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10/19/2010 10:51 pm |
i understand that this site is a business, and the business always needs to make money. i understand that if your a "standard" member its in the best interests of the site to spark interest and get the standard member to go silver if not gold. here is where i have an issue, i am gold and i am still getting the BS bot messages, you know the ones, an odd email, a view, or a wink any of the things you can do on the site but yet the profiles are non-existent or turned off as soon as the items are sent. really? come on now, can you find away to stop doing that, its just really annoying and IMO if your already paying, why send BS...
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Lots of great advice, not just for the guys, women also. From my own experiences and from what I have read here.In a nutshell.. 1.location,state where your at(closure to their location, more likely to succeed). 2.Perfer not to say answers,what's up with that, more than likely than not you'll be bypassed(unless you on here to just jackoff..lolll..if so state your wishes on profile). 3.A pic of some short is helpful(tastefully done)make sure it's you.. how disappointing when you finally met up..person in the pic looks nothing like the person sitting across from you. 4.real encounters,honesty(not going anywhere without it)be assertive, not overly just enough to hold their interest. 5.respectful(eg.don't send the first email stating how you want your dick sucked..that comes later..lolll). 6.effortless sex..NOT SO..read htypassaty (post)..very nicely put... 7.DO NOT CONTACT SOMEONE JUST FROM VIEWING APIC(read the profile)don't ask unnessary questions that are answered on profile in front of you... Happy hunting....
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I have tried almost every approach people say works on this site and have had no luck. I do agree that there are a lot of women here just looking. Would like a lady to help me out.
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11/28/2010 11:38 am |
next to education Porn /social sites , are the biggest scames going today,. bite this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Well, I have (finally) got on to have regular chats and emails and even invitations (for sex) after a few mistakes. What I found out from my area is that they like to read profiles that have some nice writeups to show your intellectual side and not a line that says "I want to sex up up". They also do not like to be ask to have sex in the first email. Exchange several emails, chat and treat them with respect and not some sex toy. Another thing I noticed is that they prefer to view the first profile picture of something else and not your Huge dick. It is like shiving your manhood in their face before even getting to know you. It turns them off.
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Put a regular picture up of you and answer everything on the profile. Only try to get together with women who you have a reasonable chance of driving to meet, not ones who are several states away.
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1/31/2011 3:21 pm |
well gentlemen, I am a returned member, met in real time with a couple and also on match .com met ladies and yes had sex on first date, not my idea thiers. and now I am Libya, and in 3 weeks will meet someone in Paris, let me tell you, read, write a e mail and not just a one liner, use spell check to for errors, pictures well thats up for debate, your dick only in your profile well I don't know about that, unless you have something to hide, have talk with many woman on this site from all over the world here, hope to meet them all, not always for sex either some are great people, so relax chill out and get to know people good luck
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4/4/2011 3:45 pm |
If you're a man looking to meet a "tgurl" aka a transgendered woman I suggest the following: 1) Say something "normal" in your first message/page as opposed to "hey baby" or "what are you looking for" and you'll increase your chances of getting a response, 2) Avoid asking a tgurl questions like "how long is it" or "do you top" because you'll likely find that the tgurl will end that conversation quickly and 3) PLEASE think of something more mature to ask than "how long have u been this way?" or "what made you be a tgurl?" If you ask such questions or make the above listed statements you're likely to see the chat window go empty and it will be YOUR FAULT not the tgurl's. Hint:Treat a tgurl just like a woman you'd very much like to meet and make a good impression on and your odds of success or of at least making casual friends will be much, much better!! Enjoy!!!
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4/15/2011 9:57 am |
you are right but i still like your pic
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I feel don't feel that the Ladies profiles should be completely free but they should have a little more access when they first join to give them an opportunity to experience what the site has to offer and if they are really interested in the site and genuinely want to meet they would have to get a paid membership to continue their NoStrings experience. If a woman has a paid gold or silver membership this verifies that it is a real profile and not a fake or phony.
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yea, all users should pay. 5 years ago most of the site and what you could do was open to all, but over time that went away. Making users pay helps reduce the fakes on here. as for the original blog topic, that is very good advice, and so true that most peeps don't read full profiles, sometimes not even the header!
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envie de vous les filles
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5/13/2011 8:18 pm |
Do any of these sites really work? Over the years, I've been on them (this one included) off and on. Never had much success. I know I suck at writing profiles and talking about myself, but I feel that if someone were to take the time to get to know me, I'm a very desirable catch. I've re-written my profile many times, each time trying to play on my positive attributes, but always lose out. I hate to say it, but in my opinion, the women on these sites are looking for eye candy, and if you're not perfect in every way, you're sol. "What's inside" is no longer applicable. Just my humble opinion, take it or leave it.
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Good advice!
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