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Male Penis Attraction Below is a comment someone made on 1 of my blogs. I would ove to have some other comments on the subject. _________________________________________________________________ THEY WROTE: I think I understand you... same as men find lesbians very sexy and are excited about lesbian actions you are excited seeing two men at the same time nacked doing nasty things... I think you are truly emancipated and I find this cool. BUT I think men are different, while the woman is made for loving (motherslove) . men are more made for deposing the sperm in the right place for ensuring to have descendants, they are more rational and less emotional. so for beeing able of homosexual acts for a man is more dificult because he has to turn off his rational thinking. Or he must have a special talent for this. ----------------------------------------------------------------- I RESPONDED: Thank you for the comment. I am not of the opinion that sexually "men are more made for deposing the sperm in the right place" and are "more rational and less emotional". I believe society (maybe especially American society) raise the males to be and think like that but as you mentioned ... I am emancipated (mentally free). I believe any man can be just as emancipated. And quite possibly that would allow more men to accept and be comfortable with bi-attraction (or even gay-attraction). I'm not saying it will make them bi or gay but I do believe there are allot of men who are on the "down-low" and/or in the closet about their attraction to penis that is not their own. Unfortunately it's not just society that makes it hard for men to accept and be comfortable with their sexual openness or ability to be attracted to gender variety. It is also many female's insecurities that reinforces the unacceptability of it all. How about all of us ADULTS take anatomy out of the guidelines for sexual attraction. See what is really in ones subconscious and accept it rather one chooses to act on it or not. OK ... uhhh ... help me back into the shallow end of the pool. tehehee ... thank you for the bling too. Smiles... ================================================================= Your thoughts on the subject please ... ???? |
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1/15/2009 12:41 pm |
Well I think of sexuality on sort of a Kinsey continuum. For each individual there are varying levels of attraction to each gender. Most people are probably slightly attracted to the same sex, some none, and some completely with no attraction to the opposite sex.
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I'm an openly bisexual man having finally taken the 'plunge', with help from this site I might add, about 6 years ago. Since that time I've been quite literally with countless men and have found, much to my surprise a number of interesting things to be true. First off, and really not part of what I'm getting at there but I disagree TOTALLY with the notion that men are "more rational and less emotional". It's not true. I've ran across a NUMBER of very rational and unemotional women in my time as well and to just lump entire genders into categories like this is well... irrational  I spent 40+ years being bicurious. I was VERY turned on by the site of a cock and the thought of actually playing with one was just almost too much of a dream for me to even consider. I took the plunge though and found out a number of things about myself. 1) I AM bisexual. I love having sex with both men and women. (Actually I'm trisexual since I also love t-girls a LOT) 2) I LOVE playing with cocks and that curiosity I held for so long was there for a reason. 3) Embracing my bisexuality has made me a MUCH more complete person and I think a much better lover all the way around Btw, I'm also not a big fan of labels but that's a discussion for another day. Regarding men, I was surprised to find out just how tender and loving men can actually be ESPECIALLY to one another. Giving would be another word I would use and I've seen these attributes first hand not only one-on-one but in group situations as well. Surprised the heck out of me that's for sure. I thought male-to-male sex would be rough and crude and totally lacking in any kind of emotion and/or tenderness but this is NOT the case. Now I WILL say that when I'm 'dealing' with men, especially during the first meet/greet phase that we all go through, there are a WHOLE lot less games played and its almost ALWAYS so much easier to 'get to it' if you know what I mean. We guys seem to know exactly what it is we want and we don't spend a lot of time 'dancing' around. We're meeting for sex, we know it and the more time spent playing games means the less time we have for good ol sucking and fucking.. In groups, I've seen guys go out of their WAY to make another guy feel good, to make sure he's included and part of and enjoying the group. One on one, guys almost ALWAYS seem to look out for each other and make sure that each others needs have been met. It's amazing especially in light of the '' that us guys get from mainly women in regards to how little attention we pay to them sometimes eh? I agree with you totally in regards to taking the anatomy out of things and just letting your passions and love flow. Some of my favorite sexual experiences have been in bisexual group/orgies where everyone just enjoys everyone else regardless of gender or roles or what have you. I've often said that you've never really experienced sex until you've shared an orgasm with 5-10 of your closest friends. EVERYONE getting 'off' at the same time. WOW! LOL Great post, great question and I just LOVE you're attitude. I think you just might be a true Libertine, like me -tm
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THANK YOU!! ... there are quite a few men who like a little hugging after the doing. I personally only think a knob is pretty when I am 'into' the person it is attached to. I think pussies are more apt to be prettier. But that's just me.
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Well I think of sexuality on sort of a Kinsey continuum. For each individual there are varying levels of attraction to each gender. Most people are probably slightly attracted to the same sex, some none, and some completely with no attraction to the opposite sex. I have never heard of Kinsey but in my experience more than not are attracted to the same sex (even if they tend to not act on it). Smiles...
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I'm an openly bisexual man having finally taken the 'plunge', with help from this site I might add, about 6 years ago. Since that time I've been quite literally with countless men and have found, much to my surprise a number of interesting things to be true. First off, and really not part of what I'm getting at there but I disagree TOTALLY with the notion that men are "more rational and less emotional". It's not true. I've ran across a NUMBER of very rational and unemotional women in my time as well and to just lump entire genders into categories like this is well... irrational I spent 40+ years being bicurious. I was VERY turned on by the site of a cock and the thought of actually playing with one was just almost too much of a dream for me to even consider. I took the plunge though and found out a number of things about myself. 1) I AM bisexual. I love having sex with both men and women. (Actually I'm trisexual since I also love t-girls a LOT) 2) I LOVE playing with cocks and that curiosity I held for so long was there for a reason. 3) Embracing my bisexuality has made me a MUCH more complete person and I think a much better lover all the way around Btw, I'm also not a big fan of labels but that's a discussion for another day. Regarding men, I was surprised to find out just how tender and loving men can actually be ESPECIALLY to one another. Giving would be another word I would use and I've seen these attributes first hand not only one-on-one but in group situations as well. Surprised the heck out of me that's for sure. I thought male-to-male sex would be rough and crude and totally lacking in any kind of emotion and/or tenderness but this is NOT the case. Now I WILL say that when I'm 'dealing' with men, especially during the first meet/greet phase that we all go through, there are a WHOLE lot less games played and its almost ALWAYS so much easier to 'get to it' if you know what I mean. We guys seem to know exactly what it is we want and we don't spend a lot of time 'dancing' around. We're meeting for sex, we know it and the more time spent playing games means the less time we have for good ol sucking and fucking.. In groups, I've seen guys go out of their WAY to make another guy feel good, to make sure he's included and part of and enjoying the group. One on one, guys almost ALWAYS seem to look out for each other and make sure that each others needs have been met. It's amazing especially in light of the '' that us guys get from mainly women in regards to how little attention we pay to them sometimes eh? I agree with you totally in regards to taking the anatomy out of things and just letting your passions and love flow. Some of my favorite sexual experiences have been in bisexual group/orgies where everyone just enjoys everyone else regardless of gender or roles or what have you. I've often said that you've never really experienced sex until you've shared an orgasm with 5-10 of your closest friends. EVERYONE getting 'off' at the same time. WOW! LOL Great post, great question and I just LOVE you're attitude. I think you just might be a true Libertine, like me -tmGood for you!! Keep enjoying your journey!! Awesome authenticity!! Smiles..
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I read all the comments. All men as all women are different. It is too hard to group them as a whole. I have been around for a while and have traveled. There are many beliefs in this world. Islam believe women are for babies and boys are for pleasure. Talk to any soldier about free love Thursday overseas. I have also known some religions in the US believe the first marriage is for love and the second is for sex. Thus said, I do not get turned on by guys? No. When others talk of porn, that we are watching guys too, what I get off on is how much the women is getting into the sex. The biggest turn on for me is a woman cuming. I won't say other guys don't enjoy men, just I do not. I do love to watch a woman really getting in to sucking on a cock, but you would not get me to do the same? No. There is no desire or attraction for me to do that.
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