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A break up, divorce just takes time to recover from. I have read it could take up to 18 months to get over the loss. It sounds like a long time, but you just have to keep your chin up and keep on trucking. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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I'd be MORE worried about you if you weren't still hurting. Those Volatile ThreeWays Reconnecting Black amp White, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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2/28/2021 8:02 pm |
You gave this person a big piece of your heart. You went through good and bad times and survived. And he wants to move on as if all the years meant nothing. You make sure you get everything that is owed to you during the divorce. It is going to cost you to start your life over and learn to trust again. Be strong and stay healthy. Why
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Because he is a dick, and you don't deserve to be treated this way. Embrace the suck
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My guess is you cry because it hurts to be rejected. Even by fucktards. I hope you can turn it around and reject him. Why want someone who would treat you and your daughter as he did? He trashed your daughter. He is a jerk. He behaves like an asshole. Hell his brother doesn't even like him. He did what he could to ruin your relationship with MiniMe. You deserve way better than him.
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The heart wants what the heart wants. His wanted something else. Letting go is the hardest thing but once you do, that crushing weight will disappear. It sounds like he is doing everything he can to hurt you. The best revenge is not let him ever see you cry and instead smile and say “thank you for leaving me. Now I can find the man of my dreams” My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Good morning..... So you are the Baby that moved in with Pony. She and I have communicated, but I have dropped my paying membership on this site, and I don't know if i can post to blogs. I was divorced one time, and it is worse than a death. At least a death has some finality to it. A divorce leaves you with all kinds of questions. It will take time, and most probably a long time to be able to move on with your life. There will probably always be an empty spot and a gnawing somewhere. if there are no children involved, that is a good thing. I encourage you to try to not look at yourself as a failure, but try to start over with your life, and move on.
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First I want to say I hope this ay is starting with you feeling better. It hurts because you cared and he rejected you. It doesn't matter if he deserved your caring. Feelings just are, and often take time to get over. They also can hit you upside the head at the oddest times and hang on for way past the time you feel they should. You are a deserving woman Baby but it is hard when someone tells you otherwise for a long time. You will get past this and will have relapses into this sort of funk. Sadly, that is just way we humans are. You listen to Ponygirl as I am sure she has good advice. Meanwhile know that a lot of people care about you. Sending you big hugs. (Naked ones if you prefer them that way.) PS Have a great road trip with Ponygirl and Cowboy to pick up her dog. Don't forget to pack some toys and if you hear Ponygirl thanking Cowboy, listen close, grab the toys and make some loud noises back. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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Nothing wrong with a good cry now and again. Better out than in I say.  
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Breakups hurt. We have all been there. That old saying, time will heal and you will move on to better situations. Hang in there!!
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That's a question no one can answer. It is always sad when that happens.
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