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Busted by my Mother
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Busted by my Mother Yes... you read right... First off I do not have a very good relationship with my mother, but I do my very best to keep the peace in the family. One of her "rules" is that we talk on Sunday's... even if we have talked during the week, we still MUST speak on Friday via phone call. usually we take turns every other week calling one another . this is her way off keeping up with what is going on with her grandkids and life in general. Yes I hate it, I have asked for it to stop in the past, but that just stated a huge fight and made my life hell... so again I just do it it is easier that way... So last Sunday after church with the family I went over to "c" house to watch the packer game with his sons and a neighbor of his... so it was not like we were screwing on the couch or anything... during the game my mother calls... I answered it ( if you don't answer the call that is a bad thing as well) .... the conversation stated out normal, until a call was made in the game and everyone around cheered.... she heard the cheering and asked where I was " I said I was watching the football game with friends" her voice changed and the conversation was ended with , I am sorry I caught you at a bad time, I knew she was mad... when I told people at the party who it was and why she had called and the whole " I have to speak to her every sunday" they all stated picking on me.... I took it and laughed it off, but in side was so mad and embarrassed. I am 42 years old and should not have to check in with my mommy... So when the game and party was done , I drove home and I called her back again being the bigger person and I knew she was mad so again going to smooth things over... And she came right out and accused me of having an affair.... Now number 1 she is right, and I HATE that she is right, she is always fucking right.... Did I say I HATE it. But I didn't not let her know she was correct, she turned the situation into something about her, " she didn't want any surprises like my brother" ( ps my brother was divorced in 2012) Number 2 she HATES my husband, she has not liked him since we started dating in Middle school, she didn't like when we got engaged, and she didn't like when we got married except that she got to be " the mother of the bride" so she was center of attention in her circle of family and friends. So then I went on FB and posted a small rant... I never mentioned her, all I posted was I hated being treated like 12 year old and that I can choose my own friends at age 42. NOTE: my mother has no computer or smart phone and is not online in anyway. But my aunt who is on my page- called and told her what I wrote... with in 1 hour my mother called me back to yell at me for posting that, and that was not what she said.... OMG..I have been sick to my stomach all week, you know the feeling when you were a little and you did something wrong and you knew that when you got home you were in so much trouble... I am not looking forward to the phone call I have to make on Sunday, I know what you are thinking, don't call her... if I don't call her, things will be 100 times worse... If I don't call I will be confirming her thoughts and if I don't call she will turn this around to be that I am mad at her and I don't care about her and I will be the worst ever which will turn into I am keeping information from her.... trust me It sounds so easy to just say fuck off I don't want to talk to you anymore.... but this is so much bigger that that, everyone bows to this women, she has this control over so many. so my plan is to call on sunday , and act like nothing happened... give her the weeks highlights of the and if she says anything, I am going to simply say, I am not talking about my friends with her anymore. wish me luck... I will still probably be on the shit list xoxox Molly xoxoxo Molly |
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update, mother is old and crazy, she acted like nothing happened....all is back to fucked up normal.....lol xoxoxo Molly
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