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I'd have to agree  

rm_AJMichaelson 67M
84 posts
3/7/2007 3:50 pm

Last Read:
6/28/2008 1:51 pm

I'd have to agree


I recently read a post by a member [post 745373] (who, by the way, has some very sexy yet tastefully done photos of herself in her profile) who questioned why anyone would think she'd want to meet them if their profile included pictures of them having sex with someone else. I've thought about that, and from this man's perspective, I'd have to agree.

I'm very visual, and enjoy nicely done erotic photographs as much as the next person. Show me a thoughtfully composed shot of a gorgeous ass, and I'm a very happy camper. And on occasion, a nicely done photograph of two people engaged in sex can be quite arousing.

I've gotten messages from women indicating interest in me whose profile photo is of her getting plowed by some guy, and even when I WAS looking for someone, it just wasn't that appealing to me. Perhaps some out here are turned on by the idea of sloppy seconds, but I'm not.

Yes, yes...I understand that people are on here for sex and, in all likelihood, those who've contacted me have probably had sex once or twice before (sarcasm). But knowing that is different than seeing it, and frankly, the idea of being "next" does do something to me...it quickly throws the libido switch to "off."

So, a polite thanks...but no thanks.

AJ

nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
3/7/2007 8:59 pm

very nicely said a pic of two having sex if they were a couple looking for a 3rd person a man perhaps... but alot of men, even on sex site cant handle a woman who goes out alot...i can only imagine the type one would attract, having another mans anatomy stuck in her mouth. than again some men like pimping out their woman, i have to say noone i have ever met has asked to watch me with another man...they could never handle the heat

je ne regrette rien


bipolybabe 62F

3/8/2007 9:59 am

I went over and read her post. Thanks for the rec! But, I have to disagree with you both.

I find solo cock pictures kind of ridiculous. I feel sorry for lonely weenies and want to tenderly tuck them into a blankie. I find penises in action with a partner to be much more interesting to look at.

Would I have sex with a "playah" who has had his cock in lots of women? Yeah, if he's any good at it. (In my sexperience, most guys suck the first couple times (anxiety can plague me, too, so I'm empathetic), so someone who is looking to do me once and then add me to his trophy case wouldn't be of much interest. But someone who has learned what gives a woman a good time is much appreciated.)

Would I enjoy looking at the photos? Yeah, I find sexual photos arousing while I don't think the same of watching webcams. It just takes too long for webcams to get to anything that might be remotely interesting. Photos are immediate. I just insert myself into the photo and let my imagination take over. I get particularly turned on by a dick poised for anal penetration. Don't know why. It just does it for me!

BPB

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
3/31/2007 8:14 am

I couldn't agree more. While I acknowledge that anyone I meet here will have had sex with other people, I don't particularly want that fact shoved in my face.

My other pet peeve are the 'non-sexual' photos that show the person with their arm draped around someone of the opposite sex, and then that other person's face is blacked out. Again - I'm sure anyone who contacts me on here has an ex-wife or ex-girlfriend...but somehow I don't think she would appreciate that a photo of the two of you is being used to attract the next partner! Sheeesh! is it so hard for these people to find a picture of themselves alone?


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